Death Care Marketing Show — Episode 3 Host Mary Barnett sits down with Gail Rubin, CT — certified thanatologist and pioneer of the Death Cafe movement — on how funeral homes can use storytelling and cinema to lower people's emotional guard, build real community trust, and grow pre-need sales without ever running a hard pitch. A few lines that stuck with us "The mortality rate is holding steady at 100%." Funeral directors are "last responders" — catching people as they fall through their darkest days. Get people into the funeral home for non-funeral events and the whole building stops feeling intimidating. The "POPCORN" outreach model P — Pick the right film: start with a comedy so people relax. O — Open with purpose: say why you're hosting, introduce your staff. P — Prompt discussion: use the film's themes to ask about end-of-life wishes. C — Connect it to planning: tie the on-screen story to real preparation. O — Offer next steps: resources and follow-up, never a hard sell. R — Repeat consistently: monthly or quarterly normalizes it. N — Normalize the conversation: humor and shared experience do the heavy lifting. Licensing & logistics (don't skip this) Get a license. Never screen a film publicly without one — a one-time license for a named title, or a blanket MPLC license for ongoing, un-named screenings. Partner with local experts. Hospice workers, estate attorneys, and financial planners will co-host and market to their own lists. Pre-screen everything for profanity or themes that won't fit your community. Want a fast, low-risk first event? Host a one-time "Mortality Movie Night" or a small Death Cafe in your reception center. Short on time? Show a single TV episode (Mary Tyler Moore's "Chuckles Bites the Dust") and discuss. The "Before I Die" festival A community event that opens up mortality and end-of-life planning in a non-threatening way — often hosted at funeral homes or cemeteries to build trust. Mixed activities: speakers, screenings, panels, art — even live music. Resource fair ("Death Is Not a Dirty Word") with doulas, hospice, estate attorneys, and directors. Behind-the-scenes access that demystifies the industry. Proven results: one day at Green Lawn in Bakersfield drove $100,000+ in pre-need; a church event drew 300+ attendees. More at BeforeIDieFestivals.com . Featured books & offers 98.6 Mortality Movies to See Before You Die — Gail's film guide with discussion questions. A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die — her first book, creative planning with a light touch. Film-clip presentations — hire Gail to lead a film-clip session at your facility. "Talking about sex won't make you pregnant; talking about funerals won't make you dead." — Gail Rubin Guest & resources Guest: Gail Rubin, CT — AGoodGoodbye.com Festivals: BeforeIDieFestivals.com Recommended viewing: Departures (Japan, 2008) Be on the show / work with Mary Apply to guest or browse episodes: deathcaremarketingshow.com Free discovery call: deathcaremarketingshow.com/GuestDiscoveryCall
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