The Money Talk to Have Before the Ring (What We Talked About Before He Proposed)
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The Money Talk to Have Before the Ring (What We Talked About Before He Proposed)
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You know how your partner takes their coffee and what they're scared of at 3 a.m. But do you know how much debt they have?
My fiancé and I talked about money long before he proposed, so by the time the ring showed up, there were no surprises on either side. In this episode I walk you through the money talk: why it matters, the 4 fears that stop you from having it, how to have it without a fight, what to actually talk about, and what to do after, because some things you can live with and some you really shouldn't ignore.
In this episode:
- why money secrets always show up at the worst moment
- the 4 fears: looking greedy, being judged, hearing the answer, ruining the vibe
- the reflection journal (paper, not ChatGPT)
- how to start the talk without a fight
- the 7 things to actually talk about
- how it went for me and my fiancé
- difference or red flag: what you can live with and what you shouldn't ignore
Your homework (ask each other):
- What did money feel like in your house growing up?
- What's one thing about money that stresses you out right now?
- What's one thing you want our money to make possible for us in 5 years?
Bonus, just for you: grab a notebook and write for 10 minutes: "Talking about money with my partner scares me because..."
CHAPTERS
0:00 The money talk before the ring
0:57 Who I am
1:37 Why the money talk matters
3:13 The 4 fears
7:13 The reflection journal
8:50 How to have the talk
12:12 What to actually talk about
16:28 How it went for us
18:36 After the talk: difference or red flag?
23:05 Homework
23:58 Wrap up
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