The holiday season can feel particularly isolating when you're raising children alone. If you've been struggling with chronic loneliness or feeling disconnected during what's supposed to be a joyful time, this message is for you.

Drawing from personal experiences of abandonment and the emotional aftermath of divorce, I share insights from day three of my Courage to Believe 21-Day Devotional for Single Moms. This isn't just about seasonal sadness. It's about understanding how past wounds of abandonment can resurface and create patterns of isolation that keep us stuck.

Many of us carry deep-seated feelings from childhood abandonment, whether through death, divorce, or parents who simply weren't present. These experiences create emotional imprints that can manifest years later, especially during challenging seasons of single motherhood. The sting of divorce adds another layer, regardless of who initiated it, leaving us with feelings of failure and profound loneliness.

There's a crucial difference between healthy solitude for self-care and the dangerous territory of chronic loneliness. When we start avoiding PTA meetings, steering clear of neighborhood connections, or keeping ourselves at arm's length from church groups—not because we're busy, but because we're protecting ourselves from judgment or further hurt—we've crossed into harmful isolation.

This self-imposed distance can extend even to our relationship with God, especially when we feel He's abandoned us too. But what if reconnecting could be as simple as asking, "How can I reconnect with you today, Lord?"

Building meaningful connections doesn't require becoming overwhelmed or overcommitted. Whether through church groups, local community organizations, or even online communities, there are ways to create bonds that honor both our need for rest and our desire for authentic relationships.

• Recognition of how past abandonment affects present loneliness
• Understanding the difference between healthy solitude and harmful isolation
• Biblical perspective on God's promise never to leave us orphaned or comfortless
• Practical approaches to rebuilding connections without overwhelming yourself
• Encouragement that you are worthy of love, friendship, and community

The scripture foundation comes from John 14:18: "I will not leave you as orphans. I will come to you." This promise reminds us that even when earthly relationships fail or disappoint, our Heavenly Father remains constant and present.

You deserve good friends, wise counsel, and a community that embraces and empowers you. This season of loneliness doesn't have to define your story—there's hope for connection, healing, and the courage to believe in your worth.

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Have you ever wondered how someone can rise from repeated abandonment, three failed marriages, and the brink of homelessness to create a life of purpose and hope? Sometimes our greatest struggles become the foundation for our most meaningful work.

In this deeply personal recording, I share the raw truth behind my transformation from a woman questioning her worth to someone dedicated to supporting solo mothers through their darkest moments. This isn't just another success story. It's a testament to what becomes possible when we stop running from our pain and start learning from it.

After my third divorce, I faced a choice that would change everything. Instead of falling into bitterness or blame, I chose to look inward. What I discovered through a simple but powerful exercise changed not only how I saw myself, but how I approached every relationship moving forward. The process revealed baggage I didn't even know I was carrying and patterns I had been unconsciously repeating for years.

The real test came when I found myself alone with two young sons, facing potential homelessness in Atlanta. What happened next required a leap of faith that still amazes me. A series of events so perfectly timed that they could only be described as miraculous. From an unexpected phone call to free plane tickets, from a stranger's generosity to a 900-mile move with everything we owned packed into a Toyota Camry.

But this story isn't just about divine intervention. But it's also about the courage to act even when fear threatens to paralyze you. It's about recognizing that our children are more aware of our struggles than we think, and how they can become our greatest source of strength.

Through this vulnerable sharing, you'll gain insights into:

• The power of taking responsibility for your part in failed relationships without falling into self-blame
• A practical exercise that can reveal unconscious patterns in your relationship choices
• How to recognize when fear is masquerading as wisdom and holding you back
• The difference between being desperate and being ready to receive help
• Why your faith story matters and how it connects to something much bigger than your circumstances

This experience became the catalyst for my devotional "Courage to Believe: 21 Day Devotional for Single Moms". This is a resource born from the realization that grace meets us exactly where we are, even in our messiest moments.

Whether you're freshly divorced, widowed, or simply raising children while feeling utterly alone, this story serves as a reminder that you're not walking this path by yourself. Your current chapter doesn't define your entire story.

Sometimes the very experiences that break us open are the ones that prepare us to pour hope into others.

If you've ever felt like you're barely keeping your head above water, or if you're ready to stop repeating old patterns and start writing a new story, this episode offers both practical wisdom and spiritual encouragement for the road ahead.

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After years of starting projects and having trouble finishing them, I’m so happy to finally share some amazing news. My Courage to Believe: 21-Day Devotional for Single Moms is becoming real, and I can’t wait for you to have it.

As a divorced mom who has been through the challenges of single motherhood, I know the ups and downs we face every day. Sometimes we feel strong and in control, and other times we question our strength, our faith, and whether we can keep going. These feelings don’t just go away. They come and go, each needing our attention and care.

This devotional came from my own experience moving 900 miles from Atlanta to New York with my two youngest sons, to take a two-week job. I wasn’t sure I had enough faith, but through it all, God’s help was clear.

Instead of just giving simple encouragement, I’ve made sure each day speaks to the real feelings we face as single moms. We’ll talk about fear, anger, loneliness, and grief. Grief isn’t just about death—it can also come from losing relationships, security, or even our sense of self.

I’ve included the story of Hagar from the Old Testament. God saw her, cared for her, and protected her when she was pregnant and alone, and later as a single mother. Her story shows us that God never overlooks us, even when we feel alone.

Some of these devotions might bring up hard memories for anyone who has faced domestic violence, as I have. I’ve handled these topics gently, knowing our feelings often come from how we were treated by people who said they loved us. Forgiveness is important for our healing—not for them, but for our own freedom.

This isn’t just another devotional meant to make you feel good. Here’s what you’ll get from these 21 days:

• You’ll know your feelings are normal, and that God truly understands them.
• Biblical view on the struggles that are unique to single moms.
• Support to discover your path to healing that links your struggles to God’s everlasting love.
• Practical advice for dealing with fear, anger, and loneliness.
• Encouragement from real-life stories and truths from scripture.
• Support to discover your path to healing that links your struggles to God’s everlasting love.

The ebook is ready for pre-order now, and hardcover and paperback versions will be out in the first week of December. Every pre-order comes with journal sheets to help you reflect and use what you learn.

You’re doing more than enough, even if it doesn’t always feel that way. You’re not alone on this journey, and there is someone whose grace will carry you through.

Whether your faith feels strong or you’re just barely holding on, this devotional meets you right where you are. Together, we’ll find the courage to believe in God’s plan, accept His love, and discover that we can do more than just get by—we can thrive as single moms.

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Are you caught up in the belief that expensive equals meaningful? As gift-giving season approaches, it's easy to fall into the trap of measuring love and worth by price tags and material possessions. But what if the most precious gifts can't be purchased at all?

We live in a culture that conditions us to believe bigger, shinier, and more expensive automatically means more love, more value, more worth. Social media feeds this mindset, leaving us feeling empty and overlooked when we can't keep up financially. But there's a beautiful truth we often miss: the most meaningful gifts come from the heart, not the wallet.

I'll share a powerful personal story from Christmas Eve 2005 when Pennsylvania state troopers became my angels on a dark highway. Their gift of time and kindness, asking for nothing in return became a blessing I carry with me nearly two decades later. These moments remind us that every good and perfect gift is from above, often delivered through ordinary people doing extraordinary things.

Here's what you can expect from this episode on recognizing true gifts:

• Identify the gifts we overlook - time, presence, joy, and unconditional love that surround us daily.
• Understand how cultural conditioning tricks us into valuing material things over heart connections.
• Recognize everyday angels who show up without fanfare to offer exactly what we need.
• Shift your perspective from scarcity to abundance by noticing non-material blessings.
• Learn practical ways to acknowledge, appreciate, and pay forward these precious gifts.

When we start recognizing these heart gifts, everything changes. Gratitude replaces emptiness. Community grows stronger. We feel less alone because we see how God places helpers along our path. Most importantly, our worth stops being tied to what we can buy or what others can buy us.

What if we taught our children to value these lasting gifts too? Imagine the world we could create if we measured love by presence instead of presents.

This episode will help you live gift-conscious rather than money-conscious, opening your eyes to the divine blessings that flow through human hands every single day.

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Have you ever felt like you're navigating life's challenges alone, especially as a single mother? In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Lailani Guzman, a multidisciplinary creator and solo mom, to explore her journey of self-discovery, faith, and creativity.

Lailani opens up about her path to single motherhood, sharing the difficult decisions she made to break generational patterns and create a healthier environment for herself and her daughter. Her story is a testament to the strength and resilience that many solo moms possess.

We discuss the struggles of asking for support and the importance of building a community as a single parent. Lailani's experiences highlight the courage it takes to overcome shame and reach out for help when needed.

Lailani shares how faith has become her unwavering source of strength and guidance. She explains how her spiritual journey has intertwined with her healing process, offering insights into:

• The role of faith in overcoming life's challenges
• Finding gratitude in all situations
• Learning to forgive and grow through difficult experiences

As a brand strategist and visual artist, Lailani discusses how creativity has been a constant thread throughout her life. She introduces us to her inspiring "Paint and Praise" workshops, which combine art and spirituality to create a unique healing experience.

Lailani offers three powerful tips for solo moms navigating life's challenges:

• Invite God into every decision
• Don't be afraid of change
• Be the example you wish you had

This conversation with Lailani Guzman is a reminder that you're not alone in your journey as a solo mom. It's an invitation to embrace faith, creativity, and community as tools for healing and growth.

Are you ready to be inspired and find new ways to thrive as a single mother? Listen to this episode and discover how you can tap into your own strength and creativity to create a beautiful life for yourself and your children.

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Drawing from my own experiences as a divorced mom and child of abandonment, I explore the transformative power of forgiveness - not just for others, but for ourselves. This isn't about letting someone off the hook; it's about freeing ourselves from the burden of pain and resentment so we can heal our hearts.

I share my personal journey of forgiving my mother, a decision that quite literally saved my life. Through this story, I illustrate how holding onto anger can be physically and emotionally destructive, while forgiveness can bring profound relief and peace.

1. Forgiving others: Understanding why it's essential and what happens when we don't.

2. Forgiving ourselves: Addressing the guilt and self-blame that often plagues single moms.

3. Forgiving those in our faith communities: Navigating the unique pain of being hurt by fellow believers.

We'll examine forgiveness through a spiritual lens, reflecting on Christ's ultimate act of forgiveness and how it relates to our own struggles. I reference Ephesians 4:32, reminding us of our call to forgive as we have been forgiven.

• Forgiveness is about your healing, not about the other person
• Unforgiveness is like a wound that never heals
• Forgiving yourself is just as important as forgiving others
• Even people in our faith communities can hurt us - they're human too
• Forgiveness doesn't excuse the behavior, but it frees you from its grip

This episode is part of a larger series on emotions that single moms often face. I encourage you to listen to the related episodes on anger, fear, and worry for a more comprehensive understanding of these challenges.

As we conclude, I extend an invitation for connection and further discussion. Whether you're seeking mentorship or simply want to share your thoughts on this topic, I'm here to listen and support you on your journey towards healing and forgiveness.

Related Episodes:

Why Are You Angry [Season 7| Episode 40]

What Would You Do If You Weren't Afraid? [Season 7 | Episode 41]

Is Worry The Thief of Your Peace? [Season 7 | Episode 42]

Trusting Jesus: The Ultimate Stress Relief for Single Moms [Season 7 | Episode 45]

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Debbie Weiss opens up about her 40-year caregiving experience, the wake-up call that led to her prioritizing self-care, and the mindset shifts that changed her life. She offers valuable insights for solo moms and caregivers who feel like they're constantly starting over and struggling to find balance.

• The importance of recognizing and addressing caregiver burnout
• How a simple weekend getaway can spark a journey of self-discovery
• Practical tips for adding joy to your life through small, manageable steps
• The power of gratitude in shifting perspective and finding fulfillment
• Strategies for overcoming a victim mentality and taking control of your life

Debbie also shares her personal struggles with fertility, raising a child with special needs, and losing her husband - experiences that have shaped her resilience and compassion. Her story serves as a reminder that it's never too late to prioritize your own well-being and pursue your dreams.

• Implement a simple gratitude practice that can transform your outlook
• Identify and embrace the small joys in your daily life
• Shift your mindset from victim to empowered individual
• Make time for self-care, even with a busy schedule

Whether you're a solo mom, a caregiver, or someone feeling stuck in life, this episode offers hope, practical advice, and inspiration to help you reclaim your joy and purpose.

Remember, as Debbie says, quoting Glinda the Good Witch: "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself."

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Overview

Are you a single mom navigating the complex world of finances after a major life transition? In this episode, I sit down with Jennifer Lee, founder of Modern Wealth, to discuss crucial financial strategies for women in transition.

Jennifer, affectionately known as "Aunt Jen," shares her wealth of experience in guiding women through financial crossroads. With 29 years in the financial services industry, she brings a unique perspective to help demystify money matters for those who feel intimidated by the topic.

• Discover the importance of having money conversations before entering new relationships
• Learn the first three steps to take when suddenly in charge of finances
• Understand how to live with purpose while feeling stuck in survival mode
• Explore the concept of the "Family Love Letter" and its significance

Jennifer emphasizes the value of assessing your financial situation, finding trusted advisors, and understanding your discretionary income. She also introduces her book, "Squeeze the Juice," which offers an accessible approach to financial concepts for those new to money management.

• Assess your assets and gather all financial information
• Find a trusted party to help you navigate your finances
• Determine your discretionary income for personal choices
• Consider writing a "Family Love Letter" to communicate important information to loved ones

This episode provides invaluable insights for single moms looking to take control of their financial future. Jennifer's approachable style and practical advice offer a beacon of hope if you're feeling overwhelmed by your financial circumstances.

Don't miss this opportunity to gain financial clarity and empowerment. Tune in to hear Jennifer's full interview and start your journey towards financial confidence today.

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