What do you do when you did everything right… and life blows up the plan anyway?

This week, Wendy sits down with her friend Steve Kamb, founder of Nerd Fitness and author of the brand-new book How to Try Again — for a funny, tender, deeply human conversation about failing, flailing, and finding your way back.

While writing a book about navigating failure, Steve got hit with three life-altering blows at once: a skin cancer diagnosis, the collapse of his business’s traffic, and a heartbreaking divorce. What he learned became the heart of this episode — that failure is the first step, not the last; that there’s no “hierarchy of suck”; and that sometimes the bravest thing you can do is tread water instead of pushing harder.

Steve walks us through his four-part PACT — Pause, Accept, Change, Try — and why you should give yourself permission to start ugly. If you’re in a hard season, consider this your permission slip to breathe. 💛

✨ What You’ll Learn

• Why failure is the FIRST step in your story, not the last — and why “we’re not that special” is the best news ever

• The art of “strategic half-assing”: how treading water beats burning out when life is heavy

• Steve’s four-word PACT for starting over — Pause, Accept, Change, Try

• How to beware the “back-to-normal fallacy” and accept that today IS the normal

• Why you should treat change like an experiment — and give yourself permission to start ugly

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You're doing everything “right” with food — and still feel anxious, exhausted, and disconnected from your body. Sound familiar? In this episode, Wendy sits down with somatic educator and USA Today bestselling author Luis Mojica to explore the missing link between what we eat and how we feel.

Luis shares his own journey through trauma and disordered eating, and the breakthrough that became his book Food Therapy: the idea that food is constantly speaking to your nervous system. He explains “food-induced stress,” why certain foods quietly trigger fight-or-flight, how to sort foods into stimulants, depressants, and balancers — and why your cravings are actually messages about your unmet needs. This is not a diet or a list of rules. It's a compassionate, freeing new way to relate to food, your body, and yourself in midlife.

What You'll Learn:

• Why even “healthy” foods can push your nervous system into fight-or-flight

• The surprising glucose–adrenaline connection behind food-induced stress

• How to sort foods into stimulants, depressants, and balancers — and bookend them

• How to read your cravings as a compass for unmet emotional needs

• A simple embodiment practice to find safety in your own body

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https://www.holisticlifenavigation.com

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In this soul-stirring episode of The Midlife Makeover Show, Wendy Valentine sits down with Katie Farinas — certified yoga teacher, Reiki practitioner, speaker, and Dharma coach — for a conversation that will make you want to pick up your metaphorical chisel and start uncovering who you’ve always been.

Katie shares her deeply personal journey from gaslighting herself into a life that “looked fine” on the outside, to surviving chronic migraine, a dark night of the soul, and ultimately discovering her true calling through yoga philosophy. Together, Wendy and Katie break down the concept of Dharma — your soul’s purpose — and explore why midlife is actually the perfect time to stop checking boxes and start living from the inside out.

What You’ll Learn

• What Dharma really means — and why it’s not a job title, but a way of being in the world

• The powerful “Dharma equation”: Essence + Expression = your soul’s purpose (and why your expression changes, but your essence never does)

• How to recognize the red thread of your Dharma woven through your entire life

• Why your midlife experiences — including the hard ones — are your greatest data for uncovering your purpose

• The “deathbed meditation” practice that will clarify exactly what matters most to you

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katiefarinas.com

https://katiefarinas.substack.com/

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In this fascinating episode of The Midlife Makeover Show, Wendy Valentine sits down with Heather Grzych — author, Ayurvedic medicine teacher, past president of the National Ayurvedic Medical Association, and host of the globally ranked Wisdom of the Body podcast. Heather shares how she went from a high-powered corporate career to becoming one of the leading voices in Ayurvedic health and wellness — and how a deeply personal journey with fertility, divorce, and self-discovery led her there. Together, Wendy and Heather explore the ancient science of Ayurveda, how your unique mind-body type (or dosha) shapes everything from your digestion to your relationships, and why learning to truly listen to your body may be the most transformative thing you can do in midlife.

• What Ayurveda is and why it's been called "the mother of all medicines"
• How to identify your mind-body type (dosha) and use it to optimize your health, diet, and relationships
• Why food quality — not just calories — matters far more than most of us realize
• How Ayurveda can help you navigate major life transitions with more resilience and grace
• The power of daily rituals and getting quiet enough to "rest in yourself" and find your true nature
  
  
  

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In this heartfelt episode of The Midlife Makeover Show, Wendy Valentine sits down with Laurie James — author, certified somatic practitioner, and host of the Confessions of a Freebird podcast — to talk about what it really takes to heal after divorce and major life transitions in midlife.

Laurie shares her remarkable personal journey through 14 years of caregiving for aging parents, raising four daughters, navigating financial betrayal in her marriage, and ultimately finding herself on the other side with a whole new sense of freedom and purpose.

Through the lens of somatic experiencing and nervous system regulation, Laurie offers a compassionate and practical roadmap for women who are ready to stop overriding their bodies and start truly healing from the inside out.

What You’ll Learn

• What somatic experiencing is and how it helps you release trauma stored in your body
• How to recognize the signs of a dysregulated nervous system — and what to do about it
• Laurie’s powerful “Name, Notice, Nourish” practice for processing difficult emotions in real time
• Why you can only heal as fast as your nervous system will allow — and why that’s actually good news
• How to rebuild self-trust and step into healthier relationships after divorce or a major life change

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https://www.instagram.com/laurie.james/
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In this fun, honest, and inspiring episode of The Midlife Makeover Show, Wendy sits down with celebrity stylist and founder of Style Club, JenniLee, to talk about rediscovering your personal style in midlife. From closet overwhelm and changing body shapes to decluttering fast fashion and creating confidence with what you already own, JenniLee shares practical styling advice that helps women reconnect with themselves through fashion. This conversation is about so much more than clothes—it’s about identity, self-expression, confidence, and giving yourself permission to evolve.

What You’ll Learn:

• How to rediscover your personal style during midlife transitions
• Why decluttering your closet can help you gain clarity and confidence
• Simple ways to create dozens of outfits from a small wardrobe
• How to dress for the body you have now with more self-compassion
• Why style is deeply connected to confidence, personality, and self-expression

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👉 Connect with JenniLee
https://www.instagram.com/jennileestylist/
https://www.jennileestylist.consulting/

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In this inspiring and practical episode of The Midlife Makeover Show, Wendy sits down with organizing coach and host of the Organized Coach Podcast, Tracy Hoth, to talk about the emotional and physical freedom that comes from decluttering, downsizing, and simplifying your life in midlife. From empty nesting and letting go of family heirlooms to creating systems that actually work, this conversation is packed with relatable stories, mindset shifts, and empowering tips to help you clear the clutter—not just in your home, but in your mind and heart, too. If you’ve been craving more peace, space, and freedom in this next chapter, this episode is for you.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why clutter can increase stress, overwhelm, and even cortisol levels
• How to emotionally detach from possessions and let go with less guilt
• Practical downsizing and decluttering tips for empty nesters and midlife women
• How organization saves time, energy, money, and mental space
• Why simplifying your home can open the door to new opportunities and reinvention

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The Organized Coach Podcast https://simplysquaredaway.com/podcast/
Instagram https://instagram.com/tracyhoth
15 Minute Declutter Challenge http://simplysquaredaway.com/declutter

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What happens when the house gets quiet and you’re left asking, “Who am I now?” In this heartfelt and honest conversation, Wendy sits down with award-winning journalist and author Rita Lussier to explore the emotional journey of the empty nest and the many midlife transitions that often come with it. From identity shifts and relationship changes to grief, growth, and rediscovery, Rita shares how she navigated this tender season with humor, grace, and self-compassion—and how you can too. This episode is a beautiful reminder that even in life’s in-between moments, there is meaning, healing, and a powerful opportunity to come back home to yourself.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why the empty nest can feel more emotional (and complex) than expected
• How to rediscover your identity after years of caregiving
• Simple ways to create new routines that support your mental and emotional well-being
• The importance of self-care, community, and trying new experiences in midlife
• How to embrace life’s transitions with grace, trust, and a sense of possibility ✨

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ritalussier.com

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