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The Good, The Bad & The Gray

The Good, The Bad & The Gray

著者: Dr. Justin Gray
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Welcome to The Good The Bad and The Gray Podcast, a compass in life's labyrinth, shining a light on relationships, wellness, and personal growth. Join me as I share insights and interview diverse guests. Together, we'll discuss highs, lows, and the in-between, offering perspectives on health, career, and more. Tune in for candid conversations that peel back life's layers, revealing the good, the bad, and the gray with hues from light to dark.

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  • Ch.2: Ep.10 | The Five Essential People You Need in Your Life ft A Renee
    2025/07/03

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    How many of these five essential people do you have in your corner? In this deeply insightful conversation, Dr. Gray and A Renee unpack the critical roles we all need filled in our lives: the comforter who provides emotional safety, the confronter who speaks truth with love, the challenger who pushes us beyond comfort, the counselor who offers wisdom, and the celebrator who acknowledges our victories.

    The hosts share personal revelations about which roles they naturally embody and which they struggle to find in their own lives. Dr. Gray confesses that despite often serving as a challenger to others, he treasures comfort most—revealing how even those who appear strongest need safe spaces for vulnerability. Meanwhile, A Renee opens up about her current season of intentional emotional isolation as part of her healing journey, distinguishing this temporary withdrawal from unhealthy emotional laziness.

    Perhaps most thought-provoking is their discussion about romantic relationships—should your partner fulfill all five roles? Both hosts caution against this expectation, noting the immense pressure it places on one person. "I think it's when you're wearing so many hats for one person, it can overburden your person," A Renee reflects, sharing from experience how impossible it feels to meet every need simultaneously.

    The conversation takes a surprisingly touching turn when discussing physical connection, with Dr. Gray revealing how meaningful unexpected embraces have been during his healing process: "For the people that stole those hugs, I was like, dang bro, I needed these." It's a powerful reminder that sometimes we need connection in ways we don't even recognize.

    Whether you're examining your own support system or wondering which roles you play in others' lives, this episode offers valuable insight into creating balanced, nurturing relationships. Subscribe now and join the conversation about building your emotional foundation with the right people in the right roles.

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  • Ch. 2: Ep 8 | Navigating the Maze of Gender Dynamics Ft. A Renee
    2025/06/12

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    Ever wondered why the checkout lane you choose says everything about your dating preferences? Welcome to a candid exploration of how men and women navigate the complex world of relationships across racial lines and communication styles.

    Dr. Gray and A Renee dive into a fascinating discussion triggered by comedian Carlos Miller's viral take on why Black men date White women - suggesting it comes down to availability and pursuit styles. Using a brilliant grocery store checkout analogy, they unpack how people naturally gravitate toward those who actively welcome them, regardless of race. This opens up a deeper conversation about dating dynamics: do Black women play "hard to get" while other women make themselves more approachable? The hosts share personal experiences dating across racial lines, revealing that while women share similar emotional responses, their upbringing and cultural backgrounds create unique relationship experiences.

    The conversation evolves into examining whether platonic friendships between men and women are truly possible. Both hosts believe they are - with the right boundaries and maturity. A Renee shares that most of her close friends are men with whom she's never considered romantic involvement, while Dr. Gray emphasizes the importance of wanting what's best for your friend even if that doesn't include yourself. They reference Blair Underwood, who eventually married his longtime best friend after his 30-year marriage ended, raising fascinating questions about friendship's hidden romantic potential.

    Gender roles, communication differences, and conflict resolution styles round out this compelling episode. When asked who's more likely to walk away from conflict, both immediately agree: women. As A Renee explains, "When a woman's fed up, it's a wrap" - women often disengage gradually, piece by piece, before making their final exit. This observation reveals deeper truths about how men and women process relationship disappointment differently and why recognizing these patterns matters.

    Ready to understand the opposite sex better? Subscribe to The Good, The Bad and The Gray podcast on all major platforms and join the conversation about relationships, personal growth, and the fascinating dance between masculine and feminine energy.

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  • Ch 2: Ep 7| Love Languages or Red Flags? Ft. Christian Brown
    2025/06/05

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    What if the love language that draws you to someone is actually masking a relationship red flag? In our latest episode, we're joined by returning guest CJ (Big Siege) for a raw, unfiltered conversation about modern dating challenges that will have you rethinking your approach to relationships.

    The conversation takes an unexpected turn when Dr. Gray reveals his surprising 45-minute rule for determining compatibility. "Women tell you everything you need to know within the first 45 minutes of meeting them," he explains, breaking down exactly what signals to watch for and how most men miss them completely. This insight alone might save you months of dating the wrong person.

    We tackle the concept of the "representative" – that carefully crafted version of ourselves we present when first dating someone – and how to quickly disarm it to see who someone truly is. CJ shares personal stories about being misjudged for setting boundaries, while A-Renee offers the valuable woman's perspective on recognizing authentic connection versus manipulation.

    The most shocking moment? Our unanimous agreement about what it means when you receive that random 1 AM "I love you" text from someone you've been dating for a few months. Trust us, you'll never view those late-night messages the same way again.

    Whether you're actively dating, taking a break from relationships, or committed but curious, this episode offers practical wisdom about authenticity, recognizing red flags, and the courage to slow down rather than rushing into relationships that aren't right for you. Follow us @goodbadgray on TikTok and @thegoodthebadandthegray on YouTube and Instagram for more conversations that navigate the complex terrain between the good, the bad, and all the gray areas in between.

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