Jame started jiu jitsu to train with his son. He stayed because pressure training taught him to breathe through panic and take responsibility for his growth. This episode covers strength versus technique, the injury lesson, coaching kids, and why the blue belt feels heavy in a good way.

The day you get promoted, expectations change. People look to you for answers. Rounds get more honest. That weight can push you away or it can anchor you to the work. Jame chose the second path. He treats blue belt as a responsibility to learn, to help, and to set the tone for the room.

Early pressure rounds brought back a rush of panic. Over time he learned he could breathe and think under chest and shoulder pressure. That skill carried into life outside the gym. The lesson is simple. Slow down. Frame. Breathe. Then move.

Jame came in strong and athletic. He muscled through positions and paid for it with avoidable injuries. What changed things:

• Position before submission
• Smart rounds over high volume
• If it hurts, adjust
• Grip less, move your hips more

Teaching forced him to find the small details he used to skip. Kids copy exactly what you show. If it fails, you need to know why. That requirement made his own jiu jitsu cleaner, safer, and more technical. It also built a culture of ownership. Older kids protect the mats, help younger students, and treat the space like it is theirs.

At first, success meant being on top. Then it became getting submitted less. Today it means showing up with a simple plan and executing one thing well.

• One move per night
• One escape chain to test
• One pass to enter from everywhere

• Keep learning so the kids and newer students can keep learning
• Roll at the pace that keeps partners safe
• Model good mat hygiene and gym ownership
• Help newer students relax and breathe when pressure hits

• “It felt like I could not breathe. Then I learned I could. That changed everything.”
• “Not because jiu jitsu is dangerous, because I was being dangerous.”
• “I treat blue belt like a responsibility. I need to earn it every round.”