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False hope can be a comforting lie, but it often leads to greater disappointment. In this powerful and incredibly honest episode, Kevin Nuñez tackles the sensitive topic of false hope within the disability community, sharing his personal experiences and why he believes brutal honesty, paired with empathy, is essential.

Evin recounts his own childhood experiences with doctors and therapists who gave his family false expectations about "walking again," only to face repeated letdowns He argues that this practice, often well-intentioned, can be more damaging than helpful, especially for children who internalize these unfulfilled promises as personal failures This isn't just about physical rehabilitation; it extends to broader societal interactions where people offer empty reassurances about things they don't understand

This episode challenges us to rethink how we support and communicate with individuals with disabilities[cite: Kevin advocates for a balance of empathy and realism, pushing for genuine understanding over platitudes He asks why we celebrate minimal progress instead of recognizing the full, complex lives people with disabilities lead, and stresses the importance of fostering self-love and self-respect in a world that often measures worth by physical ability.

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• New Jersey families support planning councils https://njcdd.org/the-regional-family-support-planning-councils/

• Mom to Mom hotline https://mom2mom.us.com/contact/

• NJ SPAN https://spanadvocacy.org/

• Episode Transcript TAL S3 E 17 Disability and Parenting.docx

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We all have dreams, but what happens when they don't work out? In this powerful episode, Kevin Nuñez shares his personal journey of chasing a lifelong dream, only to have a new, unexpected door open. He reflects on his childhood dream of being a politician and how that evolved into a deeply personal goal of serving on a national advocacy board.

Kevin takes you behind the scenes of his application process, sharing his confidence and the emotional blow of being rejected from what he saw as his "dream job". But just two hours later, he received a call that changed everything, offering him an opportunity to serve on another national board that he had never even considered.

This episode is a vital reminder that advocacy isn't for money or fame; it's about being a voice for the voiceless and "planting the seed for a tree that someone else will sit under". Listen in as Kevin explores the importance of being aware of the "windows and doors that are open to us" and why a perceived "no" can be the redirection you need.

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TAL S3 E 15 Open Doors (1).docx

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• NJCDD https://njcdd.org/about-the-njcdd/

• NACDD https://nacdd.org/

• TASH https://tash.org/

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When did we, as a society, give up our conscience for comfort? In this powerful and unfiltered episode, Kevin Nuñez challenges listeners to pop their own "bubble" and confront the uncomfortable truths of a divided America.

Kevin opens up about disturbing events, like the tragic death of a young woman on a subway, and questions why people stood by and did nothing. He reflects on a time when a national tragedy like 9/11 united Americans, contrasting that with the current culture of indifference.

This is more than just a commentary on society; it's a personal call to action. Kevin shares how his disability has taught him to constantly adapt and grow, a skill he argues many Americans have lost. He challenges the idea that being able to walk means you are going somewhere, pointing out that many people who walk all day have no purpose behind their steps.

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