What if I told you that one of the most important skills for success in your career and life is also one of the things holding so many of us back?
I'm talking about communication.
Growing up, I was incredibly shy. If you had told my younger self that one day I'd be speaking on stages around the world, I would have thought you were crazy!
That's why I was so excited to speak with today's guest, Molly Tschang.
Molly's story is remarkable. Born to immigrant parents, she was painfully shy growing up and didn't speak English until she was five. Yet she went on to build an impressive corporate career before discovering her passion for helping people find their voice.
Today, she's a globally recognized communication expert, TEDx speaker, and founder of Say It Skillfully.
And get this! She's co-authored a book with Marshall Goldsmith, one of the world's most legendary executive coaches, featuring a foreword by Ken Blanchard and an epilogue by Alan Mulally, the former CEO of Ford.
Think about that! From a painfully shy little girl who struggled to find her voice to writing a book alongside one of the world's most respected executive coaches.
Three lessons from her book really resonated with me:
1. Your voice matters. Use it! How often do we have something valuable to contribute but hold back? Molly reminds us that communication is a skill we can learn and develop. Confidence doesn't always come before action. Sometimes it comes because we take action!
2. Think Me, You, We. I love this simple framework. ME: How am I showing up? YOU: Am I considering the other person's perspective? WE: How can we achieve a better outcome together? Three simple questions that can transform how we approach important conversations.
3. It's not about winning the argument. It's about winning together. Great communication isn't about proving you're right. It's about listening, being curious, building trust, and finding a way forward together.
In today's conversation, we'll explore Molly's incredible journey and how we can all become more confident communicators, navigate difficult conversations, and build stronger relationships.
Because here's what I believe: Finding your voice can change your career, your relationships, and ultimately, how you feel about Mondays.
Molly, welcome to the Love Mondays Podcast!