In this episode, we explore the energetics behind comparison and why these emotions arise when we momentarily forget our own worth and sovereignty. Rather than judging or suppressing them, we look at how jealousy and envy reveal where your power has been placed outside of yourself and where your soul is asking for deeper self-recognition.

This conversation invites you to meet these emotions with clarity and honesty, understand their energetic impact, and use them as a pathway back to alignment. Because comparison doesn’t diminish you. It simply shows you where you’re ready to return to your own frequency.

"Good vibes only." "Just stay positive." "Everything happens for a reason."

Sound familiar? In spiritual communities, there's an unspoken pressure to always be high-vibe, to bypass the messy emotions, to slap a gratitude affirmation over genuine pain. But here's what nobody's saying out loud: toxic positivity is just fear wearing a spiritual costume. It's the fear of feeling what's actually there. And it's keeping you from the deep healing you came here to do.

In this episode, Lisa and Jane pull back the curtain on the shadow side of positivity culture. We're talking about why "love and light" can become a weapon, how spiritual bypassing keeps us stuck in loops we can't name, and what real emotional wholeness actually looks like. Spoiler: it includes the dark stuff too.

If you've ever felt guilty for not being able to "just think positive," or if you've been shamed for having a human experience in a space that only celebrates the light—this conversation is your permission slip to feel it all.

Here's the truth nobody wants to hear: you're never going to feel ready. That moment when everything clicks into place, when you finally feel confident enough to start your practice, launch that program, or step fully into your gifts? It's not coming. And waiting for it is keeping you stuck.

In this episode, Lisa and Jane get real about the myth of "readiness" and why courage—not confidence—is what actually moves you forward. Confidence is built after you take the leap, not before. We're talking about the fear that masquerades as "waiting for the right time," the perfectionism that keeps healers playing small, and what it actually looks like to trust yourself before you have proof that you should.

Whether you're an emerging healer afraid to charge for your gifts, a psychic still hiding in the spiritual closet, or someone who keeps saying "someday"—this one's for you. It's time to stop rehearsing and start living your mission.