When Ben Crowe, world-renowned professional mentor and leadership coach, tells us his favourite mantra, we listen.

“I am enough no matter what, but I’m not done yet”.

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Back in The Academy of Imperfection FOR THE THIRD TIME, Ben is here to talk to Hugh, Ryan and Josh about purpose, play and love.

As Ben explains, ‘play’ and ‘love’ mean something different to everyone, however, they are both ridiculously important and explicitly linked. If love is the intention, then play is the action.

Ben, as always, it was an absolute pleasure to your wisdom bestowed upon us.

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0:00 – Is Ben the Pope?
11:13 – Acceptance vs compassion, confidence vs belief
15:14 – Reshaping your belief system
25:05 – Just Admit It List
30:42 – The dreaded E word
37:47 – Reward effort, not outcome
46:00 – Play deprivation
51:47 – Talking to teenagers about their career
1:01:47 – How to be a (anxious) leader
1:07:04 – Josh’s too generous assumption
1:10: 14 – Doing it for the right reasons

🎧Other episodes of The Imperfects mentioned in this episode

• The Academy of Imperfection - Ben Crowe - https://bit.ly/40rkUgd
• Ben Crowe (Pt 1) - Meet Your Inner Fan - https://bit.ly/46VlfeK
• Ben Crowe (Pt 2) - Now BE Your Inner Fan - https://bit.ly/413kVXL
• Kate Reid (Pt 1) - The Impossibility of Perfection - https://bit.ly/4ruVAkz
• Kate Reid (Pt 2) - The Life-Saving Croissant - https://bit.ly/4by6NMl
• Dr Emily - Acceptance, That’s Radical - https://bit.ly/4bAomLD

📖 Things to read

• Where The Light Gets In, by Ben Crowe - https://bit.ly/4s04xmN
• The Courage To Be Disliked, by Eckhart Tolle - https://bit.ly/411Qbq4

🎧 Things to listen to

• How Ben Crowe Dads - https://bit.ly/4bidPDH

😃If you liked this episode, check out these!

• Bronnie Ware - What Are Your Future Regrets? - https://bit.ly/40lcG9p
• Emma Murray - How Mindfulness Actually Works - https://bit.ly/4lpS5dR

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According to Matt Preston, he only has 14 more summers. And he’s determined to make the most of them.

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Known predominantly for his role on the inaugural (and incredibly successful) seasons of MasterChef Australia, alongside his excellent choice of cravats, Matt Preston is a recognisable face in most Australian households.

Joining Hugh, Ryan and Josh in the studio (in yet another incredible outfit), Matt delicately talks through the importance of having a conversation with your parents about end-of-life care.

In a decision that requires both deep emotion and administrative focus, Matt draws from his experience with his grandmother, and then his mother, about how to ensure the people you love are nurtured, cared for, and celebrated in the way they would have wanted.

Matt, thank you so much for joining us.

0:00 – The typo to end all typos
9:13 – Every family has a scandal
24:34 – The unknowables of epilepsy
30:45 – Grieving what could have been
40:44 – Mission of mortality: make it count
44:47 – Parenting not like your parents
53:40 – Conversations about end-of-life care
1:07:35 – The secret ingredient to marriage
1:13:46 – Logistics of death and dying

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🫖Other episodes of The Imperfects mentioned in this episode

• Kate Reid (Pt 1) - The Impossibility of Perfection - https://bit.ly/476XBfg
• Kate Reid (Pt 2) - The Life-Saving Croissant - https://bit.ly/4aM7bqd
• Christie Whelan Browne - Unbreakable - https://bit.ly/4ukPhTk

📺Things to watch

• The Hospital - In The Deep End - https://bit.ly/4rYN6mw
• Croquenbouche Masterchef Episode - https://bit.ly/3OILYVG

📖Things to read

• Big Mouth, by Matt Preston - https://bit.ly/4cUigXG

🩵SUDEP Support Services

• SUDEP Action - https://sudep.org
• Epilepsy Foundation - https://bit.ly/4r9W27I

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Pain is inevitable, but suffering does not have to be.

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Dr Emily Musgrove, our resident psychologist and general provider of wisdom, is here to talk about radical acceptance.

Drawing inspiration from our holy grail episode with Gina Chick, Dr Em deep dives radical acceptance; what is it, how do we cultivate it, and why is it important to us as human beings?

According to Dr Em, radical acceptance is not about liking or accepting (insert profanity here) situations or circumstances, or denying an experience, but rather, accepting the pain inside of us to avoid the reaction of suffering.

Instead of feeling better, it’s about finding a better way of feeling.

For Hugh, the concept of radical acceptance really hits close to home, and he reflects on how it has changed his life insurmountably.

Dr Emily, we love ya, and we missed ya.

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0:00 – Getting the Gina Chick zoomies
6:23 – The Radical Acceptance origin story
14:20 – Change how you relate
21:19 – On a global scale
27:25 – An Unwanted Guest
34:42 – The third option
40:38 – Grieving the loss of what you wanted
45:28 – Living proof ft. Hugh
53:18 – Anxious about my anxiety
1:03:26 – Main character moment
1:10:17 – Putting it in practice

🫖Other episodes of The Imperfects mentioned on this episode

• Gina Chick - Don’t Fight Life - https://bit.ly/4b9nAVG

📖 Things to read

• Unstuck, by Dr Emily Musgrove - https://bit.ly/4o8JFay
• The Happiness Trap, by Russ Harris - https://bit.ly/4kRn3Lq
• The Guest House, by Rumi - https://bit.ly/4kXhaMS

💻Things to check out

• Tara Brach - RAIN meditation - https://bit.ly/3MNou0M
• Alfred Adler - Three Sided Column - https://bit.ly/3P1gSbJ
• Jill Bolte Taylor - 90 second shelf life of emotions - https://bit.ly/4aV5rtL

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