...We're glad We don’t hate them, We just wish we didn’t love them.. It be like that sometimes. Pt 2

The Show Run Down:

-why do people still care after the breakup? How do we fight those feelings in a healthy way?

Steps to create space away from your ex

What needs to be said?

What did we realize?

The Inner Fight: Is this truly the last fight or argument? Are we really done?

Rules of engagement when dating again?

Whats Next? Tell them the next topic…

“what did this episode teach you?”

#theoriginsoflovingus

#afterthebreakup #nocontact

#toolu

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...We're glad We don’t hate them, We just wish we didn’t love them.. It be like that sometimes.

The Show Run Down:

Catch Up: recap of previous episode to lead into present episode’s topic

We discussed black history month, valentines day, etc, Chan had to vent real quick…

It was a lot of Ain’t Ish activity for the V Day.

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What do we do with old feelings? Should we check in? Did you block them, if so why?

-why do people still care after the breakup? How do we fight those feelings in a healthy way?

Steps to create space away from your ex

What needs to be said?

What did we realize?

The Inner Fight: Is this truly the last fight or argument? Are we really done?

Rules of engagement when dating again?

Whats Next? Tell them the next topic…

“what did this episode teach you?”

#theoriginsoflovingus

#afterthebreakup #nocontact

#toolu

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@therealwillray Twitter

@willraycomedy TT/IG

Part 2: I Don’t Have Time To Be Heartbroken

Last ep: how did we get here, the introduction of us and what we discussed

Catch up: What new with us?

We are really grieving what we thought in our minds…

• Maybe figuring out myself is what I need…
• Which L was it?!? Lust, Love or Loss

Story time: Do you really love fully twice?

Whats Next? Tell them the next topic… short snippet of it and stop…

#theoriginsoflovingus

#afterthebreakup #nocontact

#oolu

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I Don’t Have Time To Be Heartbroken

Last ep: how did we get here, the introduction of us and what we discussed

Catch up: What new with us?

• What does it feel like to be heart broken?
• How do you push through when you feel like shit?
• Do I want to open up about what I’m scared about?
• Do I want to be good to someone new? Am I over my get back stage?

We are really grieving what we thought in our minds…

• Maybe figuring out myself is what I need…
• Which L was it?!? Lust, Love or Loss

Story time: Do you really love fully twice?

Whats Next? Tell them the next topic… short snippet of it and stop…

#theoriginsoflovingus

#afterthebreakup #nocontact

#oolu

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• “Why did we create this podcast? What’s our objective?”
• What needs to be said:
• What did we realize?

Every break up aint a loss

GET THE LESSON AND MOVE ON

• Story time: 1 of the worst/best breakups of my life (explain this but Chan has to explain why she’s never had a “bad” break up)

Who’s fault is this? Was it theirs? Was it yours? Was it ours? What did we learn?

Alone vs. Lonely.

• 1. What’s the difference?
• 2. Do you like yourself when you’re “alone”? (let’s start there)
• 3. Things that can happen when you get “lonely”

The Inner Fight: From sex whenever I wanted to no sex at all ; Call or don’t call; healthy/safe space vs losing a friendship

Whats Next? Tell them the next topic...

#theoriginsoflovingus

#afterthebreakup #nocontact

#toolu

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@therealwillray Twitter

@willraycomedy TT/IG

Join Will Ray and Co Host Chantal, as they get real about the aftermath of relationship breakups. By using raw honesty, they share their experiences and opinions on: healing, accountability and vulnerability. They’ll take deep dives into the complexities of concepts like black love, self love, emotional growth, discernment, conflict management, helpful communication and more.

They blend personal stories with wisdom and comedy, so this podcast offers practical advice and heartfelt insights to help you work through the ups and downs of your next relationship. Nothing is off limits!! Just candid conversations to inspire growth, connection, and understanding.

Everyone experiences break ups but it doesn’t have to be nasty or toxic. We can navigate through these awkward feelings and situations like adults. Together. Our community used to thrive off of love & now, it seems like nobody believes in it anymore. Can Will & Chan help get us back on track? Tune in to find out

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