In this episode of Spill the Milk, Nicola speaks with Emma Flynn, mum of three, midwife, and artist, about breastfeeding with chronically low milk supply due to insufficient glandular tissue (IGT).

Emma’s journey spans three very different postpartum experiences. With her first baby, she chose not to breastfeed in order to protect her mental health. With her second, she did everything: triple feeding, supplementers, pumping - only to find herself physically and emotionally depleted. It was only with her third baby that she was able to redefine success and breastfeed without pressure, focusing on connection rather than output.

This conversation explores:

• What IGT (insufficient glandular tissue) actually means
• PCOS and hormonal influences on milk supply
• The realities of triple feeding
• The grief of stopping breastfeeding
• The power of naming what’s happening
• Why exclusive breastfeeding is not the only valid goal
• Protecting maternal mental health during feeding challenges
• Adjusting the load when support is limited

This episode is a reminder that breastfeeding is not binary — and that a well mother matters just as much as a well-fed baby.

We’re nearly at the end of this first series of Spill the Milk, with one final episode still to come. Thank you for listening and sharing these conversations. Nicola hopes to return before the summer with a second series.

For antenatal or postnatal feeding support, see details in the show notes.

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In this episode of Spill the Milk with Nicola, I’m joined by Laura, a mum of five, including three-month-old twin girls born at 36 weeks.

Laura had successfully breastfed her older children, but feeding twins, particularly late preterm twins, brought new challenges, decisions and unexpected lessons.

We talk honestly about:

• The reality of feeding babies born at 36 weeks
• One twin spending time in NICU
• Supplementation in the early days
• Triple feeding and the mental load of pumping
• The turning point when direct breastfeeding became easier
• Managing older children while establishing feeding
• The role of practical support at home
• Hiring a postnatal doula
• Letting go of perfection and saying yes to help

This episode is not about doing everything “right”.

It’s about preparation, flexibility, and removing unnecessary pressure.

Late preterm babies often need additional feeding support early on. That does not mean breastfeeding is off the table. With the right information and realistic expectations, many families go on to feed successfully and sustainably.

Laura’s story highlights something important: breastfeeding twins isn’t about being superhuman. It’s about systems, support, and understanding what’s normal.

If you’re pregnant with twins and want evidence-based, practical preparation, I run a Twins Antenatal Breastfeeding Preparation session where we cover:

• Late preterm feeding patterns
• NICU possibilities
• Supplementation without panic
• Protecting milk supply
• Pumping when it’s helpful — and when it’s not
• Tandem feeding vs individual feeding
• Setting up meaningful support at home

Preparation changes the experience.

Booking for this service is here https://www.breastfeedingsupport.ie/online-classes/twins-antenatal-prep/

Laura is an Occupational Therapist - her website is here

The doula we discussed is Nicky McEntee - more info here

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In this episode of Spill the Milk with Nicola, Emma tells the story of her son PJ, who was born at 25 weeks and 5 days.

She describes the shock of sudden preterm labour, meeting her baby through wires and monitors, and how pumping became the one thing she could control during a long NICU stay.

Emma talks honestly about expressing colostrum, building and protecting her milk supply, skin-to-skin care, and the slow transition from bottles of expressed milk to breastfeeding at home.

Just as life began to settle, she discovered she was pregnant again and PJ’s feeding behaviour and her milk supply changed almost overnight.

We discuss the science behind preterm milk, pumping, fortifier, and why milk supply can dip in early pregnancy alongside the emotional reality of making feeding decisions when your baby arrives far too early.

This episode is for NICU parents, pumping parents, and anyone navigating feeding after a preterm birth.

Pumping Masterclass - Tues 3rd Feb 2026 at 7pm booking open

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