Free parenting downloads from Rebecca: https://www.kindercoaching.co.uk/resourcesTry My Mindset Mentor free for 7 days: https://www.skool.com/my-mindset-mentor-6473Join the Festoon 500 community: https://highlevel.thebigfestoon.com/festoon500 Why do so many capable, successful people suddenly lose confidence when they become parents? In this episode of The Festoon 500 Interviews, Dani Wallace sits down with Rebecca Claire, an NMC registered health visitor, children's nurse and founder of Kinder Coaching, to talk about matrescence, the fourth trimester and the real transition into parenthood. Rebecca explains why the problem for new parents today isn't a lack of information, it's an overwhelm of it, and how all that noise drowns out the instincts parents already have. You might have read all the books, but your baby hasn't. Dani and Rebecca also talk about why high achievers find early parenthood such a shock, how to support a friend who might be struggling, why postnatal depression can affect dads and partners too, and why it's completely normal not to feel an overwhelming rush of love the moment you meet your baby. Rebecca also shares her journey from health visiting to running an early years nursery for almost ten years, and why she now offers independent health visiting and family support, both in person and online. If you're expecting, a new parent, or you love someone who is, this conversation is a reminder that you're doing better than you think. REBECCA CLAIRE, KINDER COACHINGWebsite: https://www.kindercoaching.co.ukFree parenting resources: https://www.kindercoaching.co.uk/resourcesMy Mindset Mentor (7 days free): https://www.skool.com/my-mindset-mentor-6473Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kinder_coachingInstagram (personal): https://www.instagram.com/rebeccaclaire83Instagram (My Mindset Mentor): https://www.instagram.com/mymindsetmentorrebeccaFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/KinderParentalCoachingFacebook (My Mindset Mentor): https://www.facebook.com/MyMindsetMentorRebeccaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccaclaire JOIN THE FESTOON 500The Festoon 500 is Dani Wallace's community of founders and good people doing good things in the world, built so we can show up, wise up and rise up together. Membership includes tickets to The Big Festoon, meetups and referral parties.https://highlevel.thebigfestoon.com/festoon500 CHAPTERS0:00 Trailer: Matrescence and New Parent Confidence With Rebecca Claire0:50 Welcome to The Festoon 500 Interviews2:58 Meet Rebecca Claire: Health Visitor and Mindset Coach4:25 Why Successful People Lose Confidence When They Become Parents6:46 Matrescence and the Fourth Trimester Explained9:53 Why New Parents Hide How They're Really Coping12:37 How to Help a New Parent Who Is Struggling15:09 Postnatal Depression in Dads and Partners18:51 What Is an Independent Health Visitor?24:46 Not Feeling Instant Love for Your Baby? You're Not Alone26:27 Realistic Expectations, Going Back to Work and Parenting Later in Life29:29 Where to Find Rebecca and How to Join the Festoon 500