Is it only cheating if it’s physical, or does emotional and digital loyalty count too? In this episode of The 3L’s Podcast, we get brutally honest about what really defines betrayal in modern relationships. From harmless work friendships that blur into “work wife” territory, to sexting, nudes, and emotional affairs that never get physical but still break trust, we unpack it all.

We dive deep into monogamy, the “men will stray” argument, and double standards that excuse male infidelity while condemning women for the same behaviour. We also explore how routine, boredom, and lack of communication can quietly destroy intimacy, and how therapy, honesty, and intentional connection can save a marriage long before cheating ever happens.

Mimi and Eman share real-life examples from their own relationship: rebuilding excitement after kids, setting healthy boundaries with the opposite sex, and protecting your marriage like it’s your first ministry. Because the truth is, most affairs don’t start in the bedroom; they start in the DMs, over “innocent” banter, or through unmet needs that no one talked about.

Whether you’re dating, married, or healing from betrayal, this episode will make you think about what loyalty really means in 2025.

When one partner takes off, does the other get left behind, or can you grow without growing apart? In this 3L’s episode, we get uncomfortably honest about identity and titles (“Eman’s wife,” “cake lady”) and the quiet sting of feeling left out while your spouse levels up. We talk about jealousy versus boundaries and how public perception, DMs, events, and the pressure to “post the family” can bruise a private marriage if you don’t protect the brand at home first. We also unpack the practical stuff no one glamorises: why we delayed certain events until we had truly trustworthy childcare, the safety conversations that shaped our choices, and what changed when we invited a spouse into the business and saw the real work, emails, insurance, decisions, not just the highlights. From therapy to honest check-ins to clearly defined lanes (hello, Co-CEO), we share the steps that helped us move from parallel lives to a genuine partnership where either of us can lead. And then the spicy bit: a listener dilemma where she saved £11,000 in secret over four years because he wasn’t growing. Is that disloyal, or financially wise self-protection? Dive in, weigh up the nuance, and tell us where you land.

We get real about emotional labour, who holds the calendar, the kids’ headspace, and all the invisible jobs, versus financial load. Why our 80/20 split works, how Dubai and house help factor in, and the difference between protecting your kids and preparing them for the real world.

We unpack what “mental load” really looks like in marriage: who schedules, who soothes, who shapes the kids’ minds, and how that balances against paying the bills. We talk skill sets, seasons, redundancy, appreciation, and why “traditional” roles can still be teamwork. And of course… a spicy dilemma: he went to his ex’s baby shower without telling his wife, innocent oversight or emotional neglect?

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In this honest, funny, and tender conversation, Eman & Mimi unpack what it really looks like to find space within marriage, without drifting apart. Do couples need time alone to stay healthy, or should everything be done together?

We go there: why kids sometimes act like tiny CEOs for Mum and perfect soldiers for Dad, how to take a breather without triggering insecurity, and why “space” should be intentional, not silent treatment.

We tackle the solo-trip dilemma (healing reset or red flag?), patterns of behaviour and trust, and the difference between distance that refreshes vs distance that erodes connection. You’ll hear how we balance separate interests (Bake Off vs basketball), build shared experiences so we grow in the same direction, and make peace with life’s seasons, when one partner’s career needs extra oxygen and the other carries more at home. We talk practical boundaries (signal phrases, check-ins, time limits), creating quiet in a loud house with four kids, and the small systems that keep love from getting lost in logistics.

Mimi shares how maturity turned “Is something wrong?” into “Enjoy your reset,” and Eman gives flowers to intentional motherhood while owning intentional fatherhood, showing up for the moments the kids remember.

If you’ve ever felt guilty for needing time alone, or lonely while your partner “hustles for the family,” this episode will help you breathe, reset, and choose each other on purpose.

When ambition eats every evening and weekend, what’s left for marriage and kids? In this raw convo, we unpack our 2015 season, late nights, Canary Wharf office life, resentment vs reality, and how we rebuilt with therapy, carved-out time, practical agreements, and intentional fatherhood.

We get honest about why what looked like selfishness was actually loneliness, and share the systems that keep us balanced today: calendar carve-outs, deadlines, seasons, and bringing your partner into the dream.

If you’ve ever felt alone while your partner “hustles for the family,” or you’re the grinder who thinks they’re doing it for love, this one’s for you. Share your experience in the comments. Are you the grinder or the one left behind?

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In this raw, funny and heartfelt episode of The 3L’s Podcast (Life, Love & Legacy), Eman & Mimi get real about attraction in long-term marriage, from being friends first to that unexpected “switch” moment in church, to the messy middle of post-baby body changes, confidence dips, and intimacy on pause.

We unpack how personality can amplify physical attraction, why reassurance isn’t a one-off speech but a daily habit, and the small, practical things couples can do to keep choosing each other, 14 years in and counting. We also tackle a real listener dilemma: “My wife gained weight after kids, and I’m not attracted anymore, what do I do?” We don’t sugarcoat it. We talk about support vs. shaming, how to communicate without crushing her confidence, and why attraction is multi-channel (voice, kindness, presence, humour, not just bum and breast 🤭).

If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and felt “not like myself,” Mimi shares her micro-routine for rebuilding confidence (dress the body you have, a touch of glam on low-energy days, and throwing out the oversized hoodies that hide your shine). Eman breaks down the exact phrases and consistent actions that helped, affirmation, patience, and celebrating effort over outcomes. We also cover health goals as a team sport, accountability without control, and remembering that respect and friendship keep desire alive when physical appearances change.

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Submission is a word that evokes strong emotions. For some, it means control and silence; for others, it’s respect and partnership. In this episode of The 3L’s Podcast, we break down what submission really looks like in our marriage. Mimi opens up about why the way it was taught in church never made sense to her, while Eman explains why authentic leadership is less about titles and more about creating a sense of safety, trust, and consistency. We talk money, provision, and the hidden value of running a home, as well as how couples can challenge each other without losing respect. We also tackle a real-life dilemma: “My husband says he wants to lead spiritually and financially, but I earn more, pray more, and handle everything. Am I wrong for not respecting that?” Our take: Leadership is proven by action, not words. This episode is raw, funny, and honest, filled with stories from our own journey and lessons that every couple can take something from.

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Money talks without the awkwardness? Yes, please. In this episode of The 3L’s Podcast (Life, Love & Legacy), Eman (financial advisor) and Mimi get brutally honest about money and relationships, the habits they brought into marriage (budget king vs. bargain queen), how redundancy flipped their roles, and why the phrase “It’s not your money, it’s OUR money” saved their sanity (and their bank balance). We break down the real-life systems that work for us: a joint account for bills and individual “fun money” accounts, total transparency, and regular money check-ins to prevent resentment from growing. We also discuss teaching kids about money by letting them hear real conversations, such as mortgage chats, budgeting, and investing, so good habits can start early. Then it gets spicy: a viewer dilemma, “My spouse hid debt before marriage.” We unpack how to rebuild trust, create a payoff plan, and decide when secrecy crosses the line. Additionally, we share simple wealth-building strategies for UK couples, including ISAs, workplace pensions, estate planning, and why we opted for tenants in common (50/50 ownership) to safeguard our children and long-term legacy. And yes… the Petty Section delivers: Mimi confesses to hiding Amazon boxes (growth happened, okay?).

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