Dating in the church can feel confusing and full of unspoken rules. But what if some of the advice we’ve inherited needs to be reexamined? In this honest and timely conversation, I sit down with some members of my team to unpack Counterintuitive Dating, healthy, biblically aligned dating wisdom that challenges religious culture while honoring God’s design. Together, we explore how faith, grief, desire, boundaries, and emotional readiness intersect in dating, and why rushing the process often leads to unnecessary heartbreak.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Why church dating advice doesn’t always prepare us for real relationships
  
  
  
• Dating as a process of self-discovery, not husband-hunting
  
  
  
• Emotional readiness, healing, and grief in dating
  
  
  
• The difference between biblical wisdom and religious pressure
  
  
  
• Letting go of unrealistic standards shaped by culture and social media
  
  
  

The conversation doesn’t stop here; there’s more! Join my Patreon to watch the full extended episode and other exclusive extras, including LeadWell, my premier Patreon community for church staffers and volunteers who want to sharpen their leadership skills, connect with people who truly get ministry life, and lead with greater confidence.

Join Patreon

Use code: LEADWELL to get 25% off your first month!

Here's where you can find My Team:

Jasmine Bell

Andrea St. Louis

LaToya Wider

Send a text

Support the show

Let's stay connected! Here's where you can find me:

Website

Instagram

Facebook

YouTube

Podcast Merch

Executive Coaching

The Pam Ross Experience- June 8, 2024

Track Produced by Purpose Productions/Freddie Banks Music

Prayer isn’t outdated; it’s divine technology. In this inspiring episode, I sit down with Pastor C. Terrell Wheat, Executive Director of Ministry at New Life Covenant Church in Chicago, and author of “The Innovative Prayer Leader,” to explore how believers can reignite their prayer lives with creativity, intentionality, and faith.

Pastor Wheat breaks down what it means to lead prayer innovatively, not by altering Scripture, but by using every tool and opportunity available to engage people in authentic connection with God. This conversation reveals that prayer still works! It just needs leaders willing to meet people where they are.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why prayer is “ancient technology” that never stops working
  
  
  
• How to make prayer accessible and exciting for all generations
  
  
  
• The difference between great intercessors and effective prayer leaders
  
  
  

The conversation doesn’t stop here; there’s more! Join my Patreon to watch the full extended episode and other exclusive extras!

Patreon

Here's where you can find Pastor Wheat:

Website

The Innovative Prayer Leader Book

Instagram

Facebook

YouTube

Send us a text

Support the show

Let's stay connected! Here's where you can find me:

Website

Instagram

Facebook

YouTube

Podcast Merch

Executive Coaching

The Pam Ross Experience- June 8, 2024

Track Produced by Purpose Productions/Freddie Banks Music

What happens when the place you work starts to drain the very soul you bring to it? In this powerful and deeply practical episode, I sit down with Danielle Ayodele, leadership development strategist, executive coach, author, and international speaker, to talk about how to thrive spiritually, mentally, and emotionally in toxic work environments.

Drawing from her faith and experience, Danielle offers real-world wisdom for anyone trying to stay grounded in purpose while navigating corporate chaos. We unpack what it means to bring your whole, spirit-led self to work, and how to fight back, not with frustration or fear, but with spiritual weapons that protect your peace, sharpen your discernment, and keep you anchored in truth.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• The signs of a spiritually toxic workplace (and how to recognize them early)
  
  
  
• Why prayer, praise, and peace are your greatest leadership tools
  
  
  
• How to respond to office politics, manipulation, or microaggressions with grace and strategy
  
  
  
• The power of discernment in decision-making and career transitions
  
  
  
• Practical steps to thrive without losing your integrity or your joy
  
  
  

The conversation doesn’t stop here; there’s more! Join my Patreon to watch the full extended episode and get other exclusive extras!

Patreon

Here's where you can find Danielle:

Instagram

TikTok

LinkedIn

Send us a text

Support the show

Let's stay connected! Here's where you can find me:

Website

Instagram

Facebook

YouTube

Podcast Merch

Executive Coaching

The Pam Ross Experience- June 8, 2024

Track Produced by Purpose Productions/Freddie Banks Music