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We share how a surprise DNA match revealed Troy’s living father and how that miracle reshaped our marriage, business, and leadership. Identity healed, boundaries flexed, communication deepened, and our pace slowed so we could honor what God is building.

• healing identity after abandonment
• genetics, family ties, and daily joy
• flexible boundaries to protect connection
• communication practices that prevent resentment
• slowing business to move at the pace of peace
• leading with boldness instead of people pleasing
• faith, testimony, and stewarding a public story
• resilience as spouses through sudden change
• renewing the mind with prayer and Scripture

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What if serving your local church together could transform your marriage, clarify your calling, and ignite a movement beyond Sunday? We open up about the unexpected path from kids’ check-in and security shifts to leading couples, preaching through grief, and accepting a pastoral mantle we never planned to wear. Along the way, we share the uncomfortable lessons—performing versus being real, loving people who don’t love you back, and setting boundaries so your family remains your first ministry.

Our story doesn’t stop at the platform. A family loss birthed a bolder voice, a weekly “Wednesday Word,” and a growing burden for pastoral leadership. The church became a training ground where Spartners—our mission to help spouses build together—was discovered, developed, and deployed. Then came a harder truth: silent disobedience. We were doing good, God-honoring work while quietly neglecting the very assignment He gave us to carry. Realignment meant stepping away from roles we loved to scale our impact globally while staying rooted locally.

You’ll hear practical frameworks to serve without burning out: how to share a schedule, keep joint and personal prayer rhythms, create healthy limits that point people to Jesus, and protect intimacy when the weight of ministry follows you home. We talk theology and practice—being salt and light beyond Sunday, embracing pastoral covering and accountability, and choosing authenticity over polish so God can bless the real you. If you’ve wondered how faith, marriage, and entrepreneurship can align without tearing you apart, this conversation offers honest guidance and hard-won hope.
Listen now, subscribe for more conversations on serving together and building as one, and share this episode with a couple who’s ready to step into their calling. If this resonated, leave a review and tell us where you feel called to go next.

We’re excited to share something special for couples who are ready to go beyond the ordinary date night and build a stronger, more intentional marriage.

Introducing: Cultivate Your Marriage — A Valentine’s Experience

A 2-hour evening designed not just for connection, but for real growth.

📅 When: February 13, 2026

🕖 Time: 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM Eastern

📍 Where: Mood Café in Lawrenceville, GA

💲 Cost: $25 per couple (includes lite bites & drinks)

👫 Limited Seats: Only 25 couples — Register Here

What Couples Can Expect:

• A relaxed, welcoming environment to connect and reset.

• Practical conversation led by Troy & Shantel on understanding your partner’s needs and communicating with clarity.

• Introduction to the Spartners Agreement — a powerful tool for alignment in marriage.

• Time to share and reflect with other couples seeking closeness and community.

Whether you’re feeling disconnected, simply “busy,” or ready for practical tools that help your relationship thrive, this night is for couples who want more than just inspiration — they want transformation.

Save Your Seats: Here 🔗

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We unpack how a year of simplicity reshaped our faith, marriage, and business, then reveal our new word: all in. Doing less opened space for peace, presence, and bold, God-sized goals we’re ready to pursue together.

• why a single word beats resolutions for direction
• how we discerned “simple” and pruned our commitments
• one-step goals and 20-minute daily wins
• resisting social pressure to do the most
• accountability as a couple using a shared word
• simplicity as stewardship that scales impact
• shifting from panic and perfectionism to peace
• revealing our new word “all in” for faith, marriage, business
• practical rhythms for connection and check-ins
• choosing bold prayers and trusting God with outcomes

Draw the Circle 40-day prayer challenge by Mark Batterson — see the show notes so you can get your copy

Subscribe, share this with someone building a life and a business with their spouse, and tell us: what’s the first thing you’ll reorder this week?

Want more?

⏩ Check out our Youversion bible
plan: Marriage Reimagined

⏩ Follow us on Instagran: @wearespartners

⏩ Book us to speak!

⏩ info@thetbeffect.com

⏩ Join our newsletter

⏩ Buy Spartners Book

Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE! Also, follow us on all Social Media:

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Draw The Circle Challenge

Want more?

⏩ Check out our Youversion bible
plan: Marriage Reimagined

⏩ Follow us on Instagran: @wearespartners

⏩ Book us to speak!

⏩ info@thetbeffect.com

⏩ Join our newsletter

⏩ Buy Spartners Book

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