Submission is a word that evokes strong emotions. For some, it means control and silence; for others, it’s respect and partnership. In this episode of The 3L’s Podcast, we break down what submission really looks like in our marriage. Mimi opens up about why the way it was taught in church never made sense to her, while Eman explains why authentic leadership is less about titles and more about creating a sense of safety, trust, and consistency. We talk money, provision, and the hidden value of running a home, as well as how couples can challenge each other without losing respect. We also tackle a real-life dilemma: “My husband says he wants to lead spiritually and financially, but I earn more, pray more, and handle everything. Am I wrong for not respecting that?” Our take: Leadership is proven by action, not words. This episode is raw, funny, and honest, filled with stories from our own journey and lessons that every couple can take something from.

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Money talks without the awkwardness? Yes, please. In this episode of The 3L’s Podcast (Life, Love & Legacy), Eman (financial advisor) and Mimi get brutally honest about money and relationships, the habits they brought into marriage (budget king vs. bargain queen), how redundancy flipped their roles, and why the phrase “It’s not your money, it’s OUR money” saved their sanity (and their bank balance). We break down the real-life systems that work for us: a joint account for bills and individual “fun money” accounts, total transparency, and regular money check-ins to prevent resentment from growing. We also discuss teaching kids about money by letting them hear real conversations, such as mortgage chats, budgeting, and investing, so good habits can start early. Then it gets spicy: a viewer dilemma, “My spouse hid debt before marriage.” We unpack how to rebuild trust, create a payoff plan, and decide when secrecy crosses the line. Additionally, we share simple wealth-building strategies for UK couples, including ISAs, workplace pensions, estate planning, and why we opted for tenants in common (50/50 ownership) to safeguard our children and long-term legacy. And yes… the Petty Section delivers: Mimi confesses to hiding Amazon boxes (growth happened, okay?).

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In this episode of The 3L’s Podcast, Eman and Mimi open up about the challenge of keeping marriage at the centre while raising children. They share how, during the early years with three young kids, much of Mimi’s attention naturally shifted to the children, leaving Eman at times feeling overlooked. They discuss how easy it is for kids to become the focus of a marriage and the strain this can create on intimacy and connection. Both agree that this is often just a season, but how couples handle it sets the tone for the future. If partners withdraw, the relationship can suffer even after the kids grow up. However, when couples remain intentional about affirming each other, supporting one another, and making time to connect, their marriage can emerge even stronger. Mimi speaks about losing confidence in herself during motherhood and how small actions, such as fitting clothes or doing her hair, helped her feel like more than just “mom.” Eman encourages men to see the sacrifices their wives make and to invest in their well-being rather than seeking attention elsewhere. Together, they emphasise that a strong marriage is the foundation of a strong family, and that when the wife is cared for, the children also thrive. They also share practical ways couples can stay connected, from short trips without the kids to breakfast dates during school hours, or simply celebrating birthdays and anniversaries with intention. They close with the reminder that marriage, not children, must remain the anchor of the home, because a thriving partnership creates the best environment for kids to flourish.

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