Welcome to another riveting episode of Tell Me Lies with Terah and Kaily! This week, we're peeling back the shiny veneer of relentless optimism to uncover the ugly truths behind toxic positivity and Pollyanna Syndrome.

Have you ever felt pressured to "stay positive" even when life is falling apart? Join Terah and Kaily as they dive deep into the dark side of positivity culture. We'll share real stories and expert insights that reveal how forcing a smile can sometimes do more harm than good. Discover how Pollyanna Syndrome—always looking on the bright side—can actually hinder emotional growth and leave us stuck in a cycle of denial and suppression.

Through heartfelt conversations and eye-opening revelations, we'll explore why it's crucial to embrace our full range of emotions. Learn how to balance positivity with authenticity, and find out why sometimes, it’s okay not to be okay. This episode is packed with practical tips on how to navigate your feelings honestly and support others in doing the same.

Don’t miss out on this enlightening and engaging discussion. Tune in now on your favorite podcast platform, and let’s break free from the constraints of toxic positivity together! Share your thoughts and experiences with us, and be part of the movement towards a more genuine and emotionally healthy life.

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"From Purity to Snakes: Melissa Duge Spiers on Shedding Religious Skin"

In this groundbreaking episode, Terah and Kaily sit down with Melissa Duge Spiers, a renowned influencer also known as the "Glory Whole." Renowned for her unapologetic exploration of faith, feminism, and freedom, her articles are frequently featured in the Huffington Post.

Diving deep into the heart of contemporary religious phenomena, Melissa takes us on a journey from the shackles of purity culture to the enigmatic world of snake handling worship, challenging conventional beliefs and confronting the shadows of religious abuse.

The episode kicks off with Melissa's personal encounter with purity culture, a movement that has shaped the lives of countless individuals within evangelical communities. Through her lens, we explore the profound impacts of this ideology on self-image, sexuality, and personal freedom, shedding light on the internal conflicts and liberation that follow the pursuit of purity.

Venturing into more obscure territory, Melissa shares her experience with the tradition of snake handling as a form of worship. This practice, rooted in a literal interpretation of scripture, serves as a stark emblem of faith's extremities. Melissa's reflections provoke a broader contemplation of faith, risk, and devotion, inviting listeners to question the boundaries of their own beliefs.

The conversation takes a bold turn as Melissa recounts her experiences visiting brothels, an endeavor that illuminates the complex interplay between sexuality, morality, and religion. Through her eyes, we witness the human stories behind these establishments, challenging preconceived notions and highlighting the often overlooked humanity within these spaces.

Finally, Melissa addresses the dark spectrum of religious abuse, sharing poignant stories from those who have suffered and survived. Her insights into the mechanisms and impacts of such abuse offer a beacon of hope and a call to action for empathy, understanding, and change within religious communities.

This episode is a compelling tapestry of stories, reflections, and revelations with Melissa Duge Spiers at the helm, guiding us through the murky waters of faith, freedom, and the quest for truth. Join us for an unforgettable exploration of what it means to question, to believe, and to evolve beyond the confines of conventional spirituality.

Music used by permission from The Deadbeat Cousins, "Don't Tell Me No Lies." Visit them at www.deadbeatcousins.com

All audio is owned by Terah and Kaily at the Tell Me Lies Podcast and may not be used without express written permission from the podcast hosts.

Visit Terah at terahnoel.com for more information on recovering from religious trauma and narcissistic abuse.

"From Purity to Snakes: Melissa Duge Spiers on Shedding Religious Skin"

In this groundbreaking episode, Terah and Kaily sit down with Melissa Duge Spiers, a renowned influencer also known as the "Glory Whole." Renowned for her unapologetic exploration of faith, feminism, and freedom, her articles are frequently featured in the Huffington Post.

Diving deep into the heart of contemporary religious phenomena, Melissa takes us on a journey from the shackles of purity culture to the enigmatic world of snake handling worship, challenging conventional beliefs and confronting the shadows of religious abuse.

The episode kicks off with Melissa's personal encounter with purity culture, a movement that has shaped the lives of countless individuals within evangelical communities. Through her lens, we explore the profound impacts of this ideology on self-image, sexuality, and personal freedom, shedding light on the internal conflicts and liberation that follow the pursuit of purity.

Venturing into more obscure territory, Melissa shares her experience with the tradition of snake handling as a form of worship. This practice, rooted in a literal interpretation of scripture, serves as a stark emblem of faith's extremities. Melissa's reflections provoke a broader contemplation of faith, risk, and devotion, inviting listeners to question the boundaries of their own beliefs.

The conversation takes a bold turn as Melissa recounts her experiences visiting brothels, an endeavor that illuminates the complex interplay between sexuality, morality, and religion. Through her eyes, we witness the human stories behind these establishments, challenging preconceived notions and highlighting the often overlooked humanity within these spaces.

Finally, Melissa addresses the dark spectrum of religious abuse, sharing poignant stories from those who have suffered and survived. Her insights into the mechanisms and impacts of such abuse offer a beacon of hope and a call to action for empathy, understanding, and change within religious communities.

This episode is a compelling tapestry of stories, reflections, and revelations with Melissa Duge Spiers at the helm, guiding us through the murky waters of faith, freedom, and the quest for truth. Join us for an unforgettable exploration of what it means to question, to believe, and to evolve beyond the confines of conventional spirituality.

Music used by permission from The Deadbeat Cousins, "Don't Tell Me No Lies." Visit them at www.deadbeatcousins.com

All audio is owned by Terah and Kaily at the Tell Me Lies Podcast and may not be used without express written permission from the podcast hosts.

Visit Terah at terahnoel.com for more information on recovering from religious trauma and narcissistic abuse.

In this electrifying episode of "Tell Me Lies," Kaily and Terah dive deep into the waters of romantic entanglements. "7 Signs You're Dating a Sociopath" is not just another love story gone wrong; it's an eye-opening exploration that might have you re-examining your love life. Join us as we unravel the complex web of charm, manipulation, and downright deceit that could be lurking in the most unsuspecting places—right across the dinner table.

In this episode ,we dissect the subtle signs that you might be sharing your popcorn with a sociopath. From their enchanting charisma that swept you off your feet, to their mysterious lack of empathy hiding beneath surface-level emotions, this episode is packed with all the red flags you never knew you needed to watch out for.

Whether you're neck-deep in the dating game or happily single, this episode is a must-listen for anyone fascinated by the darker twists and turns of human relationships. So, buckle up and let's embark on this spine-tingling journey together. Remember, not all lies are created equal, and some might just be more dangerous than others.

Music by the Deadbeat Cousins. Check them out at www.thedeadbeatcousins.com.

We interview Sarah from the podcast, "You Can't Get to Heaven in a Mini Skirt", and we dive into all this, and more: faith deconstruction, atheism, coming out as gay when you're a church member, Christian camps, the Hillsong documentary, female submission, speaking in tongues, what it means to be "slain" in the spirit, and why Sarah felt she had to lie to be accepted in her Baptist community. This is an upbeat look at some serious topics, and you'll definitely enjoy it!