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Some Reddit stories sound fake.
These don’t.

In this episode of the Swingz Podcast, Drew and Erika read and react to some of the most unhinged, unbelievable, and question-your-life-choices stories Reddit has ever produced. Dorm showers. Catwalk sex. Fire alarms at fetish conventions. Public chaos. Zero shame. Somehow all real.

This is a live, no-guest episode where we break down what makes these stories hit so hard — fear, authority, taboo, confidence, poor decisions, and the psychology behind why people do absolutely wild things when opportunity meets impulse.

Fair warning: this one will make you feel much better about your own life choices.

❤️ SUPPORT & COMMUNITY UPDATE

Before we jump into chaos, we also take a moment to acknowledge FeralJesse and TanaNicole, who recently lost their home in a house fire. Everyone is safe, but they’re facing a long rebuild.
👉 Links to help and share are below — even spreading the word helps.

🎉 LIFEINSTYLESTL – VALENTINE’S X (10-YEAR ANNIVERSARY)

📅 February 13–14, 2026
🏨 Two-day hotel takeover | St. Louis metro

Neon Night pool party. Valentine’s dinner. DJs. Room crawl. Strip-tease contest. Live music. Late nights.
We also gave away tickets live during this episode.

🎟️ Use code SWINGZPARTY for 10% off tickets

👉 Event info & tickets: https://lifeinstylestl.com

🔗 LINKS & WHERE TO FIND US

🎥 Watch Live / Replay:
/ swingzpodcast

🎧 Audio (next day):
Apple Podcasts | Spotify | All major platforms

💬 Join the Discord:
/ discord

💎 Support the Show:
YouTube Memberships
Patreon: / swingzpodcast

🎩 Swingz Podcast Hat Giveaway:
Paid members who like, comment, and share this episode are entered to win.

👀 More from Erika:
https://ErikaSwingz.com

If this episode made you laugh, cringe, or rethink every decision you’ve ever made:
👉 Like the video
👉 Subscribe (we go live weekly)
👉 Share it with someone who definitely has a story they can’t tell at work

And if you’re listening on audio, a 5-star review helps more than you think.

We’re Drew & Erika.
This is the Swingz Podcast.
If your life has zero stories worth tellin

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🔴 LIVE DISCUSSION: Kinks vs Fetishes — Understanding Desire, Boundaries, and Exploration

People hear the word kink and immediately think extremes. Chains. Whips. Taboo. Something only other people are into.

But the truth is far more nuanced.

In this episode of the Swingz Podcast, Drew and Erika break down the real difference between kinks and fetishes, where desire actually comes from, and why navigating curiosity in the lifestyle takes more maturity than most people expect.

This isn’t a shock-value episode. It’s a grounded conversation about psychology, consent, boundaries, and knowing when exploration adds depth — and when it’s time to pause or walk away.

We also dive into:

Why most people have kinks (and why that’s normal)

When preference turns into dependency

Why consent is the starting point — not the finish line

How bad experiences reshape desire

Why lifestyle spaces require higher emotional intelligence

Plus, we’re celebrating 10 years of LifeInStyleSTL with a LIVE Valentine’s X ticket giveaway (rules announced only during the show).

🎟️ LIFEINSTYLESTL VALENTINE’S X — FREE TICKET GIVEAWAY

📅 February 13–14, 2026
🏨 Two-night hotel takeover
🎶 Live music, DJs, pool parties, room crawl, and more

➡️ Giveaway rules are shared live during the episode only.

🔗 LINKS & SUPPORT

🎥 Watch Live / Replay: YouTube.com/@SwingzPodcast
🎧 Audio: Apple Podcasts & Spotify (next day)

💬 Join the Discord: https://discord.gg/DHYCmqKQmH

💎 Support the Show:
• YouTube Memberships
• Patreon: https://patreon.com/swingzpodcast

• Super Chats during live shows

🎩 Swingz Podcast Hat Giveaway:
Paid members who like, comment, and share this episode are entered to win.

🧠 SOURCES REFERENCED

• Lehmiller, J. (2018). Tell Me What You Want
• YouGov America Sexual Attitudes Survey (2015)
• DSM-5-TR (APA)
• Wright et al. (2020). Archives of Sexual Behavior
• Connolly, P. (2006)

If this episode made you think, drop a comment and tell us what landed.
Like the episode, subscribe if you haven’t, and share it with someone navigating curiosity or boundaries.

Keep it honest. Keep it consensual.
— Drew & Erika Swingz

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🔔 SUPPORT THE SHOW

👍 Like the episode
📌 Subscribe if you’re new
💬 Drop a comment — even a quick “what’s up” helps more than you think

⭐ Listening on audio? Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

💬 LIVE CHAT & SUPER CHATS help keep the show independent and growing.

🎩 Swingz Podcast Hat Giveaway:
Paid YouTube Members or Patreon supporters who like, comment, and share this episode are automatically entered. Multiple hats. Real odds.

🧠 WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE
🔄 The January Reset

The mental whiplash of watching stats reset overnight

Why January feels worse for creators than any other month

Comparing yourself to others when everyone is restarting

How resets expose what wasn’t working last year

🔥 Hot or Not

HOT: Facebook Dating
NOT: Flipping off the camera

🗓️ Planning a Year Without Burning Out

Realistic goals vs fantasy goals

Why consistency beats intensity

Planning in quarters instead of months

Leaving room for real life, breaks, and fun

📊 Goals That Actually Matter

Vanity metrics vs meaningful progress

What numbers really move the needle

Personal vs business goals

Why some goals shouldn’t be shared publicly

📚 Lifestyle Lingo

Term: Facial
Why terminology, consent, and communication matter more than people realize — especially when expectations aren’t clearly defined.

🧠 Words of Wisdom

If your plan depends on motivation, it’s a bad plan.
Progress you can repeat beats success you can’t maintain.

🎶 EVENT PLUG — LifeInStyleSTL LouFest 2026

Live music. Sexy bar takeover vibes. No hotel rooms required.

📍 Downtown St. Louis
📅 January 31, 2026
💵 $64 per couple | Ladies FREE
⏰ Doors at 8PM — party goes late

Two-room setup with Plastic Kings playing rock covers all night.
One loud room. One chill lounge. Always packed.

🎟️ Tickets & details below.

🔗 LINKS

🎧 Audio Podcast (Next Day):
Apple Podcasts | Spotify

🎥 Watch Live & Replays:
/ @swingzpodcast

🎩 Support the Show:
YouTube Memberships | Patreon

📍 Events:
LifeInStyleSTL.com

📲 Follow Us:
Drew: linktr.ee/drewswingz
Erika: linktr.ee/erikaswingz

📩 Email the show:
SwingzPodcast@gmail.com

💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION

Tell us in the comments:

One goal you’re setting for this year

OR one thing you’re leaving behind from last year

If this episode helped reset your mindset, share it with someone who’s staring at their numbers wondering what comes next.

For Erika Swingz, I’m Drew Swingz — and I’ll see you out there.