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Most men don’t fail because they have bad intentions. They fail because they trust their intentions more than their actions. In this episode, we expose the dark side of intention and how meaning well can still cause damage, how effort becomes self-deception, and why behavior and execution is the only thing that builds a man. Stop deceiving yourself and Close the gap.

QOTD: “The road to hell is paved with good intentions.”

SOTD: Proverbs 14:12 (ESV)
“There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.”

WHAT IS IT? The self-deception of intention.
believing that a good heart, sincere effort, or emotional desire equals action. It doesn’t. The behavior builds a man.

TACTICAL APPLICATION STEPS

1. Expose It:
Name one area where you’ve hidden behind “I meant well.”

2. Align It:
Hold that intention against Scripture. If it doesn’t align, kill it.

3. Execute It:
Finish one thing this week you’ve been “meaning to do.”
Execution is the antidote to self-deception.

DANGEROUS FOCUS FOR THE WEEK

Stop trusting your intentions. Start proving your obedience.

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In this episode of The Dangerous Man Podcast, We sit down with Ralph Brewer from HelpForMen.com to talk straight about divorce, betrayal, dead bedrooms, and what happens when a man’s whole world explodes. Ralph has lived it. Infidelity, divorce, single dad life, identity in pieces. He didn’t stay the victim. He rebuilt.

We unpack why so many guys stay stuck in bitterness and denial, what it looks like to take ruthless ownership, and how brotherhood changes everything when you’re trying to rebuild your life as a man. If you feel lost, rejected, or hollow in your own house, this episode is a call to stop bleeding out in silence and start rebuilding on purpose.

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Most men think “keeping the peace” is a virtue. In reality, it is often just fear of losing comfort. In this Dangerous Discipline episode, Rory goes straight at the lie of peacekeeping and exposes how fake peace is quietly destroying marriages, training kids to be weak, and draining spiritual authority from a man’s life.

You will learn the difference between a peacekeeper who avoids conflict and a peacemaker who enters conflict with courage, truth, and conviction. We break down the habits of both, why God calls men to wage war for real peace, and how to start stepping into hard conversations instead of running from them.

If your default move is to stay quiet, smooth things over, and “not rock the boat,” this episode is your wake-up call.

3. QOTD – Quote of the Day

“True peace is not merely the absence of tension; it is the presence of justice.” – Martin Luther King Jr.

5. SOTD – Scripture of the Day (ESV)

Matthew 5:9 (ESV)
“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.”

Habits of a Peacekeeper

• Avoids hard conversations until things blow up.
• Says “it’s fine” when it’s clearly not fine.
• Protects feelings at the expense of souls.
• Buries tension, then resents everyone in silence.

Habits of a Peacemaker

• Confronts issues directly and calmly.
• Tells the truth, even when it makes the room tense.
• Sets and enforces clear boundaries.
• Fights for restoration, not ego or “winning.”

3 steps on how to train as a Peacemaker:

1. Where is the fake peace in my life?
2. Face the fire!
3. Draw the line, And stand on it!

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