Becca came into this coaching session feeling stuck, frustrated, and deeply alone in her experience:

“I’m 37. I’ve never had a relationship. It feels like I’m missing something that everyone else figured out.”

This episode is for the late bloomer who’s never really seen their story reflected in dating advice—and is tired of wondering, “What’s wrong with me?”

Together, we worked through:

– The fear that it’s too late to have what you want

– How to shift from self-blame to self-trust (without pretending it doesn’t still hurt)

– The exact first step to start dating from your real power

Becca left with a new plan—and a very different energy.

If you’ve ever thought “Maybe it's never going to happen,” I want you to listen to this one.

🎧 The Late Bloomer Show, episode 250. Available now wherever you get your podcasts.

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→ Main Character Dating: datebrazen.com/waitlist

→ Free Essence-Based Preferences workbook: datebrazen.com/workbook

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Today on The Late Bloomer Show, I’m coaching Dana.

Dana is a badass who’s never been in a relationship—and she came to our session asking the question so many late bloomers carry:

“Are men going to see that as a red flag?”

In this episode, we go deep and get tactical.

💎 We create her Essence-Based Preferences in real time (including the exact words she’ll use to vet potential dates)

💎 Build a clear vetting plan so she never has to waste a weekend on a “blah” date again

💎 Make over her dating profile so it reflects who she actually is: adventure traveler, joyful weirdo, emotionally aware, deeply feminist

We also talk through how to show up confidently when you feel behind, how to stop apologizing for your inexperience, and how to date like you’re not dead yet.

💥 Work with Lily:

→ Main Character Dating: datebrazen.com/waitlist

→ Free Essence-Based Preferences workbook: datebrazen.com/workbook

→ Read Thank You More Please: datebrazen.com/book

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“I’ve never had a relationship last a year. It feels like I missed my window.”

That’s what Jennifer told me at the start of this session.

She felt behind. Like it was too late to have the love story she wants. Like she had somehow run out of time.

And if you’ve ever looked around and thought, Everyone else got the memo on how to do this. I didn’t, this episode is going to speak directly to you.

Together, we work through:

– The fear that your best love story is already off the table

– The weight of “Nobody picks me”

– What happens when old thoughts make new dating hope feel impossible

– How to use the SOFT method to feel your feelings and rewire your beliefs, without bypassing the hard stuff

By the end, Jennifer says:

“It’s not over. I’m worth it.”

And she means it.

🎧 If you’re a late bloomer who’s still hoping it’s not too late, press play now.

💥 Ready for more support? Start here:

→ Main Character Dating: datebrazen.com/waitlist

→ Free Essence-Based Preferences workbook: datebrazen.com/workbook

→ Read Thank You More Please: datebrazen.com/book

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