How do you keep showing up with hope, courage, and compassion when life has already taken so much?
Lindsey Scoma was 15 years old when she lost her sister Amber suddenly. It was the kind of loss that makes a teenager want to close up, go quiet, and stop letting people in. And honestly? That impulse made sense. But Lindsey made a different choice, and she has been making it ever since.
In this episode, Kim Atwood sits down with Lindsey, a women's ministry leader, mentor, wife, and mom, to talk about how grief shapes your voice, how faith carries you through complicated loss, and what it looks like to stay tender in a world that gives you every reason not to.
They cover losing her sister in her teens, her father's complicated illness and passing last year, and the in-between years of wrestling with perfectionism, works-based faith, and the fear of loving people you might lose.
In this conversation:
- Growing up in church and learning that your gifts aren't just for you
- The sudden loss of her sister at 15 and how it made her want to go quiet
- Wrestling with works-based faith, fear, and perfectionism after tragedy
- Walking through her dad's illness and passing, and the mix of grief, guilt, and grace that followed
- What she wishes her family had done differently in grief
- How God spoke to her piercingly clearly the day after her dad's funeral
- Why mentoring women keeps her spiritually grounded and open-hearted
If you've ever felt like your world has gone up in flames, whether through loss of a person, a dream, or a sense of self, Lindsey's story will remind you there is still hope, purpose, and a voice on the other side.
About Lindsey Scoma Lindsey Scoma is a women's ministry leader, mentor, and speaker who has spent years investing in young women and adults through discipleship and leadership development. Shaped by her own experiences with loss and faith, she brings quiet, grounded wisdom to conversations about grief, calling, and staying open-hearted in a broken world.
About SpeakHER Sessions SpeakHER Sessions is a podcast for women who are finding their voice, or finding it again. Host Kim Atwood sits down with real women to talk about the experiences that shaped them, the seasons that stretched them, and the confidence they've built along the way. New episodes every Monday. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Follow us @speakhersessions.
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