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SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

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 SoulTalk is a thought-provoking podcast about what really matters in life. It is a deep exploration into life's biggest questions: who we are, why we are here, and where we are going? Kute Blackson will get personal, sharing practical wisdom on how to live your most authentic life, as well as deep dialogues on purpose, health, love, money, sex, spirituality and success with special guests like Barbara De Angelis, Dr. Shefali, Mike Dooley, Geneen Roth and more.Copyright 2020 The Blackson Group LLC 代替医療・補完医療 個人的成功 自己啓発 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • 433: Erica Komisar on Why the First 3 Years Matter More Than You Think (And How to Parent with Presence, Not Perfection)

    433: Erica Komisar on Why the First 3 Years Matter More Than You Think (And How to Parent with Presence, Not Perfection)
    2026/01/14
    "Don't live your life based in fear. Be courageous." (Erica Komisar) What if the deepest struggles we face as adults: anxiety, addiction, emotional emptiness, the constant need to prove ourselves, don't begin in adulthood at all? What if they begin in the earliest, most fragile years of life… when presence matters more than anything else? In this powerful episode of SoulTalk, I sit down with renowned psychoanalyst and parenting expert Erica Komisar for a conversation that challenges many of the assumptions we've been taught about success, independence, and what it truly means to raise emotionally healthy children. At the heart of this conversation is one radical and deeply confronting idea: human beings are born neurologically unfinished and the first three years of life are not optional when it comes to emotional development. Erica explains why a mother's physical presence acts as a child's external nervous system, how early emotional absence creates a quiet but lasting void, and why so many adults spend their lives unconsciously trying to fill it. We explore the differences between maternal and paternal roles, and the biological intelligence behind nurturing and play. Erica also speaks candidly about the cost of modern pressures, professional ego, and cultural narratives that undervalue caregiving, and how these forces have reshaped families in ways we are only now beginning to understand. Whether you are a parent, planning to become one, healing your own childhood, or simply curious about the roots of emotional well-being, this conversation will impact you. Timestamps (00:01:50) – Erica explains why mothers and fathers should not compete to perform the same tasks.(00:03:53) – An exploration of the concept that human infants are born nine months "too early" in terms of neurological fragility and require total vulnerability..(00:05:32) - How a mother's physical presence regulates a baby's heartbeat, breathing, and emotional regulation.(00:07:43) - Why a child first sees and understands themselves by looking into the mother's eyes.(00:09:37) - Understanding the biological drivers behind maternal nurturing.(00:11:14) - How fathers use physical play to teach children how to regulate high levels of excitement and aggression.(00:17:04) - Erica challenges the modern notion that a parent can be "emotionally present" during the first three years without being physically present.(00:19:32) - A discussion on how early emotional absence creates a vacuum that adults often try to fill with technology, drugs, or eating disorders.(00:21:26) - A courageous look at whether the "need" to work is driven by survival or by ego gratification and the desire for materialism.(00:26:00) - Encouraging mothers to let go of professional ego and consider a "mommy track" to prioritize the critical early years of their children.(00:30:03) - How the feminist movement's dismissal of caretaking as "unproductive" disrupted family structures and impacted the development of young men.(00:34:01) - Insights from Erica's new book on how to avoid treating children as "possessions" or "weapons" during a separation.(00:39:15) – Three Wisdoms for Life: Erica shares her ultimate lessons: prioritize relationships, value interdependence over independence, and live a life driven by courage rather than fear. In this episode, you'll discover: Why the first three years of life are foundational to emotional regulation and mental health.How a parent's physical presence shapes a child's sense of safety, identity, and self-worth.Why emotional absence often shows up later as addiction, workaholism, or disconnection.The biological differences between maternal nurturing and paternal play and why both matter.A courageous reexamination of work, ego, and the fear of "falling behind".How to protect a child's emotional health during separation or divorce.Why interdependence, not hyper-independence, is the key to resilient human beings. Questions I Ask What is the "Fourth Trimester" and why are we born nine months too early?Is parenting a competition or a team exercise?Can you really be "emotionally present" if you are physically absent?What is the true origin of our "voids" and addictions?When we say we "have to work," is it for survival or for the ego?How do we stop weaponizing our children during a divorce?Should we be raising our children for independence or interdependence?How do we heal the "Mother Hunger"? Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.comVisit my website: www.kuteblackson.com • Website: www.komisar.com • Books: Being There, Chicken Little, and her latest release, The Parents' Guide to Divorce. Resources with Kute Blackson: Purpose Summit: www.purposesummit2026.com Register now! Kute's Life changing Path to Abundance & Miracles : https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You ...
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    43 分
  • 432: Why New Year's Resolutions Fail and What Actually Works in 2026

    432: Why New Year's Resolutions Fail and What Actually Works in 2026
    2026/01/07
    "Consistency, not intensity, is what transforms a life." Every January, millions of people promise themselves that this will be the year everything changes. They set goals. They make declarations. They swear this time will be different. And yet by February, most resolutions are quietly abandoned, not because people are lazy, broken, or lacking discipline but because they've been taught the wrong model of change. In this powerful episode of SoulTalk, I invite you to look deeper, beyond willpower, hype, and the "New Year, New You" myth and into the real mechanics of lasting transformation. If you're tired of starting over… If you're done beating yourself up for "failing"… If you sense that something deeper is calling you forward… This episode is a compassionate wake-up call and a grounded roadmap for real, embodied change. We explore why behavior change alone never lasts, how identity shapes your results, why consistency always beats intensity, and how your environment may be quietly deciding your future. This isn't about forcing yourself to become someone else. It's about remembering who you already are and living from that truth. Timestamps (00:01:10) – Why most New Year's resolutions fail (and it's not your fault)(00:02:09) – Challenging the "New Year, New You" myth(00:03:12) – Invitation to the Purpose Summit 2026 (free global event)(00:05:27) – Why changing behavior alone never creates lasting change(00:07:20) – The real foundation of transformation: identity(00:08:31) – You can't outgrow your self-image(00:10:38) – Shift #2: The power of small, consistent actions(00:12:41) – How tiny habits compound into massive change(00:13:29) – Self-trust: the hidden key to confidence and momentum(00:14:32) – Shift #3: Your environment is shaping your future(00:16:28) – Designing a life that supports your highest self(00:17:59) – Who are you becoming in 2026?(00:19:06) – Let this be a year of purpose, boldness, and alignment In this Episode, you will learn: Why willpower alone is never enough to create lasting changeThe real reason New Year's resolutions don't stickHow your identity silently controls your resultsWhy consistency beats intensity every single timeHow small daily actions rewire your brain and build self-trustThe role your environment plays in success, habits, and self-sabotageHow to stop chasing goals — and start magnetizing themWhat it truly means to live from alignment instead of force Some Questions I Ask: Who do I need to become to live the life I desire? What version of me already lives this reality naturally?Where am I trying to fix myself instead of trusting myself?What small commitment can I keep daily, no matter my mood?Does my environment support who I'm becoming… or who I used to be?What is my soul inviting me to master in 2026? Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.comVisit my website: www.kuteblackson.com Resources with Kute Blackson: Purpose Summit: www.purposesummit2026.com Register now! Kute's Life changing Path to Abundance & Miracles : https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire.REGISTER NOW : https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com
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    23 分
  • 431: Margaret Paul on How to Love Without Losing Yourself

    431: Margaret Paul on How to Love Without Losing Yourself
    2025/12/31

    "Your feelings aren't the problem. They're the guidance."

    What if the real reason relationships hurt so much isn't who you're with, but how you relate to yourself?

    In this profound and eye-opening conversation, Dr. Margaret Paul, bestselling author and creator of Inner Bonding, joins Kute Blackson to dismantle some of the most common and damaging myths about love, relationships, self-worth, and responsibility.

    This episode goes far beyond romantic relationships. It dives into the invisible emotional systems we carry into marriage, parenting, friendships, spirituality, and even our sense of purpose.

    You'll discover why chemistry is often confused with love, why "being nice" can actually be self-betrayal, and how many of us unknowingly abandon ourselves; then, wonder why relationships feel exhausting, painful, or empty.

    Timestamps

    • (00:02:30) - What a healthy relationship really is (getting love vs. sharing love)
    • (00:05:18) - Why we're attracted to the wrong people
    • (00:08:26) - Emotional responsibility in relationships
    • (00:11:56) - Self-care vs. true self-love
    • (00:14:59) - What the inner child actually is
    • (00:19:54) - How to work with anger, desire, and intense emotions
    • (00:28:49) - Perfectionism, control, and false beliefs
    • (00:37:29) - Relationship systems that sabotage love (pull,resist, compliance)
    • (00:40:35) - How self-betrayal affects health and vitality
    • (00:42:11) - Discovering if relationships heal after infidelity
    • (00:45:07) - "I did nothing wrong" and hidden dynamics
    • (00:46:32) - Why compliance is not love

    Questions I Ask

    • What actually defines a healthy relationship?
    • Why do we keep choosing the same kind of partner even when it hurts?
    • If no one is responsible for our happiness, what is our responsibility to each other in love?
    • Can relationships truly recover from infidelity? And how?
    • How do parents raise emotionally healthy children without creating dependence?
    • Is compliance really a form of control?
    • What advice would you give your younger self if you could start again?

    In This Episode, You'll Learn…

    • Why love alone isn't enough to make a relationship work
    • The difference between sharing love and needing it
    • Why chemistry can feel powerful and still be destructive
    • How self-abandonment silently sabotages intimacy
    • Why being "nice" and compliant kills desire
    • What emotional responsibility really means (and what it doesn't)
    • Whether trust can be rebuilt after betrayal
    • How learning to love yourself changes every relationship

    Get in Touch:

    • Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com
    • Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com

    • Resources with Kute Blackson:
      • Purpose Summit: www.purposesummit2026.com
      • Register now!

      • Kute's Life changing Path to Abundance & Miracles : https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com

      • Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire.
      • REGISTER NOW : https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com

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    54 分
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