Jess and Kelly catch up on life as moms of almost-grown and newly-grown kids. Jess shares the college "white lies party", her plan to feed a team of hungry college athletes from 2,000 miles away, and the surprisingly emotional side of parenting an adult child in a different time zone. Kelly opens up about kicking off the college search with Wes, who just announced he might want to "work in nature," and how she's using YouTube "day in the life" videos (and a little help from AI) to help him figure out what actually lights him up. Together they talk about choice overload, letting kids explore, and why the path you picture at 17 rarely matches where you end up.

• (00:06) Butt dials, Apple CarPlay chaos, and the college "white lies party" trend
• (02:07) Heading to watch Gabby play, why Jess taps out of the parent group text, and the Chick-fil-A catering hack (plus the reward points bonus)
• (05:44) Kelly's catering rotation for sports teams and why cold food can be the smarter tailgate move
• (05:59) Parenting an adult child three time zones away, homesickness, and remembering their own tearful freshman years
• (07:41) The thought that sends Jess spiraling: is this the longest she's ever been apart from her daughter?
• (07:53) Kelly and Wes start the college search, and how much more choice kids have today
• (09:04) When your kid surprises you: Wes wants to work outdoors, Dominic is curious about religion and philosophy
• (09:42) Why schools that let you wait until junior year to declare a major can be a great fit for exploring
• (12:14) Berry College's massive campus, complete with farms, cows, and cabins
• (12:56) Using AI to brainstorm ways to explore career interests, including "day in the life" videos
• (14:06) Unexpected careers that really do pay off, from an anthropologist cousin to a marine biology professor
• (15:10) Prioritizing internships and applied learning, setting search parameters, and staying flexible

• When the group text gets overwhelming, it's okay to tap out and solve the problem your own way.
• Homesickness often shows up on the bad days, and having ups and downs during the first semester is normal.
• Choice overload is real in the college search. Start by talking with your teen about what actually matters to them.
• Kids' interests will shift. Schools that support exploration can take pressure off choosing "the right" major at 17.
• "Day in the life" videos are an easy, low-pressure way to help teens picture different careers.

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