The Need To Be Needed
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The Need To Be Needed
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I have been coaching a lot recently on why people find it difficult to enforce their boundaries.
The truth is, setting a boundary is easy, but enforcing it is the hard bit. Most people have it wrong, they think then when they tell someone not to interrupt them, that the person will then, not interrupt them.
The reality is that people will cross your boundaries and it's up to you to enforce them.
Now, often people don't enforce their boundaries because of the fear of upsetting the other person and not being liked, but recently I have noticed another reason - The need to be needed!
Often we complain that we are being constantly interrupted but if that person goes to someone else for help, we question why they didn't come to us. Suddenly we feel less important and not so valued.
This is what we discuss today, because as long as you 'need' something you will be dependent on it, and what we are dependent on we try and control.