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The Catherine Plano Podcast

The Catherine Plano Podcast

著者： Catherine Plano
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 Your ultimate resource for expanding your mind and accessing more of your brain, while experiencing unparalleled ‘aha’ moments with guaranteed radical shifts to your learning and growth. Catherine’s goal is to help you become the very best version of yourself - to live an extraordinary life by reaching your fullest potential, with self-coaching strategies to boost your confidence, make better decisions, create new habits, kickstart your motivation, get extraordinary results and build lasting change for a meaningful life that you will absolutely love! Get inspired and energised with your weekly dose of new ideas and insights.Copyright 2025 All rights reserved. 代替医療・補完医療 個人的成功 自己啓発 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • EP 446: Why You Can’t Say No Without Feeling Guilty (Codependency Truth) with Lisa A. Romano

    EP 446: Why You Can’t Say No Without Feeling Guilty (Codependency Truth) with Lisa A. Romano
    2025/12/16
    What if the reason you can’t say no isn’t weakness, but conditioning? From childhood, so many of us were taught that love had to be earned, that being good meant staying quiet, agreeable, and available. But somewhere along the way, that survival strategy became self-betrayal. In this powerful episode, bestselling author and trauma recovery coach Lisa A. Romano reveals the truth about codependency: it’s not about needing others too much, but about forgetting who you are. She explains why guilt floods your body when you set a boundary and how healing begins the moment you realise your inner critic isn’t actually your voice—it’s an echo from your past. This is a conversation for anyone who’s tired of people-pleasing, over-giving, or shrinking themselves to keep the peace. Because real love doesn’t require you to abandon yourself. It begins the moment you come home to you. The Woman Who Broke the Cycle Lisa A. Romano didn’t just study codependency—she lived it. Growing up with parents who were adult children of alcoholics, one highly narcissistic and the other deeply codependent, Lisa carried shame throughout her entire childhood. She believed something about her made it impossible for her parents to love her. This pattern followed her into adulthood. She married a man similar to her mother, repeating the cycle of seeking approval and subjugating herself. After a severe breakdown and six therapists, she finally received the diagnosis that changed everything: codependency. The tragedy that catalysed her mission came when her brother-in-law, also an adult child of alcoholics, took his own life. In that devastating moment, Lisa realised that if he had understood codependency and childhood trauma the way she now did, he might still be alive. She pushed past her fears of what her family would think and published her first book, “The Road Back to Me,” which became an Amazon bestseller overnight. Today, as a certified life coach and leading expert in codependency and childhood trauma recovery, Lisa has helped over 5,000 students heal through her signature 12-week Breakthrough Method, blending neuroscience, trauma-informed coaching, mindfulness, and spiritual wisdom. What Codependency Actually Means “When you’re codependent, you don’t know that you’re codependent until your life becomes unmanageable,” Lisa explains. It operates completely below conscious awareness, a loop of childhood trauma disguised as personality. Codependency isn’t just people-pleasing. It’s people-pleasing from a loss of selfhood. It’s cleaning the house but needing your husband to walk in and pat you on the back. Making his favorite meal but requiring him to make a big deal about it. Watching your sister’s kids but expecting her to watch yours in return without having to ask. “With codependency, it’s an emotional enmeshment,” Lisa reveals. “I lose my sense of self and I’m emotionally reliant on someone in a very unhealthy way, and I don’t even realize it.” The dangerous part? Codependents often think they’re “the good one.” They’re the fixers, the caretakers, the ones always willing to listen. But beneath that giving is resentment, unmet expectations, and the victim mentality that comes from abandoning yourself while trying to avoid being abandoned by others. Why You Can’t Say No: The Childhood Programming The guilt you feel when setting boundaries isn’t random. It’s precisely programmed survival wiring from your first three years of life. “Your needs aren’t being served, your ego-based needs from zero to three,” Lisa explains. “You’re in a theta brainwave state, which is a hypnotic brainwave state.” During this critical period, if your narcissistic needs—the healthy developmental need to matter, to be seen, to have your feelings validated—go unmet, you don’t develop a solid ego boundary. Between ages three and five, children are supposed to be “little narcissists.” The adults around them should be managing what shows up inside them, helping them emotionally regulate, and teaching them that their feelings matter. When this doesn’t happen, children learn that they don’t have the right to feel, and therefore don’t have the right to set boundaries. “If I say no, I might get abandoned or criticised or judged or shamed or banished from the kingdom,” Lisa describes. “That’s all stored.” The brain creates a predictive model: saying no produces guilt as a way to prevent abandonment. You’re abandoning yourself to avoid outer abandonment. Operating Below the Veil “Below the veil of consciousness, we’re just operating on a loop,” Lisa says. “We’re operating on childhood trauma. These are belief systems. They’ve become habitual thoughts. It becomes part of our persona.” The subconscious mind is 500,000 to a million times stronger than the conscious mind. Most of your daily interactions are products of subconscious beliefs you’ve ...
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  • EP 445: The Mental Health System Wants You Stable. I Want You Thriving with Gabe Howard

    EP 445: The Mental Health System Wants You Stable. I Want You Thriving with Gabe Howard
    2025/12/09
    What if the mental health diagnosis you’ve been told limits you is actually the beginning of your most extraordinary life? What if stability isn’t the ceiling, but just the foundation? What if the system telling you to “just be stable” has been setting the bar far too low? Award-winning speaker and mental health advocate Gabe Howard reveals a truth the mental health system doesn’t want you to hear: people with serious mental illness can do more than survive. They can thrive, build careers, speak at Oxford University, and lead badass lives. The Dreams That Bipolar Disorder Interrupted Gabe Howard grew up dreaming of becoming a tech mogul, the next Bill Gates or Steve Jobs. It was the mid-90s, the early days of the internet, and he wanted to be an entrepreneur in the public eye. He even considered stand-up comedy. Then bipolar disorder happened. Psychosis happened. Suicidality happened. He was committed to a psychiatric hospital, and everything came crashing down. When he finally reached recovery, Gabe was angry and traumatised. He searched desperately for resources to help himself and his parents, but the harder he looked, the less he found. That’s when he realised something powerful: he wanted somebody to do something, and then he realised he was somebody. He never thought advocacy would become his career. He thought he’d volunteer for his local mental health charity and maybe make a small impact. Now, he’s a Webby Award winner, hosts the Inside Bipolar and Inside Mental Health podcasts, has spoken at Oxford University and the National Press Club in Washington, DC, and wrote a book called Mental Illness is an Asshole and Other Observations. Mental Health Is Identical to Physical Health One of Gabe’s most powerful insights: mental health isn’t like physical health. It’s identical to physical health. Everyone has mental health, just like everyone has physical health. Most people, most of the time, have good mental health. But just like you can catch a cold or break a bone, you can experience mental health challenges. The day after losing a loved one, no one expects you to be at your best mentally. That’s normal. Yet society treats mental health as binary: you’re either “crazy” or “perfectly fine,” with no room for the grey areas where real life actually happens. The System Wants You Stable. Gabe Wants You Thriving. Gabe challenges the mental health establishment’s tendency to set expectations dangerously low. Too often, people with schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, or major depression are told that getting a part-time job and living in a group home means “you’re doing great.” While stability matters, it shouldn’t be the only goal. He’s witnessed people in group homes being told they can’t work full-time or pursue their passions when the real issue is that the system is too scared of relapse to let them try. He shares the inspiring story of Rachel Starr Withers, who lives with schizophrenia yet has hiked volcanoes, appeared in Marvel films, and hosts the Inside Schizophrenia podcast. Her philosophy: “I want to lead a badass life.” No Magic Bullet, Just Consistent Jabs Using boxing as a metaphor, Gabe explains that recovery isn’t about one knockout punch. Everyone loves the idea of that one breakthrough moment, but most fights aren’t won that way. What wins is dozens of small jabs: maintaining sleep hygiene, taking medication as prescribed, keeping mood journals, attending therapy, exercising, eating well, and practicing radical honesty. These seemingly small things add up to sustainable wellness. The key is consistency, not perfection. The Workplace Stigma That Costs Everyone Gabe makes a compelling business case for reducing mental health stigma in the workplace. Companies that create cultures where employees can be honest about their struggles gain productivity. When people feel safe saying they need a mental health hour, they’re more likely to come in later that day rather than calling in sick entirely. This transparency transforms a full day lost into just an hour or two, making it not only ethically right but also more profitable. Three Golden Nuggets for Your Journey Everyone Has Mental Health. Mental health is NOT just negative. It’s a spectrum everyone exists on, just like physical health. The Basics Really Matter. Recovery isn’t one big breakthrough. It’s many small pieces fitting together: sleep, diet, movement, medication, therapy, and honest communication. The Goal Is to THRIVE. Don’t just “live with” mental illness. Believe that people with mental illness can lead GREAT lives, not just get by. About Gabe Howard Gabe Howard is the host of Healthline Media’s Inside Bipolar and Inside Mental Health podcasts and author of Mental Illness is an Asshole and Other Observations. Diagnosed with bipolar disorder in 2003 after being committed to a psychiatric hospital, he received a resolution from the Governor of Ohio naming him an ...
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  • EP 444: How To Connect With Your Spirit Guides & Unlock Your Psychic Abilities with MaryAnn DiMarco

    EP 444: How To Connect With Your Spirit Guides & Unlock Your Psychic Abilities with MaryAnn DiMarco
    2025/12/02
    What if the psychic abilities you’ve been searching for have been within you all along? What if those gut feelings, intuitive hits, and inner knowing aren’t random occurrences, but your spirit guides leaving breadcrumbs for you to follow? What if the exhaustion from constantly working on yourself isn’t a sign you need to try harder, but permission to finally pause and receive? Psychic medium MaryAnn DiMarco reveals a profound truth: we all have psychic abilities, and connecting with our spirit guides isn’t about raising our vibration or becoming someone we’re not. It’s about remembering who we already are. The Spiritual Awakening That Started in Childhood MaryAnn DiMarco grew up with a mother who was incredibly spiritual, teaching her to meditate and connect with ascended masters when she was very little. She always thought it was completely normal to talk about psychic abilities and sit in stillness to connect with the other side. She knew from a young age that she was psychic. She would dream about lost loved ones, know things before they happened, and receive strong intuitive hits about people. But it wasn’t until her 30s, when her life took an unexpected turn, that she wound up in the hands of spiritual healer Pat Longo. As her life was unraveling, there was a coming together in a whole new way. Now, MaryAnn teaches people how to make their own connection and interact with spirit without needing an intermediary. Your Intuition Is Your Psychic Ability When people hear “psychic abilities,” they often think of something mystical and rare. MaryAnn dismantles this misconception: your intuition, those gut feelings, that absolute knowing of something when you’re not quite sure why you know it, those are all psychic abilities. Each and every single one of us can do this. MaryAnn teaches “the five-second rule” for recognising intuition. It’s that first initial thought, that immediate hit before our earthly mind gets in there and starts talking us out of things. If we can get into that initial intuitive pull, we can start to truly understand what our psychic intuition feels like. Spirit Guides Leave Breadcrumbs, Not Answers Your spirit guides aren’t giving you all the answers. They’re highlighting what you yourself already know to be true. They use signs, symbols, and messages to get you to hear your higher self. Then together, you co-create the best parts of your life. A lot of people feel that spirit is going to give them answers, that there’s going to be this awakening where some being walks in and says, “Here’s your answer.” But what they’re actually saying is: you know your answer, and here are tools to help you get there. Permission to Stop Working on Yourself In a refreshing moment of honesty, host Catherine Plano admits she’s exhausted from constantly working on herself. MaryAnn’s response is revolutionary: “We don’t have to chase everything. We are here receiving, and receiving is a much better flow for us.” If you’re saying to yourself, “I am just done with working on anything right now,” that is your inner guidance saying you can take a break. This isn’t a constant class every single day. It’s okay to be frustrated, tired, or need a break. When we’re constantly working on ourselves, we’re actually projecting that we’re broken. What about just accepting yourself the way that you are? You Don’t Need High Vibration to Connect One of the most liberating truths MaryAnn shares: you can be in deep grief and still communicate with your spirit guides. Spirit is well aware that we are human. They’re not expecting us to be in astral flight all the time. If raising your vibration is impossible for you, they will come to you. MaryAnn writes about times of being on her knees in deep grief, praying that energy would come to her. And it did. Three Golden Nuggets for Your Journey Believe the Light Is Within You. You are not separate from that light. We were made from it and are part of it. You can utilise that light and these abilities anytime you want. Never Let Anyone Define Your Authenticity. Allow yourself to be exactly who you are and celebrate all of those moments every single day. What You Learn, Please Teach. When you understand who you are, share it with others. Give your knowledge to anyone who wants to receive it. About MaryAnn DiMarco MaryAnn DiMarco is a psychic medium, spiritual teacher, and author of “The Guidebook.” Based in New York, she teaches people how to connect with their spirit guides and access their innate psychic abilities through mentorship programs, retreats, and group sessions. Key Takeaway You are not broken. The abilities you seek already live within you. When you honour your authentic spiritual practice and trust your inner knowing, your connection with spirit becomes natural. Your spirit guides are always with you, leaving breadcrumbs and waiting for you to remember the power that has always been yours. ...
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