Let's Talk About Sexo

This week, JP and Ant catch up on their wildly different weekends, JP's still deep in his summer adventures, while Ant was laid up dealing with a flare from his chronic illness. From there, it's straight into the Hot Spill: should an apology be as loud and public as the disrespect that caused it? Plus, is unfollowing or unfriending someone over political or ideological differences actually constructive, or just an echo chamber move?

Then the conversation gets personal. JP and Ant open up about their journeys discovering their preferences as queer Latino men — the lack of support, the absence of real-world guidance, and what it meant to have to become their own teachers along the way. They talk sexual expression, how they use fashion and personal style as extensions of their identity, and what living with a sex-positive mentality actually looks like day to day. They close that segment with advice for young queer folks just starting to explore their sexuality, the lessons they wish someone had handed them earlier.

To wrap the episode, they dig into bisexuality specifically within Latino culture, why so many bi men stay in the closet, and their fear of rejection from women.

This week, we're spilling the cafecito on relationships, all of them. Friendships, romance, and the ones we spend 40+ hours a week in at work. Nothing is off limits and nothing gets a filter.

We kick things off with some hot takes on DE&I in the workplace (yes, we're going there), and somehow end up debating whether audiobooks even count as "reading," a fight that gets more heated than it has any right to be.

JP breaks down how he defines friendship at this stage of his life, who makes the cut, who doesn't, and why that list has changed. Ant gets real about the lessons learned from past relationships and marriage, what he'd tell his younger self, and what he's still figuring out.

We close it out on the one relationship that shapes every other one in your life: the relationship with yourself. If that one's broken, good luck with the rest.

Spill The Cafecito - Episode 3: JP & Ant break down the soundtrack of who they are.

In this episode, JP and Ant hit play on the music that raised them; the songs, artists, and genres that shaped their upbringing and still hit different today. They trace their personal soundtracks back to Saturday cleaning days with mom and Sunday mornings at church, unpacking how the music we grow up with becomes part of who we are.

The conversation goes deeper as they tackle homophobia in reggaetón; the genre's complicated relationship with masculinity, sexuality, and the artists pushing back against it. They also spotlight the career journeys of some of their favorite artists: the grind, the reinvention, the moments that turned talent into legacy.

To close it out, JP and Ant open up their own "playlist of the heart," the tracks that mean the most to them and why.

Spill the Cafecito – Episode 2: This week, Anthony and JP are spilling the cafecito on everything from pop divas to family drama. They kick things off by celebrating their eternal love for Mariah Carey and Kylie Minogue, then somehow end up asking the age-old question: Who is J.Lo, really? 👀

From there, they take a trip down memory lane, sharing the story of how they met and how their friendship—and chosen family—came to be. The conversation gets a little more personal as they reflect on the lessons, challenges, love, and the trauma they received from their parents, and how those experiences continue to shape them as adults.

It's funny, heartfelt, nostalgic, and just a little shady—the kind of conversation that feels like catching up over cafecito with your favorite queer Puerto Rican cousins. Whether you're here for the pop culture, the family stories, or the laughs, this episode has something for you.

Spill the Cafecito – Episode 1: Our Story

Welcome to the very first episode of Spill the Cafecito! In this episode, we're spilling our cafecito by introducing ourselves and sharing the stories that shaped us. From growing up in Latino households and navigating childhood experiences to embracing our identities and coming out as gay latino men, we're keeping it real from the very beginning.

We open up about the challenges, the laughs, the lessons, and the moments that made us who we are today. This is more than just our story, it's a conversation about culture, family, identity, resilience, and finding the courage to live authentically.

Grab your cafecito and join us as we kick off this journey together. Because around here, no topic is off limits. We're spilling the cafecito, one conversation at a time.