Learn more about Love and Science Fertility here.

Learn more about the Norway retreat here. Get on my calendar for an interview for a spot here.

Join Empowerd Surgeons here.

Infertility is shaping the lives of female physicians, and we need to talk about it.

Dr. Erica Bove, creator of Love and Science, shares the startling fact that 1 in 4 female physicians and 1 in 3 female surgeons experience infertility. Interestingly, the very mindset that makes us successful in surgery can work against us when it comes to building a family.

We explore the hidden role of stress, trauma, and nervous system dysregulation, and the trap so many physicians fall into: trying to solve infertility by working harder, researching more, and disconnecting from their own bodies.

Dr. Bove offers a radically different approach, one that begins with humanity.

We talk about:

• Why going on a certainty frenzy doesn't solve the problem
• How trauma states impact fertility physiology
• The courage it takes to receive care, not just give and give
• Reconnecting with your deepest “why”
• Boundaries, community, and learning to say: I deserve to be a patient

This is not just a conversation about fertility, it’s about reclaiming your humanity in a system that taught you to override it.

Erica Bove, MD, is a double board certified OB-GYN and Reproductive Endocrinologist (REI) physician at the University of Vermont, She is also the CEO and founder of Love and Science: Thriving Through Infertility. She has a keen interest in marrying an evidence-based approach with intuitive knowing in the context of a trusting relationship. She empowers women physicians to build their families with confidence, self compassion and community. Her mission is to heal and support the healers and to create a legacy she is proud of.

In her free time, she enjoys running, yoga, kayaking, skiing, reading, writing, and spending time with her inner circle.

Follow her on Linkedin here, IG here, FB here, and check out her podcast, Love and Science Fertility here.

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In this episode, Dr. Karen Leitner and I explore the hidden thought patterns that keep women physicians stuck. And how to break free!

We cover:

• Why charting paralysis happens (and the thought loops that drive it)
• Being diagnosed with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) later in life and the shift from self-judgment to self-understanding
• The power of acceptance and letting go of control over outcomes
• The moment Karen realized even “good doctors” get sued
• How medical training builds a hypercritical inner voice (and how to replace it with self-compassion)
• Moving from walking a tightrope → to feeling solid and safe within yourself
• The reality of inequity: women physicians being undervalued and underpaid
• Lessons from Women Don’t Ask on why women avoid negotiation
• The mindset shifts needed to negotiate powerfully:
• Your value is yours—even if others don’t recognize it
• Hearing “no” is part of the process, not the end
• Discomfort is the price of increasing your impact and income
• Practical negotiation strategies:
• Research compensation (e.g., Medical Group Management Association data)
• Communicate your value from the institution’s perspective
• Have the conversation in person and set expectations ahead of time
• Anticipate objections and stay in the conversation

Key takeaway:

Money = impact. When you are compensated appropriately, you expand your ability to create change.

Ready to go deeper?

If you’re a woman physician looking to feel better, think clearer, and show up more powerfully in your life and career, check out Dr. Karen Leitner's coaching program here. Make sure to follow her on Instagram here.

And if you’re a surgeon ready to step out of burnout and lead your career from a place of confidence and ownership, join Empowered Surgeons. You don’t have to keep doing this alone.

Interested in our retreat to Norway? Get on my calendar for an interview here.

What does it really take to survive and succeed in a system that wasn’t built with you in mind?

In this episode, I explore that question with orthopedic surgeon Dr. Sonya Sloan. We talk about the hidden curriculum of medicine: the unspoken rules, the power dynamics, and the strategies required to navigate surgical training, especially as a Black woman in a historically white, male-dominated field.

From early inspiration in the operating room to enduring microaggressions, bullying, and even physical assault during training, Dr. Sloan shares what she learned, how she protected herself, and why resilience alone is not enough.

This episode is not just about survival; it’s about strategy, leadership, and rewriting the rules for the next generation.

We talk about:

• How her early experiences sparked a career in orthopedics
• What it was like being one of the only Black trainees in a surgical program
• The reality of bias, microaggressions, and exclusion in medicine
• The difference between mentors and true advocates
• A moment of physical assault in the OR, and how she handled it
• Why documentation and strategy are essential for protecting your career
• The hidden “rules” of medicine no one teaches you
• How surgical culture impacts women
• The critical importance of leadership and communication skills
• Why “soft skills” are not optional but essential
• How humor and tone-setting can transform the OR environment
• The emotional toll of training, and the importance of narrative processing
• Why so many trainees feel isolated, targeted, or unsupported
• What needs to change in surgical education right now

Takeaways:

• Resilience isn’t enough. You need strategy, awareness, and support
• Documentation is power in environments where bias exists
• Mentors advise. Advocates act. You need both.
• Microaggressions shape careers, even when they seem subtle
• Leadership skills are not taught, but they are critical to survival
• You don’t have to silently tolerate inappropriate behavior
• Processing your story is part of healing and reclaiming your voice

Learn more about Dr. Sonya Sloan and get her book, The Rules of Medicine here.

Follow Dr. Sloan on instagram here.

Check out Hardball for Women here.

Check out White Fragility here.

Join us inside Empowered Surgeons Group here.