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Something Needs To Change - Clarity

Something Needs To Change - Clarity

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Welcome to Something Needs to Change. And here's our next episode. And todaywe're going to talk about clarity. And clarity is so important that half the time we don'teven think about it as clarity. So, what the heck is clarity and why do we need it?So, we talk about wanting it, but what are we actually looking for? Clarity assists usto understand and find out what is behind something or in a task we're asked toperform. Clarity helps us understand rather than guess. I looked in somedictionaries today.I have a little red pocket dictionary from school, and it's got Elizabeth written on it, formfive, and there was one word that explained clarity, and it said clearer. So I went intoanother diary, uh diary, dictionary and it was my mum's, it was a big one, and thatgave me a few more words.About clarity. So I thought I'd go to AI. Well, of course, I got a lot more out of the AIthan I ever did a dictionary. And this is the day and age that we're in, aren't we? We canfind clarity in a lot more places now.and have it given to us in ways that we can understand more. So the thing is thatyou can delve so deep into AI that we get information overload. We get too muchinformation and there's a fine line to be drawn there, isn't there?About digging and digging and digging and just actually accepting what we're toldor what we read. So there's a difference between that fine line and digging to find outsome clarity. And if we're really digging to find some clarity, it's usually because it's on apersonal nature.So where are times we have or haven't got clarity? Sometimes We do itnaturally. It's our humanness. It's sometimes we do it naturally. It's our humanness.It's our brains working that we presume. It's not necessarily clarity. There's adifference between assumption and clarity. Yeah. And. We tend to fill the gapswith assumptions.Okay, and that's a big one. So, in my previous pod shot, we talked about conversationand a looping conversation and About what's actually been said and what do youtake it to mean? Because that's why it keeps looping. But think about a conversationyou've had today or that conversation that's looping and Sometimes comes fromasking the other person.Sometimes it's from understanding why something is bothering you. So what I want toask you is to just actually look inside today and why does clarity matter? Yeah. It starts with what we can be expected to do or what somebody is explaining tous.But the most important thing is clarity is truth. It's truth about how somebody wantssomething done or somebody is explaining something, especially if it's a partner or afamily member or a work colleague. So think of a time someone has asked you to dosomething for them or they've given you extra explanation about a situation withoutmaking it clear where they've been or what they've been doing.You see where that clarity comes in. And we don't go round and say, give meclarity. We just ask for an explanation. But sometimes you actually have to say tosomebody, no, be clearer. I want the clarity behind that decision or that situation.So when that's happened to you, did you know where to start to ask thatquestion? Did you feel awkward asking? Did you do what thought they wanted.Because you assumed that you knew. And then when you did something, it wascompletely wrong. It wasn't what they wanted at all. Or was there an explanationof a clarity situation? No. Was their explanation of a situation fully transparent withclarity?When you've had personal conversation. So we talked about there about starting. Didyou know where to start? And did you feel awkward asking? Yeah. And doing somethingthat you thought somebody wanted you to do, but it was wrong. Or you've had aconversation and you feel that. There wasn't full transparency there on theclarity of the full situation. So let's turn it back on us. Yeah, so we can assumethat other people know what we mean.What feels obvious to us is not obvious to other people. It's obvious to us because it'swithin us and we know exactly what we want and how we want it. But have we madeourselves clear or is it a guess? But sometimes people deliberately leaveclarity out of a situation or a conversation.Your task, if you choose to accept it, when you ask someone do something. pause.Be clear about what you need and when you need it. Explain the how Otherwise,leave it to do it their own way. This isn't about micromanaging people orsituations.It's about giving someone enough information to understand your request. Now, whetherthat's you're asking somebody to do something at work or whether you're asking on apersonal situation. or conversation and if you're the one that's left guessing askagain especially if it's about a personal situation don't let that conversation loopbecause if that conversation is looping you haven't got the clarity of what you needed andwhat you are asking for.So if this has brought one particular situation or conversation to you now as we'vebeen chatting, maybe you'd like ...
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