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THE MEN'S SELF HELP PODCAST

THE MEN'S SELF HELP PODCAST

著者： Dr. John D. Moore
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The Men's Self-Help Podcast offers practical guidance for men navigating anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, stress, relationships, emotional health, and personal growth. With nearly 1.7 million downloads, the show brings practical, accessible approaches to mental health, self-improvement, and personal growth to listeners around the world. Hosted by Dr. John Moore, a licensed psychotherapist and men's mental health specialist, each episode explores real-life challenges in a straightforward, relatable, and easy-to-understand way. Using solution-focused strategies and insights from psychology, the podcast helps men—and the people who care about them—better understand their emotions, change unhelpful patterns, build confidence, and move forward with greater purpose. Whether you are struggling with overthinking, people-pleasing, boundaries, motivation, body image, loneliness, or major life changes, you will find practical ideas that can help you create meaningful change. Lessons and concepts from psychotherapy and psychology are often pulled into the show's dynamic.All rights reserved 個人的成功 心理学 心理学・心の健康 自己啓発 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • Stop Negative People From Infecting Your Mindset ⚡

    Stop Negative People From Infecting Your Mindset ⚡
    2026/10/06
    How to Protect Your Mindset From Negative People Have you ever shared a goal, dream, or idea with someone only to have them immediately tell you why it won't work? Maybe you've been told you're not smart enough, talented enough, experienced enough, attractive enough, or capable enough. Or maybe you have someone in your life who seems to find something negative to say about almost everything you're trying to accomplish. In this episode of The Men's Self-Help Podcast, Dr. John Moore explores how other people's negativity can slowly become part of your own internal dialogue — and what you can do to stop that from happening. Using personal stories, psychology, humor, and practical examples, John shares five principles for protecting your mindset without falling into the trap of simply ignoring every person who disagrees with you. You'll learn why it's important to ask whether negative feedback is actually true, how to separate useful criticism from somebody else's crap, and why another person's cynicism may sometimes say more about their experiences than your potential. You'll also discover why negativity can become contagious, why new goals sometimes need protection before they need publicity, and how to stop internalizing messages that were never yours to begin with. 🧠 In This Episode, You'll Explore: • How to ask yourself whether negative feedback is actually true • The difference between constructive feedback and destructive criticism • Why some people respond negatively when someone around them begins changing • How chronic negativity can influence your own thinking • Why you should be careful who gets access to a dream while it's still developing • The idea of "build before you broadcast" • How social media can keep us so busy being influenced that we forget to influence ourselves • Why you don't have to internalize somebody else's bitterness, cynicism, or regret • Freud's psychosexual stages and the concept of an anal-expulsive personality • A listener question about social anxiety, self-consciousness, and replaying conversations afterward • Why using alcohol as "liquid courage" in social situations can become problematic • Practical ways to move attention away from yourself during socially anxious moments • Why feeling awkward doesn't necessarily mean you looked awkward 📚 Recommended Reading The Shyness and Social Anxiety Workbook by Martin M. Antony and Richard P. Swinson A practical workbook using cognitive-behavioral strategies to help people better understand and work through shyness and social anxiety. See Amazon for price 🔗 Resources Mentioned Freud's Psychosexual Stages of Development Simply Psychology https://www.simplypsychology.org/psychosexual.html Quick Overview of Chicago's Metropolitan Correctional Center A short YouTube video offering a quick overview of the Metropolitan Correctional Center in downtown Chicago. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rThWng-X6c8 🎧 Related Episode The Power of No: How to Say No Without Guilt Learn why saying no can feel so difficult and how clearer boundaries can help you stop organizing your life around other people's expectations. https://guycounseling.com/say-no-without-guilt/ 🔔 Man-Firm-Ation I decide which voices I allow to shape my life. Someone else's negativity does not have to become my reality. I protect my dreams, my hopes and my light. Remember: somebody else gets to have an opinion about you. You get to decide whether you make that opinion your reality. Don't let somebody else's negativity infect your positivity. This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for mental health counseling. 📢 Affiliate & Sponsor Disclosure This episode may include paid sponsorships or affiliate links. If you make a purchase, sign up for a service, or take another qualifying action through one of these links, The Men's Self-Help Podcast may receive compensation at no additional cost to you. As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Sponsors and recommended resources may vary by episode. 💙 Episode Sponsor: BetterHelp This episode of The Men's Self-Help Podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Get started: Visit Better Help 📱 Follow on Social Media 👉 Facebook Guy Counseling 👉 Instagram Guy Counseling 📝 Thought Court Worksheet — Free Listener Resource Want to challenge an unhelpful thought and look at it from a more balanced perspective? Dr. John created a free Thought Court worksheet you can download and use on your own. The accompanying Guy Counseling guide walks you through the exercise step by step. No signup. No email address. No strings attached. Just grab it and use it if it's helpful. Download the Free Thought Court Worksheet + How-To Guide ☕ Support the Show If you've found value in this podcast and would like to help support its independent production, you can do so through Buy Me a Coffee. Your support helps cover production costs, hosting, editing, and future...
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    31 分
  • How to Stop Being a Nice Guy and People Pleaser 😀

    How to Stop Being a Nice Guy and People Pleaser 😀
    2026/09/15
    People Pleasing: Why Is Saying No So Difficult for So Many Men? In this episode of The Men's Self-Help Podcast, Dr. John Moore explores the hidden cost of chronic people-pleasing and why it often goes unnoticed in men. What looks like being dependable, hardworking, loyal, or simply being a good guy may actually be a learned strategy for avoiding guilt, conflict, disappointment, or the fear of letting someone down. You'll discover six practical steps for recognizing the pattern, creating a pause before automatically agreeing, setting clearer boundaries, and tolerating the discomfort that can follow when you begin using the word no. Dr. John also responds to a listener named Chris, who worries that declining invitations from his friends could eventually cause him to lose his place in the group. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. In This Episode • Why every yes has a cost • How people-pleasing can show up differently in men • The connection between approval, identity, and automatic agreement • How early experiences can shape the need to keep others happy • Why cognitive rehearsal can make saying no easier • How to pause before committing to something • How to say no without overexplaining or apologizing • Why another person's disappointment does not automatically mean you did something wrong • How distress tolerance can help you maintain a healthy boundary • Why asking "What do I want?" can become an important ongoing practice Resources Mentioned Some of the links below are affiliate links. If you make a qualifying purchase through one of these links, Guy Counseling may receive a small commission at no additional cost to you. Thank you for helping support the independent production of this podcast. The Assertiveness Workbook by Randy J. Paterson, PhD Dr. John discusses cognitive rehearsal and the value of practicing assertive responses before you need them in real life. The Assertiveness Workbook offers practical exercises for developing clearer communication, setting boundaries, and becoming more comfortable with assertiveness. Amazon: https://amzn.to/4crv5aR When I Say No, I Feel Guilty by Manuel J. Smith Dr. John recommends this classic assertiveness book while responding to listener Chris, who struggles with saying no without feeling guilty or worrying about disappointing others. When I Say No, I Feel Guilty offers practical strategies for communicating more assertively, setting limits, and handling the guilt or pressure that can come when you stop automatically saying yes. Amazon: https://amzn.to/4zou1OM Have a Question for a Future Listener Email? Do you have a question you would like Dr. John to consider for a future listener-email segment? Submit it through the contact form below. Dr. John reads every message that comes through, although not every question can be featured on the podcast. https://guycounseling.com/contact-us/ Listener messages featured on the podcast are shared with permission. Names and identifying details may be changed to protect privacy, and messages may be edited for length and clarity. A synthesized voice may also be used when reading an email. Support the Show If you've found value in this podcast and would like to help support its independent production, you can do so through Buy Me a Coffee. Your support helps cover production costs, hosting, editing, and future episodes of The Men's Self-Help Podcast. 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/mensselfhelp Disclaimer The Men's Self-Help Podcast is intended for informational and educational purposes only. It is not therapy and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or professional mental health treatment. If you are struggling, please contact a qualified professional where you live. Follow on Social Media 👉 Facebook Guy Counseling 👉 Instagram Guy Counseling Free Thought Court Worksheet Want to challenge an unhelpful thought and look at it from a more balanced perspective? Dr. John created a free Thought Court worksheet you can download and use on your own. The accompanying Guy Counseling guide walks you through the exercise step by step. No signup. No email address. No strings attached. Just grab it and use it if it's helpful. Download the Free Thought Court Worksheet + How-To Guide Production Notes Produced by Dr. John Moore with Joel Oliver (audio) and editorial contributors. Artwork by Adobe Firefly; sounds by Pixabay. Episodes may combine live recording, voice models, and synthesized audio for listener questions, production efficiency, and contributor privacy.
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    26 分
  • Building Confidence: 10 Habits of Men Who Have Their Shit Together

    Building Confidence: 10 Habits of Men Who Have Their Shit Together
    2026/09/01
    Trying to build confidence? How Do You Actually Get Your Life Together as a Man? In this episode of The Men's Self-Help Podcast, Dr. John Moore explores 10 habits of men who have their sh*t together and what getting your life together actually looks like in the real world. Drawing on more than two decades of clinical experience in men's work, Dr. John breaks down practical habits for men focused on self-improvement, personal growth, stronger relationships, better sleep, and creating a life that feels more grounded. This isn't the Instagram version of having your life together. It's about defining success on your own terms, keeping promises to yourself, protecting your sleep, maintaining friendships, taking responsibility for your choices, and knowing when to ask for help. Whether you're already practicing some of these habits or feel like you're starting from scratch, this episode offers a practical roadmap you can begin using this week. In This Episode What it really means to have your life togetherWhy defining success on your own terms mattersThe importance of keeping promises to yourselfWhy protecting your sleep is part of getting your life togetherHow grounded men build habits that hold up under pressureWhy maintaining friendships and important relationships mattersThe role of personal responsibility in self-improvementWhy asking for help can be a sign of strengthHow small, consistent choices can shape the direction of your lifePractical ways to start getting your life together this week Sponsor The Men's Self-Help Podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Head to https://betterhelp.com/guycounseling to get 10% off your first month of therapy. Resources Mentioned Some of the links below are affiliate links. If you make a qualifying purchase through one of these links, Guy Counseling may receive a small commission at no additional cost to you. Thank you for helping support the independent production of this podcast. Contact (1997) — Trailer Referenced in the discussion of Habit 2, keeping promises to yourself. Directed by Robert Zemeckis and starring Jodie Foster. Watch the trailer on YouTube The Insomnia Breakthrough by Katherine Coleman Recommended in the discussion of Habit 4, protecting your sleep. Dr. John has recommended this book to clients over the years with strong results. Find it on Amazon The Harvard Study of Adult Development Referenced in the discussion of Habit 7, maintaining relationships. This long-running study has followed participants across decades and has highlighted the importance of strong relationships for long-term health and well-being. Learn more about the Harvard Study of Adult Development Have a Question for the Podcast? Have a question you'd like Dr. John to answer on a future episode? Send it through the Guy Counseling contact form: https://guycounseling.com/contact-us/ If your question is selected, identifying details may be changed to protect your privacy, and it may be read using a synthesized voice. Support the Show If you're enjoying The Men's Self-Help Podcast and would like to help support its independent production, you can buy Dr. John a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/mensselfhelp Follow on Social Media 👉 Facebook Guy Counseling 👉 Instagram Guy Counseling Free Thought Court Worksheet Want to challenge an unhelpful thought and look at it from a more balanced perspective? Dr. John created a free Thought Court worksheet you can download and use on your own. The accompanying Guy Counseling guide walks you through the exercise step by step. No signup. No email address. No strings attached. Just grab it and use it if it's helpful. Download the Free Thought Court Worksheet + How-To Guide Disclaimer This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health care, diagnosis, or treatment. Please consult a licensed professional for individualized support. Production Notes Produced by Dr. John Moore with Joel Oliver (audio) and editorial contributors. Artwork by Adobe Firefly; sounds by Pixabay. Episodes may combine live recording, voice models, and synthesized audio for listener questions, production efficiency, and contributor privacy.
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    23 分
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