Jason Lee sits down with Chris Gray — marketer, co-founder of Red Palm, and Front Row Dad — to unpack the decision logic couldn't make, and the alignment work that made his gut trustworthy in the first place. Chris shares how he moves from head to body before reacting, why joy is the most vulnerable emotion, how he built AI "spiritual guides" shaped by the Bhagavad Gita, the Bible, Eckhart Tolle, and Richard Rohr — and the moment one of those agents showed him that turning surrender into a framework was just his ego grabbing the wheel. They dig into faith moves versus good moves, why the peace that goes beyond understanding requires forfeiting your right to understand, why clients are ultimately buying confidence, and how the state you decide in determines the quality of the action. Chris closes with his current living question: what does it actually look like to feel your feelings, when you've spent a lifetime equating feeling with weakness?

• (00:00:00) - Welcome to The Living Question
• (00:00:47) - The decision logic couldn't make
• (00:07:00) - Keeping someone the numbers said to cut
• (00:08:10) - Why joy is the most vulnerable emotion
• (00:12:30) - Catching unconscious reactions at home
• (00:17:45) - AI as a spiritual guide
• (00:20:17) - When surrender becomes another framework
• (00:26:50) - Selling confidence while Google rewrites the rules
• (00:33:27) - How leading from the head once protected him
• (00:38:33) - Chris's living question: learning to feel

• Connect with Chris Gray @yochrisgray — Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
• Red Palm, Chris's marketing company for home service businesses: https://redpalm.us
• The Surrender Experiment by Michael Singer: https://www.amazon.com/Surrender-Experiment-Journey-Lifes-Perfection/dp/080414110X
• Front Row Dads: https://frontrowdads.com