The worksheet has been sitting on the kitchen table since four o'clock, and at 9pm it’s still blank. When a child refuses to do school work night after night it's usually a sign of something. You need to know what that refusal is actually telling you.

I've learned from sitting across the table from students of all ages, that when a child refuses to do school work, the refusal is a coded message. It’s usually one of four things. Most parents can only think of one message. The other three are quieter and are easier to miss. But they get louder right as the support at school gets pulled out from underneath your child.

Let’s sort out which message is happening in your house. Then I'll walk you through the 5 practical things I share with parents in my practice. One takes about thirty seconds to set up and usually ends the two hour homework night on its own. Another costs you nothing and tells you more about your child's issue than a report card has in three years.

Lastly, I’ll share a question to ask, and a place to ask it. You want an honest answer and most parents ask it at the wrong moment.

If tonight's battle is still fresh, let's talk. Book a free fifteen minute consultation at The Literacy Keys and bring your questions about your child. Fifteen minutes, and you'll leave knowing what to look at first.

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Orton Gillingham Tutor

Books about dyslexia either hand you the key to understand your child, or leave you more confused than when you started your journey.

By the end of this episode you'll know which three books about dyslexia are worth your time, and which one to open first if your child is an older student.

As part of my Orton Gillingham certification training, I had to read at least ten books on dyslexia. A few were clinical enough to put me to sleep. Three of them are perfect for parents. In fact, one of the three named the exact situation that a reading specialist once told me could not be happening with my daughter. (Spoiler alert: schools don’t know a lot about dyslexia.)

What you'll take with you:

• Language you can use the next time someone says your child just needs more reading practice

• A framework your teen can actually see themselves in

• A way to understand the kid who reads well out loud but cannot spell for beans

• Which of the three books about dyslexia to start first, depending on your child's age

• Permission to read none of them by Friday, because sleep is a good thing

Books about dyslexia can only take you so far. If you want a plan built around your child, grab a free fifteen minute call at https://theliteracykeys.com/contact/.

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Chapters

00:00 - Understanding Dyslexia

05:17 - The Foundational Guide: Shaywitz's Overcoming Dyslexia

10:39 - Unlocking Potential: The Dyslexic Advantage

16:26 - Action Guide: Empowerment Plan

24:26 - Your Role

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Watching your child stare at a worksheet covered in red ink is exhausting, but this is Dyslexia Awareness Month and we are flipping the script on those correction marks for good. You’ll walk away from this episode with the exact, low-stress script you need to talk to your child about reading struggles without tears or panic.

For too long, the color red has meant one thing on your child's schoolwork: wrong, wrong, wrong. But staying silent about "the D-word" to protect them actually backfires. It leaves kids to fill in the blanks alone, where they usually assume the struggle means they aren't smart. They might even think they're stupid!

The truth is, dyslexia is simply a difference, not a measure of intelligence. In this episode, host Tracy Young (ALTA-certified Orton-Gillingham Tutor and mom to a dyslexic daughter) shows you how to trade red pen drama for bold confidence.

Here’s what you’ll walk away with:

• The exact reason why avoiding the word "dyslexia" backfires at home (and the simple 1-word shift that lowers your child’s anxiety).

• A low-pressure formula for having "the conversation" in settings where your child feels safe to open up.

• How to leverage October's global Go Red movement to turn past school struggles into a source of pride.

• Simple role-play scripts that teach your child how to advocate.

Resources:

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  ⁠I'm Not Stupid video⁠

  ⁠Go Red for Dyslexia⁠

Chapters

00:00 Flipping the script

00:58 What red means

03:59 Why not saying dyslexia hurts kids

11:37 Dyslexia Go Red

15:39 Empowering your child

Transcript

If you're raising a neurodivergent adhd learner who struggles with reading, math, or school stress, you don't have to carry the load alone. Discover how to trade overwhelming burnout for a calm, structured plan to build your child’s ultimate support team.

When learning differences like dyscalculia or dyslexia overlap with neurodivergent adhd, standard classroom approaches often fall short. Trying to manage school friction, homework battles, and accommodations single-handedly leaves both you and your child exhausted.

In this episode, guest Lisa Richer joins host Tracy Young to share how trusting your intuition changes the entire trajectory. We discuss moving away from isolated battles so you can advocate with clarity and confidence.

By the end of this episode, you’ll know how to:

Spot early "yellow flags" in math and reading that traditional school evaluations often miss

Select the exact specialists for your child

Turn tense IEP meetings into collaborative partnerships

Recognize parental burnout signs

Ready to get tailored support for your neurodivergent adhd kid? Schedule a consultation at The Literacy Keys and explore advocacy resources at Journey 2 Bloom.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 From burnout to bloom

03:25 Self-discovery clarity

07:28 Coexisting differences (dyscalculia)

12:51 Support dream team

20:42 What asking for help really means

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If you just received an At-Risk Letter, discover what to do with that information. Do you know which specific skill the dyslexia screener actually flagged? Most parents never find out, and that answer changes everything about what you do next. This episode will help you reframe a dyslexia screener as the eye chart, not the glasses.

By the end of this episode you'll be able to understand an at-risk letter for what it really says, and walk into the school with five questions that get you real answers.

More than half of US states now require schools to screen young children for reading risk, which is why these letters are suddenly being sent to parents. In Georgia, every student from kindergarten through third grade is screened three times a year, and the school has fifteen school days to notify you in writing.

I'm Tracy Young, an ALTA certified Orton-Gillingham tutor and mom to a dyslexic daughter. A screening takes five to twenty minutes and samples a few narrow skills. It's like the nurse at the pediatrician’s office saying your child should probably see an eye doctor. She didn't prescribe glasses.

Discover how to:

1.Tell the difference between a dyslexia screener and a full evaluation

2.Read the subscores and know which flag deserves a closer look

3.Send one email with five questions that starts a key paper trail

4.Spot the quieter signs in an older child who never got a letter at all

If you know another parent who received an at-risk letter about a dyslexia screener, please share this episode with them, tap follow, and leave a quick rating.

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Tracy Young

Orton Gillingham Tutor

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Chapters

00:00 Understanding the at-risk letter

04:15 Dyslexia Screeners: what they measure

08:33 Three things to know

12:10 Five questions to ask the school

19:47 Final thoughts

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Picture your four-year-old standing on the front porch in a backpack that hangs down past their knees. Everybody is smiling for the first-day-of-preschool photo. Not one person in that picture is thinking about the early signs of dyslexia.

After this episode, you'll know what to watch for in a two year old toddler, in a four year old preschooler, and for a six year old child. Plus discover one easy thing to do that takes five minutes a day.

Brain differences linked to reading show up in babies who are still in diapers, years before anyone hands a child a book. Meanwhile, the average child in this country isn't identified until after the third grade. The windows are in the wrong order, and that gap is where families lose years they never needed to lose. I missed every one of these signs in my own daughter, which is exactly why I'm walking you through the early signs of dyslexia.

Learn to:

1. Recognize the early signs of dyslexia by age

2. Read your family tree like a detective

3. Explain what at risk actually means

4. Use the five-minute-a-day activity that predicts reading success

5. Ask your child's school the specific question about reading instruction

If you know another parent of a struggling reader who's been told to wait and see, please share this episode with them. Tap follow so next week's episode finds you, and leave a quick rating.

If you're seeing a cluster of these early signs of dyslexia in your child and you want a second set of eyes on it, book a free 15-minute consultation at https://theliteracykeys.com/contact/ No pressure and no pitch, just a clear next step.

Cheers, Tracy Young,

Orton Gillingham Tutor

The Literacy Keys

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Resource mentioned:

Yu X, Ferradal S, Dunstan J, et al. "Patterns of Neural Functional Connectivity in Infants at Familial Risk of Developmental Dyslexia." JAMA Network Open, 2022: https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2797787

Picture your child at the table, counting a small handful of coins for the third time while telling time on the clock is a total mystery. You’re concerned but aren’t sure why.

Let me share that dyscalculia symptoms rarely announce themselves in one dramatic moment. By the end of this episode, you'll know nine signs to look for; understand what is dyscalculia in plain language and discover five books that will make your journey feel a lot less lonely.

A while back, a family asked if I could help their dyslexic son with math. I said yes, and then went straight down the research rabbit hole. Dyslexia and dyscalculia travel together far more often than parents are told. Roughly 30% of kids who have dyslexia will also have dyscalculia. That doesn’t mean that you need to have dyslexia to have dyscalculia.

Here's what this episode hands you:

Recognize the nine dyscalculia symptoms parents and teachers miss: from telling time on an analog clock, to retrieving basic math facts. This will help you explain: “what is dyscalculia?” to your child's teacher, without any clinical jargon. Then discover 5 must-have books on the subject.

If your child is fighting reading or math and you are not sure where the foundation cracked, book a free 15-minute consultation at https://theliteracykeys.com/contact/ No pressure and no pitch, just a clear next step.

Lastly, if you know another confused parent, please share this episode with them, follow the show so next week's episode finds you, and leave a quick rating.

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Key Points

(00:00) What is dyscalculia?

(06:42) Recognizing signs of dyscalculia

(13:07) Dyscalculia challenges

(15:39) Recommended books on dyscalculia

Your child holds it together for seven hours at school, but then walks in the door, drops their backpack on the floor and quickly comes undone over a granola bar!

For many 2e kids, that end-of-the-school-day meltdown is the most honest assessment you’ll get all year. Discover what makes 2e kids unique.

By the end of this episode you will know what the term means and what to do with it. Learn

* Why strong grades and real struggle can live inside the same child

* The kind of evaluation that actually finds the gaps

* The two grades where twice exceptional teens most often stop coping

My guest is Mark Talaga, owner and director of the Center for Identity Potential, a practice in Michigan and Chicago that works with gifted, neurodivergent, wonderfully complicated kids. Mark got fired from a video game job years before anyone told him that he was twice exceptional. He believes the 2e label is too small, and that most of these kids are closer to 10e. That's why so many 2e kids get told they are too smart to qualify for an IEP.

Now, if you are wondering whether your child's reading, writing, and spelling struggles are the whole story, book a no pressure, free 15-minute consultation at https://theliteracykeys.com/contact/

If you know another parent whose bright kid is quietly running on empty, please share this episode with them. Hit the +follow button (under the three ... on the top right) so next week's episode finds you.

Cheers, Tracy Young,

Orton Gillingham Tutor

The Literacy Keys

Resources mentioned:

Center for Identity Potential: https://www.centerforidentitypotential.com/

Mark's podcast:

The Hopelessly Gifted Podcast, on Apple Podcasts and Spotify

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