The girls drive into the topic of why us Lezzas have such an urge to remain friends with past flings and Ex’s. Lucy and Juliet consider whether this is an accurate stereotype of Lesbians, discuss their own Ex friendship stories, as well as why it might be a good or poor choice to keep your ex in your life. Can it ever work? Let’s find out.

Links Mentioned:

Lesbian Discussion Group Insta - https://instagram.com/lesbiandiscussiongroup?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Men Who Hate Women by Laura Bates - https://www.waterstones.com/book/men-who-hate-women/laura-bates/9781398504653

Channel 4 documentary ' The Secret World of Incels: UNTOLD' - Channel 4https://www.channel4.com › the-se...The Secret World of Incels: UNTOLD

LGBTQ+ more likely to be friends with exes article - https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/inclusive-insight/202109/are-lgbtq-people-more-likely-stay-friends-their-exes

Research about dark personality traits and being friends with an ex - https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886916302690

Article about the queer stereotype of staying friends with exes - https://saltyworld.net/not-all-lesbians-stay-friends-with-their-exes-and-thats-ok/

Butch Please Insta - https://instagram.com/butchpleaselondon?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Article about the reasons for why some people stay friends with their Ex's: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/pere.12197

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