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  • Denied a Promotion but Asked to Train Your Replacement? What to Do Next
    2025/12/22

    Big Slick here 👊 Got a story or need advice? Text me now — might make it on Talk Ya Sh!t! 🎙️💯

    Ever been denied a promotion—then asked to train the person who got the job? That gut punch isn’t just disrespectful, it’s a warning sign. In this episode, Big Slick breaks down a listener’s story that exposes one of the most common workplace traps: unpaid training disguised as “shadowing.”

    We unpack why being asked to train someone above your pay grade is about control, leverage, and free labor, not development. You’ll learn how vague language like “help them get up to speed” quietly expands your role while shrinking your value—and why teaching a higher position can actually put a target on your back.

    This episode gives you real scripts and strategies to protect yourself:

    • How to say no without burning bridges
    • What to put in writing to define your role
    • When to ask for extra pay or a formal trainer title
    • How to spot when the issue isn’t skill—but politics, preference, or bias

    We also lay out a step-by-step exit plan if it’s time to move on:
    Keep your income while you interview. Update your resume with measurable wins. Secure off-platform references. Create a paper trail that protects your reputation. And when the right offer comes, leave clean—with momentum intact.

    If they want your knowledge but not your promotion, that’s your signal to level up elsewhere.


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    New Episodes every Monday, Wednesday & Friday at 6AM!


    Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on Talk Ya Sh!t Podcast are those of the host and guests. This podcast is for entertainment and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified professional regarding mental health, financial decisions, or personal issues. The host shares personal experiences and opinions — take what resonates and always do what’s best for you.


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    7 分
  • Toxic Family Behavior: How to Protect Your Peace Without Cutting Everyone Off
    2025/12/12

    Big Slick here 👊 Got a story or need advice? Text me now — might make it on Talk Ya Sh!t! 🎙️💯

    What do you do when family gatherings feel more like interrogation rooms?
    This episode breaks down a listener’s story about toxic relatives, judgmental comments, guilt trips, and backhanded “advice” that leaves them drained every time they show up. We get into why family criticism cuts deeper, how emotional manipulation shows up at the dinner table, and the signs you’re stuck in a cycle of disrespect.

    Big Slick unpacks the difference between normal family conflict and emotionally unsafe environments, then walk you through real boundary tools you can use today. You’ll learn quick one-liners that shut down intrusive questions, ways to protect your energy without blowing up the room, and how to set consequences with zero drama. We break down your real options—speak up, limit contact, or skip the event entirely—and which path makes the most sense depending on the situation.

    Most importantly, we redefine what family actually means. Blood doesn’t give anyone permission to violate your peace. Respect, honesty, and emotional safety are the real qualifications. If your relatives won’t honor your boundaries, you get to reposition them without guilt and build a supportive circle that genuinely builds you up.

    If you’ve ever felt attacked, drained, or dismissed by the people closest to you, this episode gives you clarity, language, and confidence to put yourself first.

    📩 Got something on your mind?
    Write in to the “Let’s Talk About It Letter” at: Talkyashitdaily@gmail.com

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    👉 Hit that like, comment, and subscribe — and let’s talk our sh!t!

    New Episodes every Monday, Wednesday & Friday at 6AM!


    Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on Talk Ya Sh!t Podcast are those of the host and guests. This podcast is for entertainment and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified professional regarding mental health, financial decisions, or personal issues. The host shares personal experiences and opinions — take what resonates and always do what’s best for you.

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    7 分
  • Are You Being Hidden? Signs You’re a Secret, Not a Partner
    2025/12/10

    Big Slick here 👊 Got a story or need advice? Text me now — might make it on Talk Ya Sh!t! 🎙️💯

    Are you being “kept private”… or straight-up hidden?
    This episode breaks down a listener’s story about dating someone for six months with no posts, no invites, no holidays, and no real access—and what those patterns actually mean. This isn’t about clout. It’s about your place in someone’s life.

    Big Slick breaks down the difference between healthy privacy and harmful secrecy—because one protects your relationship, and the other protects a double life. If you’ve never met their friends, only see them at night, or get excuses every time the weekend comes around, those aren’t quirks… they’re side-piece signals.

    You’ll learn a simple framework to test someone’s true intentions:
    ➡️ Ask for a daytime date
    ➡️ Ask for an intro to ONE friend
    ➡️ Ask about the next holiday
    Then watch what they do—not what they say.

    We also dig into why people hide relationships, how to spot emotional manipulation early, and how to walk away with your self-worth intact if you realize you were the secret the whole time.

    If you’re tired of mixed signals and want clarity, this episode gives you the blueprint.

    📩 Got something on your mind?
    Write in to the “Let’s Talk About It Letter” at: Talkyashitdaily@gmail.com

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    👉 Hit that like, comment, and subscribe — and let’s talk our sh!t!

    New Episodes every Monday, Wednesday & Friday at 6AM!


    Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on Talk Ya Sh!t Podcast are those of the host and guests. This podcast is for entertainment and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified professional regarding mental health, financial decisions, or personal issues. The host shares personal experiences and opinions — take what resonates and always do what’s best for you.

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    6 分
  • Should I Quit My Job or Set Boundaries? | Overworked, Underpaid & Burned Out
    2025/12/08

    Big Slick here 👊 Got a story or need advice? Text me now — might make it on Talk Ya Sh!t! 🎙️💯

    Are you doing the work of three people for the pay of one? Feeling burned out, underpaid, and unsure if you should quit or finally set boundaries? This episode breaks down EXACTLY what to do when your job keeps piling on responsibilities without respect, recognition, or compensation.

    Big Slick dives into scope creep, toxic workloads, and the moment your job quietly shifts from manageable to mentally draining. You’ll learn how to push back professionally with clear boundaries, how to communicate changes in duties, and what to say when management keeps “adding just one more thing.”

    We also talk about the truth behind two weeks' notices, whether they’re necessary, and why many companies expect loyalty they don’t return. You’ll get a blueprint for leaving the right way, capturing your accomplishments, protecting yourself legally, and transitioning into a better role with confidence.

    If you’re staying, we give you a clean playbook for renegotiating your role, asking for updated job expectations, and getting pay that matches your actual responsibilities. If you’re leaving, we give you the mindset to walk away strong.

    Work is an agreement—not a family. Protect your time, your energy, and your future.

    📩 Got something on your mind?
    Write in to the “Let’s Talk About It Letter” at: Talkyashitdaily@gmail.com

    🎥 Watch Full Video on YouTube
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    👉 Hit that like, comment, and subscribe — and let’s talk our sh!t!

    New Episodes every Monday, Wednesday & Friday at 6AM!


    Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on Talk Ya Sh!t Podcast are those of the host and guests. This podcast is for entertainment and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified professional regarding mental health, financial decisions, or personal issues. The host shares personal experiences and opinions — take what resonates and always do what’s best for you.

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    6 分
  • When Her Mom Runs Your Relationship: How to Deal With a ‘Mama’s Girl’
    2025/12/05

    Big Slick here 👊 Got a story or need advice? Text me now — might make it on Talk Ya Sh!t! 🎙️💯

    Are you dating someone… or their mother too?
    In this episode, Big Slick breaks down a raw listener letter about feeling stuck in a relationship where a partner’s mom is always in the middle — giving opinions, influencing decisions, and controlling the energy in the home. We talk about what happens when you’re dating a mama’s girl and how constant parental involvement destroys trust, creates tension, and makes you feel outnumbered in your own relationship.

    We get into real, practical solutions:

    • How to set healthy boundaries without causing a family war
    • What to say when a parent is overstepping
    • How to create privacy rules inside your relationship
    • The difference between helpful advice and harmful interference
    • How “outsourcing conflict” keeps adults from showing up
    • When to use consequences or take a step back

    You’ll learn how to communicate clearly, rebuild trust, and take back control in a relationship drowning in outside opinions. If her mom is planning your life, calling the shots, or running your household from a distance, this episode shows you exactly how to reset the dynamic with confidence and calm.


    📩 Got something on your mind?
    Write in to the “Let’s Talk About It Letter” at: Talkyashitdaily@gmail.com

    🎥 Watch Full Video on YouTube
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    👉 Hit that like, comment, and subscribe — and let’s talk our sh!t!

    New Episodes every Monday, Wednesday & Friday at 6AM!


    Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on Talk Ya Sh!t Podcast are those of the host and guests. This podcast is for entertainment and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified professional regarding mental health, financial decisions, or personal issues. The host shares personal experiences and opinions — take what resonates and always do what’s best for you.

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    9 分
  • Should You Answer That DM? How Temptation Ruins Marriages (And How to Fix Yours)
    2025/12/03

    Big Slick here 👊 Got a story or need advice? Text me now — might make it on Talk Ya Sh!t! 🎙️💯

    A late-night DM from an ex can feel exciting—but it can also destroy a marriage. In this episode, Big Slick breaks down a raw listener story about being married, bored, and tempted to cheat after an old flame suddenly slides into the DMs. We get real about why temptation feels so strong, why nostalgia lies, and how “spinning the block” can cost you your peace, your partner, and the life you’ve built.

    You’ll learn the psychology behind temptation, why boredom in marriage is actually a warning sign, and the practical steps couples can use to rebuild passion without looking for excitement outside the relationship. We cover micro-dates, communication resets, love-language tune-ups, playful routines, and simple ways to bring energy back into a long-term relationship.

    We also talk boundaries—why you should block the ex, stop the secret conversations, and choose the long-term security of your marriage over the short-term thrill of a risky DM. If you’re questioning whether to fix your marriage or fall into temptation, this episode gives you a clear, honest roadmap.

    📩 Got something on your mind?
    Write in to the “Let’s Talk About It Letter” at: Talkyashitdaily@gmail.com

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    👉 Hit that like, comment, and subscribe — and let’s talk our sh!t!

    New Episodes every Monday, Wednesday & Friday at 6AM!


    Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on Talk Ya Sh!t Podcast are those of the host and guests. This podcast is for entertainment and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified professional regarding mental health, financial decisions, or personal issues. The host shares personal experiences and opinions — take what resonates and always do what’s best for you.

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    7 分
  • How Do You Deal With a Coworker Who Acts Like Your Boss?
    2025/12/01

    Big Slick here 👊 Got a story or need advice? Text me now — might make it on Talk Ya Sh!t! 🎙️💯

    Ever worked with someone who isn’t the manager but sure acts like it? In this episode, Big Slick breaks down exactly how to handle a coworker who behaves like your boss—the loud talker, the constant corrector, the self-appointed leader who tries to run the room without the title. This is workplace drama 101, and we’re giving you real, practical strategies to protect your peace and your paycheck.

    We dive into why some coworkers act this way—attention-seeking behavior, insecurity, proximity to actual leadership—and how they use fake authority to control the environment. You’ll learn how to respond without snapping, how to set boundaries that stick, and how to stop feeding the behavior that drains you daily.

    Then we get tactical: simple scripts to shut down interruptions, how to document patterns, when to escalate issues to real management, and why staying calm gives you more power than clapping back. We also talk about the difference between true leadership and performative “wannabe boss” energy—and how to rise above it with professionalism that gets noticed for the right reasons.

    If you’re dealing with a toxic coworker, a fake manager, or someone who constantly oversteps, this episode will give you clear steps to take back control, keep your focus, and protect your job.

    📩 Got something on your mind?
    Write in to the “Let’s Talk About It Letter” at: Talkyashitdaily@gmail.com

    🎥 Watch Full Video on YouTube
    https://www.youtube.com/@Talkyashit

    👉 Hit that like, comment, and subscribe — and let’s talk our sh!t!

    New Episodes every Monday, Wednesday & Friday at 6AM!


    Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on Talk Ya Sh!t Podcast are those of the host and guests. This podcast is for entertainment and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified professional regarding mental health, financial decisions, or personal issues. The host shares personal experiences and opinions — take what resonates and always do what’s best for you.

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    7 分
  • Is My Friend Jealous of Me? How to Spot the Signs Before It Damages the Friendship
    2025/11/28

    Big Slick here 👊 Got a story or need advice? Text me now — might make it on Talk Ya Sh!t! 🎙️💯

    Some friendships feel solid—until your life starts leveling up. In this episode, Big Slick breaks down a raw listener letter about dealing with a jealous friend and the hidden signs of envy that most people miss. If your wins make someone act distant, cold, or competitive, that’s not support… that’s insecurity.

    We get into the psychology of “same-level comfort,” where certain friends only liked you when you were easier to match. We talk about nonchalant reactions to your success, weird energy shifts, and the uncomfortable silence that follows your good news. You’ll learn how to spot quiet envy early, protect your peace, and stop giving access to people who drain your momentum.

    You’ll also get a clear step-by-step playbook:
    • How to reduce access without starting drama
    • What to stop sharing with jealous friends
    • How to build a circle where success is normal
    • How to cut dead weight while keeping your dignity

    If your peace feels taxed every time you answer the phone, that’s your sign. Choose people who clap without competing, support without comparing, and grow without resentment.

    📩 Got something on your mind?
    Write in to the “Let’s Talk About It Letter” at: Talkyashitdaily@gmail.com

    🎥 Watch Full Video on YouTube
    https://www.youtube.com/@Talkyashit

    👉 Hit that like, comment, and subscribe — and let’s talk our sh!t!

    New Episodes every Monday, Wednesday & Friday at 6AM!


    Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on Talk Ya Sh!t Podcast are those of the host and guests. This podcast is for entertainment and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified professional regarding mental health, financial decisions, or personal issues. The host shares personal experiences and opinions — take what resonates and always do what’s best for you.

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    7 分