In this episode of the New Ashla Podcast, Mike and Justin explore the complex topic of narcissism, discussing its spectrum from healthy to unhealthy behaviors. They delve into the different types of narcissists, including overt and covert, and the impact of these behaviors on relationships. The conversation emphasizes the importance of empathy, accountability, and self-awareness in understanding and navigating narcissistic dynamics. They also highlight the significance of healing from narcissistic relationships and the role of compassion in fostering healthier connections.

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Takeaways

Narcissism exists on a spectrum, from healthy to unhealthy.

Overt narcissists are loud and attention-seeking, while covert narcissists often play the victim.

Healthy narcissism can promote self-advocacy and self-respect.

Gaslighting is a common tactic used by narcissists to manipulate others.

Empathy is crucial in understanding narcissistic behaviors and their impact.

Healing from narcissistic relationships requires self-awareness and boundaries.

Compassion does not mean tolerating toxic behavior.

The most traumatized individuals often become the best healers.

Chemistry in relationships does not guarantee compatibility.

Recognizing narcissistic traits can help in setting healthy boundaries.

Keywords

narcissism, covert narcissism, overt narcissism, healthy narcissism, malignant narcissism, gaslighting, manipulation, emotional abuse, trauma bonds, relationships, empathy, self-awareness, healing, toxic behavior, self-love, boundaries, ego, insecurity, control, projection, psychology, self-trust, accountability, shadow work, emotional intelligence, personal growth, trauma recovery, toxic relationships, narcissistic abuse, codependency, mental health, self-worth, emotional healing, spiritual growth, red flags, self-reflection, self-discovery, inner work, awakening, transformation, mindfulness, toxic dynamics, awareness, trust, honesty, authenticity

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In this episode of the New Ashla Podcast, Michael Perry, Justin Gates, and Allyson Perry-Turner explore the mystical tools of Reiki, astrology, and tarot. They discuss the growing popularity of these practices, the misconceptions surrounding them, and how they can be used as tools for personal growth and healing. Allyson shares her journey into these modalities, emphasizing the importance of curiosity and self-discovery.

The conversation delves into the practical applications of Reiki and astrology, highlighting their roles in navigating life's challenges and understanding oneself better. In this conversation, the hosts explore the profound connections between astrology, tarot, and personal growth. They discuss how astrology serves as a sacred mirror reflecting one's strengths and weaknesses, while tarot acts as a tool for intuition and self-discovery. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of asking the right questions and using these modalities to navigate the labyrinth of one's soul, ultimately leading to a re-storying of personal narratives through mythos. They discuss the mechanics of astrology and tarot readings, providing insights into individual readings for Justin and Mike. The conversation emphasizes the importance of curiosity, emotional awareness, and the interconnectedness of various spiritual practices. Allyson shares her offerings and the significance of one-on-one guidance in navigating these spiritual tools.

Takeaways

Reiki, astrology, and tarot are interconnected tools for healing.

Curiosity drives exploration in spirituality and personal growth.

Divination tools can help ask better questions about oneself.

Reiki sessions focus on channeling energy for self-healing.

Astrology provides a blueprint for understanding oneself and navigating life.

Personal experiences with energy work can lead to profound healing.

Astrology is not about predicting the future but understanding cycles.

The influence of planetary movements affects collective experiences.

Self-sovereignty is essential in personal decision-making.

Understanding one's birth chart can lead to deeper self-awareness. Astrology highlights strengths and weaknesses, guiding personal growth.

Tarot serves as a tool for intuition and self-reflection.

Both astrology and tarot can help individuals understand their paths.

It's essential to honor both strengths and weaknesses in oneself.

Asking the right questions is crucial for self-discovery.

Tarot can be used for shadow work and personal insights.

The integration of astrology, tarot, and Reiki offers holistic healing.

Mythos can help individuals uncover and rewrite their personal narratives.

Personal stories influence decisions and interactions with others.

Creating a new narrative empowers individuals to find purpose. Riverside is a powerful tool for recording.

Astrology and tarot can provide deep insights into personality.

Curiosity is essential for personal growth.

Emotional awareness is crucial for transformation.

Astrology influences can come from parents.

The journey of learning is never-ending.

Astrology readings can reveal hidden emotions.

Tarot cards can guide decision-making processes.

Spiritual tools should be used with integrity.

One-on-one guidance enhances understanding of spiritual practices.

Keywords

Reiki, astrology, tarot, mysticism, divination, healing, spirituality, energy work, personal growth, self-discovery, intuition, self-discovery, shadow work, mythology, re-storying, spiritual guidance, holistic healing, Astro Tarot, Spirituality, Personal Growth, Transformation, Emotional Healing, Intuition, Mysticism