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THE RULEBREAKER COVEN

THE RULEBREAKER COVEN

著者: Kirsty Dee
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This is THE RULEBREAKER COVEN for the bad witches ready to disrupt the status quo.

For the women who desire so much more than mediocre. For the women who wanna be deeply satisfied, totally fulfilled, absolutely satiated.

I'm your host, Kirsty Dee. Welcome to the podcast.

This is a space for women’s self-liberation, where we get into relationships, desire, sex, shame, spirituality, witchcraft, alchemy, patriarchy, taboo, and all the deliciously messy territory in between.

It is time to cast some mother fucking spells and get ourselves into all kinds of delicious trouble.

Disclaimer: you may get banned from a venue or two.

© 2026 THE RULEBREAKER COVEN
スピリチュアリティ 人間関係 社会科学 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • Witchcraft And Not Your Good Girl Manifesting
    2026/10/11
    Gratitude lists. Forced positivity. “Raise your vibration.” Trust the universe. Think positive thoughts.It can all sound lovely.But sometimes “good girl” manifesting is just another way of telling women to be quiet, be grateful, suppress the uncomfortable stuff and stop wanting anything that might make other people uncomfortable.No thank you.In this episode, I’m talking about witchcraft, manifesting and spellwork in the way I actually practise them: as tools for self-trust, reclamation, intuition and creating a life that feels alive — not another set of rules you have to follow perfectly.For me, witchcraft is both practical and political.It’s a relationship with nature, cycles, ritual and the unseen. It’s reclaiming parts of ourselves that have been labelled strange, dangerous, irrational or “too much”. And it’s the radical act of being a woman who trusts herself.We talk about the stigma around witches, why fear and taboo have become so tangled up with witchcraft, and how protection and boundaries can be part of an ethical magical practice.And yes, we talk about hexing.Not because I think being a witch means going around hexing everyone who pisses you off , but because I find the conversation around it fascinating — particularly the idea that women should always be the ones who absorb harm, forgive, send love and rise above it.Sometimes protection is the magic.Then we get practical about manifesting that actually works for me.I explain why I don't simply copy spells from spell books, why scepticism is a strength rather than the enemy of spirituality, and why I think creating your own ritual can be far more powerful than blindly following someone else's instructions.Because the magic isn't necessarily in getting the words “right”.The ritual creates a container.A place to slow down, focus, feel, process, integrate, connect with your intuition and get radically honest about what you actually want.And when you change, your choices change.Your behaviour changes.Your attention changes.Your willingness to take action changes.Your relationship with your own desire changes.That’s where I think the mystical and the practical meet.We also get into tarot and astrology — not as ways to outsource your power or have someone else tell you what your life means, but as tools for accessing intuition, reflection, symbolism and a deeper relationship with yourself.And I'll give you some simple ritual ideas you can actually try, whether you've got 20 seconds or two hours and whether you're a seasoned witch or simply curious about practical spirituality.Because you don't need to become someone else's idea of a witch.And you definitely don't need to become a better little manifesting machine.You can make your own magic.If this episode lands, share it with a woman who's done being “good” and please leave a five-star review. It genuinely helps more people find the podcast.Want deeper support?If you want to go deeper into your own intuition, desires, patterns and what’s unfolding in your life, you can book an Astro Alchemy Activation with me.It’s a 90-minute soul immersion combining astrology, tarot and practical alchemy to help you get rooted, replenished and reconnect with yourself.Book your Astro Alchemy Activation:https://kirstydee.com/1-2-1s-with-kirsty/astro-alchemy-activation/And if you're ready for deeper 1:1 support to stop playing small, break your own rules and create a life and relationships that actually satisfy you, explore Rulebreaker — my mentorship for women who want way more than mediocre.Explore Rulebreaker:https://kirstydee.com/1-2-1s-with-kirsty/rulebreaker/Everything I offerWant to see all the ways you can work with me — including 1:1 support, events, courses and alchemy?Explore everything I offer at KirstyDee.com:https://kirstydee.com/In this episode:- Witchcraft and practical spirituality- Not-your-good-girl manifesting- Witchcraft as reclamation- Women, witchcraft and self-trust- Manifesting and spellwork- Creating your own spells and rituals- Scepticism and spirituality- Ritual and intuition- Tarot and astrology- Protection magic and boundaries- Hexing and magical ethics- The stigma and taboo around witchcraft- Patriarchy, good-girl conditioning and spirituality- Why “raise your vibration” can become spiritual bypassing- The mystical and the practical- Simple witchcraft rituals for everyday life- Making your own magic Text The Show
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    34 分
  • Delicious Trouble, Conscious Kink And The Taboo As Medicine
    2026/10/10
    Your desires are not a morality test. In this episode, we’re getting into delicious trouble — the kind of rulebreaking that actually nourishes you — and pulling apart the shame that keeps so many women stuck performing the good-girl role for a world that never actually planned to satisfy them.Because what if some of the things you’ve been taught to feel ashamed of are actually invitations to know yourself more deeply?We start with conscious kink — not as an aesthetic or a performance, but as a consent-led, self-aware exploration of desire, sensation, boundaries and trust.We talk about why kink can get a bad name when people use it to disguise abuse, and why a healthy dom/sub dynamic isn't simply about control. It requires communication, consent, empathy, attunement and a genuine understanding of the person you’re playing with. We also explore how reclaiming taboo language, exploring sensation and creating a shame-free container can help you reconnect with your body, strengthen your confidence and develop more sexual self-trust — including far beyond the bedroom.Then we go wider.We talk about bisexuality, biphobia and coming out, including the loneliness that can come with questioning or claiming an identity that doesn’t fit neatly into the boxes we’ve been handed.We explore monogamy, polyamory and “monogamous-ish” relationships without turning any particular relationship structure into the One True Way™.Because there’s a difference between choosing what genuinely aligns with you and following a relationship script simply because you were told that’s what good women do.And then we get into something I think is fucking fascinating:The difference between fantasy and values.Your fantasy does not automatically tell you what you want to enact in real life. And your desires do not give anyone permission to harm you — or anyone else.We unpack that distinction, including the way the manosphere can weaponise women’s sexuality and desires to justify misogyny, coercion and harmful ideas about relationships and consent.Because sexual liberation isn't about doing everything.It's about having the freedom, self-awareness and self-trust to know what you actually want.This is an episode about sexual liberation, taboo, desire, conscious kink, shame, identity, consent and rulebreaking — but underneath all of it is a much bigger question:What becomes possible when you stop treating your desires as evidence against you?Maybe the taboo isn't something you need to run away from.Maybe sometimes it has something to teach you.Maybe the taboo can be medicine. If this episode gives you a new perspective, share it with a woman who needs the permission slip — and please leave a five-star review. It genuinely helps more women find the podcast.Want deeper support?If you’re ready to explore your desires, patterns, intuition and the deeper layers of what’s going on in your life, you can book an Astro Alchemy Activation with me.It’s a 90-minute soul immersion combining astrology, tarot and practical alchemy to help you get rooted, replenished and reconnect with yourself.Book your Astro Alchemy Activation:https://kirstydee.com/1-2-1s-with-kirsty/astro-alchemy-activation/And if you’re hungry for deeper support around your relationships, desires, self-trust and creating a life that actually satisfies you, explore Rulebreaker — my 1:1 mentorship for women who want way more than mediocre.Explore Rulebreaker:https://kirstydee.com/1-2-1s-with-kirsty/rulebreaker/Everything I offerWant to see all the ways you can work with me — including 1:1 support, events, courses and alchemy?Explore everything I offer at KirstyDee.com:https://kirstydee.com/In this episode:- Delicious trouble and conscious rulebreaking- Conscious kink and sexual liberation- Consent, boundaries and communication- Dom/sub dynamics and attunement- Sexual shame and patriarchal conditioning- Reclaiming taboo and taboo language- Desire, fantasy and self-trust- Bisexuality and biphobia- Coming out and sexual identity- Monogamy, polyamory and relationship diversity- Fantasy vs values- The manosphere and women’s sexuality- Shame-free exploration of desire- Sexual confidence and body awareness- The taboo as medicine Text The Show
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    1 時間 16 分
  • Creating A Life Of Deep Satisfaction
    2026/10/09
    You can do everything “right” and still feel quietly fucking starving.You can tick the boxes. Have the career. The relationship. The family. The house. The achievements. Be grateful. Be sensible. Be a “good” woman.And still feel flat, restless, disconnected or like there’s something missing.That’s the tension we’re unpacking in this episode: why a life that looks successful from the outside can still feel deeply unsatisfying on the inside — and what it actually takes to create a life of deep satisfaction.Because I’m not interested in helping you build a life that looks good on paper.I want you to feel fucking good living it.We talk about life force energy as a real-world compass — that feeling in your body when something expands you, lights you up and brings you more alive, versus the things that drain, contract or disconnect you.I share why chasing constant happiness is a losing game, and why contentment, fulfilment and satiation are very different from being happy all the time.Because life is going to throw lemons.Sometimes they’re small lemons. Sometimes they’re fucking enormous lemons.And learning how to tolerate discomfort, feel what you actually feel and stay connected to yourself through difficult seasons is part of creating a deeply satisfying life. That doesn’t mean romanticising suffering, bypassing reality or pretending systemic problems can be solved with a positive mindset.It means developing the self-trust, resilience and support to meet life as it actually is.We get into soul hunger and the ways we reach for quick fixes when we can’t tolerate an ache inside us — distraction, overworking, overconsumption, people-pleasing, numbing, chasing the next thing.And while those things might give us temporary relief, they rarely give us the deep nourishment we’re actually hungry for.So what do we do instead?We follow curiosity.We listen to our bodies.We pay attention to our intuition and desires.We build support networks and learn how to give ourselves emotional first aid when support isn’t immediately available.We take the next step without needing to have the entire fucking map.And we bring the mystical and the practical together.Because practical spirituality doesn’t mean abandoning logic or pretending everything happens for a reason. It means making room for the parts of being human that don’t fit neatly into an A-to-Z self-improvement plan: intuition, ritual, symbolism, curiosity, mystery and the things we simply know.In this episode, we explore how ritual can become a way of coming home to yourself, processing what life brings you and reconnecting with the parts of yourself you’ve been taught to hide, suppress or ignore.Because productivity isn't going to feed your soul.And neither is ticking every box on someone else's version of a successful life.You are allowed to create a life that doesn’t just work.You are allowed to create one that satisfies you.If this episode resonates, share it with a woman who needs the reminder — and please leave a five-star review. It genuinely helps more women find the podcast.Want deeper support?If you’re craving some space to get rooted, replenished and reconnect with what’s actually going on beneath the surface, you can book an Astro Alchemy Activation with me.It’s a 90-minute soul immersion combining astrology, tarot and practical alchemy to help you reconnect with yourself, your desires and the direction you actually want to move in.Book your Astro Alchemy Activation:https://kirstydee.com/1-2-1s-with-kirsty/astro-alchemy-activation/And if you know you want more than a one-off session and are ready to make deeper changes in your life and relationships, explore Rulebreaker — my 1:1 mentorship for women who want way more than mediocre.Explore Rulebreaker:https://kirstydee.com/1-2-1s-with-kirsty/rulebreaker/Everything I offerWant to explore all the ways we can work together — from 1:1 support and events to courses and alchemy?Come and see everything I offer at KirstyDee.com:https://kirstydee.com/In this episode:- Creating a life of deep satisfaction- Why “successful” doesn’t always mean fulfilled- Contentment, fulfilment and satiation- Life force energy as a compass- Body wisdom and self-trust- Soul hunger and emotional coping- Learning to tolerate discomfort- Intuition and curiosity- Practical spirituality and the mystical- Ritual and reconnecting with yourself- Building support networks- Emotional resilience and self-trust- Women, desire and fulfilment- Creating a deeply satisfying life Kirsty DeeText The Show
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    23 分
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