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Spirit of Dating

Spirit of Dating

著者： George Dus — Dating psychology & modern dating clarity
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 The Spirit of Dating is a podcast about how men and women date today and the real behaviour that plays out between them. It takes a clear look at modern dating dynamics from a male perspective and focuses on what people actually do, not the ideas we wish they followed. Most of what George knows about dating and relationships comes from the things people bring up during readings. Some are seeing someone new, some have been together for a while, and others are in relationships that aren’t lining up the way they hoped. The questions they ask and the way they talk about their situation give him a straightforward view of how people are navigating things today. The show takes a practical look at how dating works right now — how men approach things, how women read it, and where the confusion usually starts. It focuses on behaviour and communication in a way that makes the whole process easier to understand and less frustrating. If you want a more straightforward way to understand dating and how men and women move through it, this show will help you make sense of what’s happening. It’s for anyone who’s tired of guessing, tired of mixed signals, and wants a more direct view of what’s actually going on.George Dus 人間関係 個人的成功 心理学 心理学・心の健康 社会科学 自己啓発 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • When Things Get Weird After a Good Date | Decoding Mixed Signals in Early Dating

    When Things Get Weird After a Good Date | Decoding Mixed Signals in Early Dating
    2025/12/12

    Early dating often feels clear one moment and confusing the next. In this episode, George breaks down the dating psychology behind what actually happens when someone pulls back after a good date—and why this shift in modern dating usually has more to do with pacing than interest.

    We look at the dating behaviour patterns behind mixed signals, the difference between processing time and actual disinterest, and how masculine clarity often looks different from feminine pacing when the energy changes. The goal isn't to fix anything—it's to understand the pattern so you can see it earlier next time.

    ⏱️ Chapters (Timestamps)

    (00:00) - Intro

    (00:51) - The Story

    (02:41) - Pattern Clarity

    (05:19) - Psychological Insight

    (12:00) - What to Say If You Have the Conversation

    (14:41) - When The Roles Are Reversed

    (16:58) - Masculine Feminine Timing

    (17:45) - Practical Takeaways

    (22:46) - Outro

    📚 Concepts & Frameworks

    This episode discusses:

    • Early dating confusion and the "Frame Shift" after intimacy
    • Interest vs. Readiness: Why they aren't the same thing
    • Masculine behaviour (Reflection) vs. Feminine Pacing (Continuity)
    • The 3 Pullback Types: Processing, Avoidance, and Playing


    🎵 Music Credits

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!)

    By Your Side – Justin Lee

    → https://uppbeat.io/t/justin-lee/by-your-side

    License code: V9WDYDGF5FQ8EEQA

    Firelight – Hemlock

    → https://uppbeat.io/t/hemlock/firelight

    All versions licensed via Music Vine: 9RB9UWAG0CNFANCJ


    📩 Connect with The Spirit of Dating

    🎧 Listen on Spotify: spotify.spiritofdating.com

    📸 Instagram: @SpiritOfDating

    🎥 TikTok / YouTube: @SpiritOfDating

    📘 Facebook: Spirit of Dating

    🌐 Website: spiritofdating.com

    📧 Inquiries: info@spiritofdating.com


    Hashtags

    #TheSpiritOfDating #GeorgeDus #MixedSignals #DatingPsychology #MasculineClarity #ModernDating #EarlyDating #DatingCommunication #MasculineBehavior
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    25 分
  • Modern Dating Is Rigged: How Apps Changed the Game

    Modern Dating Is Rigged: How Apps Changed the Game
    2025/11/26

    Modern dating often feels like a game you can't win. That’s because the apps aren’t designed to help you find a partner—they’re designed to keep you searching.

    In this episode, George Dus breaks down the real reason connections fade after a great first date. We look at the "Nicole and Mark" pattern—where hedging bets replaces choosing—and the dating psychology behind why endless options actually cause dating fatigue and confusion.

    We explore:

    • Why the "Paradox of Choice" makes us freeze instead of commit.
    • How apps distort masculine clarity and feminine receptivity, leading to constant mixed signals.
    • The business model that profits from keeping you single.

    This is a grounded look at dating behaviour patterns and the system behind the swipe, helping you see the game clearly so you can stop blaming yourself for the results.

    ⏱️ Chapters (Timestamps)

    (00:00) - Intro

    (01:45) - The Story

    (04:52) - How Apps Actually Work

    (09:15) - Masculine & Feminine Energy on Apps

    (10:44) - The Business Model

    (11:37) - What You Can Do

    (14:41) - Outro

    📚 Concepts & Frameworks

    This episode discusses:

    • The Paradox of Choice (Barry Schwartz)
    • Dating App Slot Machine Psychology
    • Hedging vs. Choosing behaviors
    • Masculine clarity vs. Feminine receptivity in digital spaces


    🎵 Music Credits

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!)

    By Your Side – Justin Lee

    → https://uppbeat.io/t/justin-lee/by-your-side

    License code: V9WDYDGF5FQ8EEQA


    Firelight – Hemlock

    → https://uppbeat.io/t/hemlock/firelight

    All versions licensed via Music Vine: 9RB9UWAG0CNFANCJ


    📩 Connect with The Spirit of Dating

    🎧 Listen on Spotify: spotify.spiritofdating.com

    📸 Instagram: @SpiritOfDating

    🎥 TikTok / YouTube: @SpiritOfDating

    📘 Facebook: Spirit of Dating

    🌐 Website: spiritofdating.com

    📧 Inquiries: info@spiritofdating.com

    Hashtags

    #TheSpiritOfDating #GeorgeDus #ModernDating #DatingPsychology #DatingApps #MixedSignals #DatingAdvice #Relationships #EmotionalAvailability
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    15 分
  • Episode 5 — The Testing Game: When Trust Feels Safer Than Control | Spirit of Dating

    Episode 5 — The Testing Game: When Trust Feels Safer Than Control | Spirit of Dating
    2025/11/14

    Welcome to The Spirit of Dating, your spiritual dating podcast.

    Do you ever catch yourself texting slower, pulling back a little, or dropping hints to see how someone reacts? This week, George Dus explores the testing game—those subtle protective behaviours that feel like safety but quietly erode real connection.

    Through a story many will see themselves in, George reveals why testing often starts long before a relationship becomes serious, how it impacts emotional safety, and why it keeps even the best connections stuck in uncertainty.

    He also unpacks the energetic shift that occurs when we stop managing outcomes and start letting ourselves be seen.

    If you’ve ever wondered, “Why do I sabotage something good?” or “Why does calm connection feel unfamiliar?”—this episode offers the clarity you’ve been craving.

    Practical Takeaways
    • What emotional testing actually is—and why it happens even with good partners
    • How testing shows up differently in masculine and feminine energy
    • A simple pause technique to break testing cycles before they do damage
    • How to communicate uncertainty without turning it into a test
    • Ways to build internal safety so trust feels less threatening


    Chapters (Timestamps)

    (00:00) – Intro

    (02:26) – The Story

    (09:23) – Spirit Lens

    (12:23) – Polarity Lesson

    (15:52) – Self-Awareness & Practice

    (21:00) – Truth Telling

    (24:27) – Practical Takeaway

    (27:39) – Closing

    (29:41) – Spirit Whisper

    (29:54) – Outro


    📚 Referenced Frameworks

    This episode touches lightly on:

    • Trust & emotional safety
    • Polarity and nervous-system dynamics
    • Attachment patterns (non-clinical, practical lens)


    🎵 Music Credits

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!)

    By Your Side – Justin Lee

    → https://uppbeat.io/t/justin-lee/by-your-side

    License code: V9WDYDGF5FQ8EEQA


    What Happens Next – Tyler Edwards

    → https://uppbeat.io/t/tyler-edwards/what-happens-next

    All versions licensed via Music Vine: 7TSSZERF0OKIYM3J


    📩 Connect with The Spirit of Dating

    🎧 Listen on Spotify: spotify.spiritofdating.com

    📸 Instagram: @SpiritOfDating

    🎥 TikTok / YouTube: @SpiritOfDating

    📘 Facebook: Spirit of Dating

    🌐 Website: spiritofdating.com

    📧 Inquiries: info@spiritofdating.com


    💜 Relationship Support Resources

    The Spirit of Dating stands with all who face crisis or abuse in relationships. Love should never harm. If you need support, reach out to a trusted hotline or service.

    U.S. National DV Hotline – 1-800-799-7233 | thehotline.org Canada – sheltersafe.ca U.K. – Refuge 0808 2000 247 | refuge.org.uk Australia – 1800 Respect 1800 737 732 | 1800respect.org.au Global – UN Women | unwomen.org · Hot Peach Pages | hotpeachpages.net

    You are not alone. 💜


    Hashtags

    #TheSpiritOfDating #GeorgeDus #TestingGame #DatingAwareness #TrustAndConnection #AttachmentPatterns #SpiritualDating #EmotionalSafety #HealthyRelationships #ConsciousDating #dustarot #georgedus
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    33 分
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