Early dating often feels clear one moment and confusing the next. In this episode, George breaks down the dating psychology behind what actually happens when someone pulls back after a good date—and why this shift in modern dating usually has more to do with pacing than interest.

We look at the dating behaviour patterns behind mixed signals, the difference between processing time and actual disinterest, and how masculine clarity often looks different from feminine pacing when the energy changes. The goal isn't to fix anything—it's to understand the pattern so you can see it earlier next time.

⏱️ Chapters (Timestamps)

(00:00) - Intro

(00:51) - The Story

(02:41) - Pattern Clarity

(05:19) - Psychological Insight

(12:00) - What to Say If You Have the Conversation

(14:41) - When The Roles Are Reversed

(16:58) - Masculine Feminine Timing

(17:45) - Practical Takeaways

(22:46) - Outro

📚 Concepts & Frameworks

This episode discusses:

• Early dating confusion and the "Frame Shift" after intimacy
• Interest vs. Readiness: Why they aren't the same thing
• Masculine behaviour (Reflection) vs. Feminine Pacing (Continuity)
• The 3 Pullback Types: Processing, Avoidance, and Playing

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