What happens when caregiving has no finish line?

In this episode of The Midlife Squeeze, Erica sits down with Jodi Coleman, a caregiver and author who has spent 18 years caring for her family.

Jodi shares how premature twins and neurological diagnoses changed motherhood, then how her husband’s brain cancer suddenly made her the caregiver, financial decision-maker, and family anchor. At the same time, her father’s Parkinson’s and her mother’s Alzheimer’s created another layer of responsibility.

Through it all, Jodi explains how humor became her saving grace, why asking for help matters, and why she wishes her family had earlier conversations about finances, care, and long-term planning before a crisis.

• Caregiving can build in layers until it becomes part of everyday life.
• A serious diagnosis can instantly change family roles, finances, and responsibilities.
• An existing long-term disability policy helped cover the family’s expenses when Jodi’s husband could no longer work. This was a detail she didn’t fully realize the value of until she needed it.
• Caring for children, a spouse, and aging parents can create an intense “sandwich generation” squeeze.
• Humor can provide relief and connection during long-term caregiving.
• Caregiving expenses can include treatment, residential care, rehabilitation, and long-term care.
• Jodi wishes her family had discussed finances, power of attorney, care preferences, and future living arrangements earlier, rather than addressing them during a crisis.

00:00 Jodi’s Caregiving Story

02:44 Where It All Began

02:54 Premature Twins and the NICU

07:37 Bringing the Twins Home

10:53 Recognizing Developmental Differences

13:27 Tourette Syndrome, OCD, and ADHD

15:18 Changes in Matt’s Behavior

19:18 The Brain Cancer Diagnosis

23:44 Becoming the Financial Decision-Maker

25:56 Learning to Manage the Family Finances

26:50 Starting Over in Florida

29:02 Her Parents’ Health Begins to Decline

30:33 Caring Across Three Generations

32:35 Balancing Care From Another State

35:10 The “Three-Ring Circus” of Caregiving

36:08 Humor as a Saving Grace

38:03 Turning Hard Moments Into Creativity

40:02 Helping Other Caregivers Feel Less Alone

41:43 The Financial Cost of Unexpected Care

42:43 Why Families Need to Prepare Earlier

44:29 Living Without a Finish Line

46:26 Closing Thoughts

Follow Jodi Coleman and learn more about her work:

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Amazon Author Page: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0CNDD7ZPD

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What happens when caregiving begins overnight?

In this episode of The Midlife Squeeze, Erica sits down with her friend Kiesha to share Kiesha's unexpected journey of caring for her mother.

Kiesha's life changed almost overnight when her mother experienced a brain injury that caused significant cognitive and physical changes. The woman who had once been her anchor suddenly needed around-the-clock care.

Kiesha shares the reality of balancing her business, raising two daughters, supporting her family, and caring for her mother during COVID. She also opens up about caregiver guilt, assisted living costs, role reversal, and the difficult decision to move her mother into an assisted living facility.

This conversation highlights why families should discuss caregiving plans before an emergency forces them to make life-changing decisions.

• Caregiving can begin without warning. A sudden health event changed Kiesha's family overnight.
• Caregiving affects the entire household. This includes children, spouses, careers, and finances.
• Becoming a caregiver can create difficult role reversals. This is especially true when caring for an aging parent.
• Assisted living can create significant costs. In Kiesha's experience, costs ranged from approximately $3,500 to $5,000+ per month, depending on care needs and circumstances.
• Moving a parent into assisted living can bring feelings of guilt. These feelings can remain even when it is the right decision for the family.
• Caregiving continues after assisted living. Responsibilities can include medications, appointments, transportation, and ongoing family support.
• Early conversations can make a major difference. Discussing care, finances, responsibilities, and living arrangements can help families avoid crisis planning.

00:00 Welcome to The Midlife Squeeze

01:48 The Night Everything Changed

03:08 Realizing Life Had Changed

04:45 Adjusting to 24/7 Care

06:14 How Caregiving Changed the Family

07:53 Becoming the Default Caregiver

08:53 Balancing Caregiving and Business

09:40 The Assisted Living Decision

10:30 Finding the Right Facility

11:02 Caregiving After Assisted Living

11:57 The Reality of Role Reversal

13:16 Conversations Kiesha Wishes They Had

14:44 The Financial Impact of Caregiving

16:20 The Cost of Assisted Living

18:54 Caregiver Guilt

20:42 Avoiding Crisis Planning

21:50 Why Families Should Plan Earlier

23:04 Closing Thoughts

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What happens when you're raising children while caring for aging parents?

In this first guest episode of The Midlife Squeeze, Erica sits down with her husband, Peter, to reflect on nearly 20 years of caregiving. Peter shares his experience balancing a career, raising two daughters, and caring for his mother with multiple sclerosis and his uncle with Parkinson's disease.

They discuss the emotional and financial realities of caregiving, including medical appointments, lost work hours, downsizing, difficult family decisions, and planning for the unexpected.

This episode offers an honest look at the sandwich generation, with practical insights on how early preparation can reduce future stress.

• Caregiving can begin earlier than expected. Peter became a caregiver at 25 after his father’s passing.
• The sandwich generation is growing. More families are raising children while caring for aging parents.
• Caregiving has hidden costs. These include lost work time, transportation, medical needs, home maintenance, missed family moments, and emotional stress.
• Early planning can reduce future stress. Downsizing, automating finances, updating legal documents, arranging transportation, and defining caregiving roles can help.
• Caregiving affects the whole family through emotional and financial ripple effects.
• According to the U.S. Administration for Community Living, someone turning 65 today has almost a 70% chance of needing long-term care. Women need care for an average of 3.7 years and men for 2.2 years. Individual needs, duration, and costs vary.

00:00 Cold Open: Losing Independence to Parkinson's

01:21 Welcome to The Midlife Squeeze

01:49 Peter's Caregiving Journey Began at 25

03:36 What Everyday Caregiving Really Looks Like

05:38 The Weight of Being the Primary Caregiver

06:59 Advice for Families Before It's Too Late

07:44 Why Downsizing Changed Everything

09:09 Buying Diapers for Two Generations

10:27 Preparing Aging Parents for Success

12:07 When Parkinson's Took Away Driving

15:36 The Financial Cost Nobody Talks About

18:18 Paying for Extra Help

20:34 How Caregiving Changed Their Family Plans

22:50 Why Most Families Aren't Prepared

25:25 What Peter Wishes They Had Done Sooner

26:02 Final Thoughts: Start the Conversation Before You Need To

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The information discussed on this podcast is for general educational purposes only and is not a recommendation of a product or strategy. Nothing discussed should be considered investment, tax, legal, or financial advice. Consult with qualified professionals before making any financial or investment decisions. The views expressed are those of the speakers and may not reflect the views of Ausdal Financial Partners. Securities and advisory services are offered through Ausdal Financial Partners, Inc., member FINRA/SIPC and registered investment adviser. Ocean Crest Wealth Management and Ausdal Financial Partners, Inc. are independently owned and operated. Investing involves risk, including the possible loss of principal.