In this solo episode, Erika opens up about Kingston, her soul dog, and Pets Are Family, the book she never planned to write. She makes the case that grief is not something to be fixed, that people do not need their pain solved, they need it acknowledged. Erika unpacks how her dogs became her kids, the morning eight years in when Kingston woke up not himself and her world quietly began to come apart, and the impossible week that followed. She is honest about the parts of grief no one prepares you for and the shame of admitting she was not okay while running a company. Erika also shares how one private loss became a national movement around pet bereavement leave, the strangers who checked on her every day until they became real friends, and how Kingston still sends her signs right when she needs the proof. She closes with the reframe that changed how she shows up for everyone she loves, and a challenge to stop trying to fix the people you love and simply acknowledge their pain.

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0:00 The love that changes how you move through the world

2:27 The day Kingston chose me

5:58 My soul dog

6:18 The morning everything changed

9:01 The decision no one prepares you for

11:24 Why I started therapy and stopped hiding it

16:38 The moment I knew I had to write the book

21:09 Coming back from grief, and the turtles

28:22 You do not need to fix grief

29:13 Your challenge this week

In the first guest episode of The Blow Your Mind Podcast, Erika sits down with Ruchi Pinniger, former hedge fund CFO, founder and CEO of Watch Her Prosper®, and one of the women named to the Women Leading the Finance Industry list. Ruchi makes the case that you cannot outperform a poor money mindset, and that most of what shapes our financial lives is subconscious belief absorbed in childhood, long before we ever earn a dollar. She unpacks the most common money story she hears from the women she works with, why practical bookkeeping alone never closes the gap, and how to build sustainable money rituals like Money Mondays and Finance Fridays without judgment or shame. Ruchi also shares her own turning point, from an immigrant childhood and a Prada bag that changed nothing, to the hardest year of her life, and what both taught her about where prosperity actually comes from. She closes with her RIR Method™ and a challenge to stop asking why you feel behind and start dreaming about the life you actually want to build.

Download Ruchi’s “Your Prosperous Life™ Calculator” and get your number: https://yourprosperouslife.com/

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Follow Erika on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erika_sinner/

Check out her website: https://erikasinner.org/

Buy her book, Pets Are Family: https://erikasinner.org/book

Check out TinySuperheroes: https://tinysuperheroes.com/

0:00 Welcome back!

0:44 Meet Ruchi Pinniger

2:21 The most common money story: "I'm not good at the numbers"

3:04 Where your money story actually comes from

7:52 Your Prosperous Life™ Number and giving yourself permission to dream

10:34 Money rituals: Money Mondays, Finance Fridays, and money conversations

15:49 Ruchi's own story, the Prada bag, and "prosperity is an inside job"

17:56 The RIR Method™: recognize, interrupt, reframe

19:53 The Mind Blown Moment: the hardest year and what it revealed

23:11 The 7-day Challenge

Erika is joined by her husband Chris for an honest, funny, and surprisingly tender look at the things they actually fight about. It starts with the road trip argument she will never let him live down, a story involving missing coordinates and a bag of corn nuts, and survives a real-time fire alarm going off mid-recording, dogs and all. From there it moves into the parts of marriage most people keep behind closed doors. They talk about being in their second marriages, the words you can never take back, why Erika used to break pencils when she felt angry, and the small dismissive comment that quietly hurt her for far longer than Chris ever realized. At its center is the breakthrough conversation where Erika finally admitted she felt like the person she respects most did not think she was smart, and what naming that out loud changed. Part comedy, part marriage clinic, this is a real conversation about communication, blind spots, self-awareness, and what it looks like to keep choosing each other on purpose.

Follow Erika on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erika_sinner/

Check out her website: https://erikasinner.org/

Buy her book, Pets Are Family: https://erikasinner.org/book

Check out TinySuperheroes: https://tinysuperheroes.com/

00:00 Welcome to the show

00:44 The three things to do before you marry someone

02:38 The road trip, the coordinates, and the corn nuts

06:33 Growing up in a house where no one raised their voice

08:26 Why Erika used to break pencils

11:25 The words you can never take back

15:27 When "no" was the default answer

17:16 The comment that actually hurt my feelings

20:40 The mind blown moment: know how you fight

24:00 This week's challenge