About This Episode

There's a sentence that has been sitting with me this week, quietly reorganising how I think about everything else. True happiness is the absence of the search for happiness. It sounds almost like a riddle at first. But the more I've turned it over, the more it feels like a key — one that unlocks something about presence, about enough, about why so much of modern life leaves us feeling like happiness is permanently one step ahead. In this episode of the Alder Path Podcast I explore: What the search for happiness actually looks like in modern life — striving, comparing, consuming, scrolling, Why the search itself, by its very structure, takes us away from the present moment — the only place happiness has ever actually existed, What replaces the searching when it stops, even briefly, Why this isn't an argument for passivity or giving up on a wonderful life — but a different orientation toward building one and lastly, A simple practice for noticing when you're searching for something that might already be here.

A Question Worth Carrying

Where in your life are you searching for something that might already be here, if you stopped reaching past it long enough to notice? Don't rush to answer. Just carry the question. On a walk, in the garden, in a quiet moment before sleep.

About Roger Hunt & Alder Path Coaching

I'm Roger Hunt — gardener, nature-based life coach, and host of the Alder Path Podcast. I tend gardens and I tend people — helping those in midlife find their way back to a simpler, more grounded life.I work with people age 40+ navigating significant life transitions — those who arrive feeling confused and overwhelmed, and leave feeling clear and calm. My coaching is walk and talk, nature-based, and unhurried. No quick fixes. Just honest, grounded conversation at the pace that real change actually requires.

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If anything in this episode resonated and you'd like to explore coaching, or simply have a quiet conversation about where you are, I'd love to hear from you.

🌿 Website: www.alderpathcoaching.co.uk

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Disclaimer

The reflections shared in this podcast are my own personal thoughts and experiences. They are intended for general information and reflection only, and are not a substitute for professional mental health support, therapy, or counselling. I am a qualified coach — holding a Level 5 Diploma in Performance Coaching and NLP and trained as a mindfulness teacher — but I am not a counsellor, psychotherapist, or mental health professional. If you are experiencing significant emotional distress or mental health difficulties, please seek support from a qualified professional or contact your GP. Nothing shared in this podcast should be taken as personal coaching advice. If you'd like to explore working together, please get in touch directly.

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Walk slowly. Pay attention. And notice when you're searching for something that's already here. 🌿