In this episode, we dive into John 15 and 16 to explore what it truly means to abide in the love of Christ. Walking through Jesus’ final upper-room instructions to His disciples, we break down two foundational principles—that God is sovereign and good and that reality is our friend. Discover how letting go of the myths of self-reliance, constant comfort, and instant gratification allows us to anchor our lives deeply in the Vine.

Key Takeaways & Timestamps:

• – Two Family Mottos: Why embracing reality and trusting God's sovereign goodness sets the stage for deep spiritual growth.

• – Myth 1: The Myth of Self: Dismantling the culture of self-determination ("I am the captain of my soul") and embracing Jesus’ words that apart from Him, we can do nothing.

• – The Hardest Command: Why loving God feels manageable, but staying connected to the Vine through loving imperfect people in community is where real faith happens.

• – Myth 2: The Myth of Comfort: Why we shouldn't confuse God's pruning with His punishment, and how hardship often signals growth rather than disapproval.

• – Myth 3: The Myth of the Immediate: Overcoming our demand for instant fixes, resisting the urge to numb present pain, and leaning into the indwelling Holy Spirit.

• – "Take Heart": Living from the reality of Christ’s finished victory—He has already overcome the world.

Scripture References:

• John 15:1–17 (The True Vine and loving one another)

• John 15:18–16:4 (The world’s hatred and the purpose of pruning)

• John 16:5–33 (The promise of the Holy Spirit and overcoming the world)

Reflection Questions for the Week:

1. Which of the three myths (Self, Comfort, or Immediate) do you struggle with the most?

2. Are you currently experiencing a season of trial that might actually be God lovingly pruning you for greater fruitfulness?

3. How can you practice abiding in Christ’s love through sacrificial love for someone in your community this week?

We don't live in an easy world. Jesus knew that — and he didn't pretend otherwise.

In John 14, we find Jesus in the upper room with his eleven closest disciples on the darkest night of their lives. Judas has left. Death is coming. And into that weight, Jesus speaks words that are honest, tender, and durable: "Do not let your hearts be troubled."

In this sermon, we sit with the questions that surface when life gets hard:

• Where will I go?
• How will I get there?
• What do I do right now?
• Am I alone?
• How can I have peace when everything is falling apart?

Jesus answers every one of them — and his answers are better than anything the world offers.

In this episode:

• Why "God has a wonderful plan for your life" often rings hollow — and what Jesus says instead
• The promise of the Father's house and what it means to have a future home to hold onto
• Jesus as the way, the truth, and the life — not just a theological claim, but a lifeline
• The Greek word behind "another advocate" (allos) and why it matters that the Spirit is one of the same kind as Christ
• The broken supports we lean on when life gets hard — and why we resist trusting the one who can actually hold us
• Thomas à Kempis on following the way, believing the truth, and living the life

Key Passage: John 14:1–6, 15–18, 25–27

"Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me." — John 14:1

"I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you." — John 14:18

"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives." — John 14:27

Referenced:

• Thomas à Kempis, The Imitation of Christ
• The Princess Bride (yes, really)

Jesus ties a towel around his waist and kneels at the feet of the man who will betray him. In this next installment of the John series, we step into the upper room — the last night, the last teaching, the last hours before the cross — and discover that the way of Jesus is rooted in a love that discomforts before it comforts.

In this episode:

• Why John 13–17 is written for the church, not just for history
• The double meaning of "he loved them to the end" (John 13:1)
• What foot washing actually cost Jesus in an honor/shame culture
• Why Jesus honors Judas with the choicest bread at the table — knowing what's coming
• The new command, and why "love one another" was never really new
• What Peter's failure (and restoration) teaches us about sacrificial love

Scripture: John 13:1–38

Discussion questions:

1. Who is the "Judas" in your life right now — someone you'd rather exclude than serve?
2. Where have you swept a hurt under the rug instead of having the hard conversation?
3. When has love cost you something real?
4. Where do you need the same restoration Jesus gave Peter?

Related: Catch up on the full John series — Believing Is Seeing, and Believing Is Life — wherever you found this episode.