Have you ever found yourself people-pleasing, shrinking who you are, or trying to earn love in your relationships?

In Part 1 of my Christian testimony, I’m sharing how I started shrinking myself to be loved and what God began teaching me about identity, beauty, confidence, relationships, and biblical femininity.

For years, I thought changing myself could help me find and keep the love I wanted. But somewhere along the way, I began losing pieces of the woman God created me to be.

In this episode, we’re talking about people-pleasing, counterfeit love, identity in Christ, and what happens when a Christian woman stops performing for love and begins embracing high-value womanhood in Christ.

If you’re a modern Christian woman learning how to embrace biblical femininity, build healthier relationships, and create a softer, more beautiful life with God, this conversation is for you.

🎀 In this episode: Why I started shrinking myself in relationships• The connection between beauty, validation, and earning love• How people-pleasing can disconnect you from your identity• What God began teaching me about biblical femininity• Why Saved Is The New Pretty means something completely different to me today

Welcome to the Saved Is The New Pretty podcast, where modern Christian women explore biblical femininity, soft living, and modern homemaking, with the freedom to enjoy marriage, home, femininity, and a life of purpose.

My work is inspired by the Proverbs 31 woman, blending biblical truth with practical strategy to help modern Christian women embrace high-value womanhood in Christ.

🎀 Ready to go deeper? Apply to join the free High-Value Wives Club through the link in the show notes.

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Next: In Testimony Part 2, I’m sharing how I met my husband on Hinge, went from dating to marriage in 30 days, and where we are now.