Unlocking Deeper Connections & Overcoming Trauma with Sonya Figueiredo

See the full conversation at https://youtu.be/JFLM-8xD07Y

In this insightful episode of The Science of Self, host Russell interviews Sonya Figueiredo, founder of Mindful Transitions. Sonya shares her personal journey that led her to start her coaching business, focusing on professional women in the corporate world. She emphasizes the importance of addressing deeper issues, breaking through personal barriers, and fostering genuine connections in all facets of life. Sonya discusses the difference between coaching and therapy, the significance of understanding one's 'why,' and practical tips for self-improvement and daily routines. Learn how to navigate life's challenges and improve your relationships from the inside out.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:22 Sonya's Journey to Mindful Transitions

02:26 Understanding Trauma and Coaching

04:25 Purpose and Self-Discovery

06:32 Self-Improvement Courses and Techniques

13:20 Daily Routines and Habits

16:13 Final Thoughts and Closing

00:00:25 Welcome to Social Skills Coaching

00:00:37 Our featured book today is Practical Intelligence

00:05:05 Two Systems of Thought

00:08:25 Skepticism and critical thinking

00:16:30 Takeaways

Practical Intelligence: How to Think Critically, Deconstruct Situations, Analyze Deeply, and Never Be Fooled By Patrick King

Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/practicalintelligenceking

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08263KGHK

Neuroscience-proven guidelines to think, act, and become smarter ASAP. It’s not what you know, it’s how you think.

You've been fooled before. You've missed things. You've been slow on the uptake and others have passed you by. Radically transform your thinking for both speed AND accuracy.

Think quickly on your feet to solve problems, overcome obstacles, and win arguments.

Practical Intelligence is not a common “think smarter” book. No, it starts from biological bases of analytical thinking, and how we can re-program ourselves for deep insight. This book provides real, actionable tool after tool, because smart thinking is all about HOW, and not why or what. The bottom line is that you’ll be able to apply this book’s thinking models immediately, until they become habit.

Better decision-making, smarter reasoning, and greater mental clarity.

Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author. He has sold over a million books. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience.

Learn to ask the intelligent questions, draw insight, and analyze situations.

•How the body and brain must work together for quick thinking.•What it truly means to think deeply and analyze.•How to think about your thinking, and the obstacles that short circuit your good intentions.

Science-based techniques to train your brain for optimal performance.

•Mental models for optimal decision-making.

•How to train your brain for speed.

•Tips for divergent and creative thinking - generating ideas.

Never get fooled again and find the truth in situations quickly.

At first glance, most things seem fine. And maybe ignorance is bliss. But to think clearly, deeply, quickly, and effectively - you’ll discover just how much of your life you have been missing, for better or worse.

This is the fourth book in the “Clear Thinking and Fast Action” series as listed below:1. The Science of Getting Started: How to Beat Procrastination, Summon Productivity, and Stop Self-Sabotage2. The Art of Clear Thinking: Mental Models for Better Reasoning, Judgment, Analysis, and Learning. Upgrade Your Intellectual Toolkit.3. 10-Minute Philosophy: From Buddhism to Stoicism, Confucius and Aristotle - Bite-Sized Wisdom From Some of History’s Greatest Thinkers4. Practical Intelligence: How to Think Critically, Deconstruct Situations, Analyze Deeply, and Never Be Fooled5. Learn To Think Using Thought Experiments: How to Expand Your Mental Horizons, Understand Metacognition, Improve Your Curiosity, and Think Like a Philosopher6. Take Rapid Action: Get Productive, Motivated, & Energized; Stop Overthinking & Procrastinating7. Relentless Focus: 27 Small Tweaks to Beat Procrastination, Skyrocket Productivity, Outsmart Distractions, & Do More in Less Time.

Finding Joy through Helping Others: Insights from Iuri Melo on Wellness and Prevention

See the full conversation at https://youtu.be/S8-vJTRqQHw

In this episode, Iuri Melo, a licensed clinical social worker and co-founder of School Pulse, shares valuable insights on improving wellness through 'other care' and proactive prevention. He discusses the impactful journey of creating School Pulse in response to a student suicide crisis in Utah, emphasizing the importance of connection and proactive engagement. The conversation also touches on the significance of maintaining a positive mindset, the power of relationships, and key habits for personal success. Tune in to learn strategies for fostering joy, meaning, and resilience in life.

00:00 Introduction to Creating Misery and Wellness

00:46 Meet Iuri Melo: Licensed Clinical Social Worker

01:30 The Genesis of School Pulse

03:18 Proactive Engagement and Support

05:10 The Power of Optimism and Relationships

08:03 Habits for Success and Well-being

11:19 Final Thoughts and Parting Words

How Proactive Mental Health Strategies Can Transform Lives | Interview with Iuri Melo

Join us in this insightful episode where we talk to Iuri Melo, a licensed clinical social worker and co-founder of School Pulse. Iuri shares his transformative journey from working as a psychotherapist to co-founding a proactive mental health service aimed at improving student wellness. He delves into the importance of shifting from just intervention to proactive care, the role of positive psychology, and how involving students in engaging activities like adventure therapy can significantly improve their mental health. Discover how other-care can be a more effective mood booster than self-care and the unparalleled importance of community and connections in fostering wellbeing.

Join us for a lively conversation as Russell Newton sits down with Iuri Melo, a licensed clinical social worker and co-founder of School Pulse, to explore the world of positive psychology, growth mindset, and personal development. We dive into how social skills, charisma, and emotional wellness can transform student success and everyday life.

Throughout the episode, we touch on the power of CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy), the importance of relationships, and how being proactive about mental health and wellness can make a real difference. Iuri shares insights from his experience with adventure therapy and climbing therapy, and we discuss practical ways to build resilience, presence, and likability.

We also chat about the influence of thought leaders like Eckhart Tolle (The Power of Now), Viktor Frankl, Stephen Covey (Seven Habits), and Tony Robbins, and how their ideas can inspire self-improvement, leadership, and empowerment. Whether you’re interested in habit stacks, miracle mornings, or just want to boost your productivity and emotional wellness, this episode is packed with evidence-based advice and real-world stories.

Tune in for a casual, inspiring discussion that will leave you ready to thrive, not just survive!

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00:01:16 Chapter 2. Situational Riddles

00:02:23 The Man in the Bar

00:06:14 Death in a Field

00:10:10 An Unusual Birth

00:13:49 Adam and Eve

00:16:44 A Woman Shoots her Husband

00:23:06 Takeaway

Learn to Think Using Riddles, Brain Teasers, and Wordplay: Develop a Quick Wit, Think More Creatively and Cleverly, and Train your Problem-Solving instincts By Patrick King

Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/usingriddles

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08CD33V2S

Tired of thinking in the same old box? Want to sharpen your mind and become a creative problem-solving powerhouse? 🧠 Then you NEED to dive into the world of riddles, brain teasers, and wordplay! In this video, we're exploring the incredible power of "Learn To Think Using Riddles" by Patrick King, a book that will revolutionize the way you approach challenges.

We'll tackle some mind-bending riddles, like the classic "Newton's Magicians," which force us to question our assumptions and think outside the box (literally!). Prepare to be challenged as we explore:

Discover Your Inner Satisfaction with Cary Prejean | The Science of Self Podcast

See the full conversation at https://youtu.be/9Eva0A2oKRI

In this episode of 'The Science of Self,' we welcome Cary Prejean, an experienced business consultant and CPA, to talk about personal satisfaction and growth. Cary shares his journey from the financial world to coaching business owners on doubling profits and structuring successful businesses. However, this episode is not just about business; it's about discovering what truly satisfies you in life. Cary explains the importance of defining satisfaction, being your authentic self, valuing environments where you're appreciated, and distinguishing the narratives that shape you. He provides valuable insights on living a fulfilling life filled with joy, gratitude, and ambition. Learn how to cultivate a mindset that empowers you to achieve personal and professional growth. Tune in to redefine your life's satisfaction!

00:00 Embrace Your True Self

00:37 Introduction to Our Guest: Cary Prejean

01:05 The Importance of Financial Literacy for Business Owners

02:39 Connecting Business Strategies to Personal Growth

02:56 Defining Satisfaction and Happiness

06:16 The Role of Coaches in Personal and Professional Development

09:37 Understanding Your Unique Value

14:28 Habits for a Rewarding Life

18:16 Final Thoughts and Farewell

00:03:33 A 2009 paper by Aram and Aviram

00:04:11 A 2014 Journal of Applied Social Psychology article by Capozza

00:09:38 Tip 1: Choose Your Fiction Wisely

00:11:10 Tip 2: Sample Widely

00:12:52 Tip 3: Read ACTIVELY

00:15:39 Tip 4: Be Discerning

Train Your Empathy: How to Cultivate the Single Most Important Relationship Skill By: Patrick King

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https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BDXLTRD2

This video dives deep into the profound insights from Patrick King's book, Train Your Empathy: How to Cultivate the Single Most Important Relationship Skill. In a world increasingly defined by digital distance and misunderstanding, King offers a powerful and practical guide to enhancing our capacity for emotional intelligence and human connection. This is more than just a book recommendation; it's a call to action to develop the foundational skill that underpins all successful relationships, both personal and professional.

Drawing on concepts from psychology and brain science, King breaks down complex ideas into actionable steps. He emphasizes that empathy isn't an innate trait but a skill that can be trained and honed, much like any other. This video explores key themes from the book, including the distinction between emotional empathy, cognitive empathy, and compassionate empathy. We look at how understanding these different forms can dramatically improve our social intelligence and our ability to navigate diverse perspectives.

One of the most compelling aspects of King’s approach is his focus on applied social psychology. He moves beyond theory to provide concrete exercises and frameworks. For instance, he discusses the role of storytelling and literary fiction as powerful tools for developing perspective-taking. He argues that by actively engaging with well-developed characters, we can practice stepping into someone else's shoes, a process that strengthens the same neural pathways we use for real-life understanding. This perspective is echoed in the work of Doctor Sara Konrath, whose research highlights the neurological benefits of reading and its link to increased empathy.

This video also touches on how to apply these principles in various contexts. For social skills coaching, the book provides a robust framework for improving communication and building rapport. Whether you're a leader aiming to foster a more compassionate and understanding team culture or an individual seeking to deepen your personal relationships, the lessons from Train Your Empathy are invaluable. King’s insights are practical, helping us to move beyond passive understanding and into active compassion.

We also explore the connections between empathy and diversity. The book illustrates how a heightened sense of empathy allows us to bridge gaps and connect with individuals from different backgrounds and experiences. This capacity for understanding is crucial for building a more inclusive and harmonious society. The work of Russell Newton and Saffron Dreams, along with Faizan and Shaila Abdullah, highlights the importance of cultural understanding and the power of narrative in fostering human connection. Their literary fiction often serves as a powerful medium for developing these very skills, showcasing the practical application of reading psychology.

The video outlines several techniques presented in the book, such as "read actively" exercises, which encourage us to analyze characters and their motivations to build empathy. We also discuss how to overcome common obstacles to empathy, such as confirmation bias and egocentrism. Patrick King Consulting’s philosophy, which is embedded in the book, is all about transforming theoretical knowledge into real-world results.

By the end of this video, you will have a clear understanding of why empathy is not just a soft skill but a critical

The Mindset of Lifelong Learning with Dr. Carmen Bell

See the full conversation at https://youtu.be/v9nuF6CBdic

In this episode of The Science of Self, host Russell welcomes Dr. Carmen Bell to discuss the importance of maintaining a mindset of continuous learning and growth throughout life. Dr. Carmen shares insights on professional and personal development, emphasizing the value of always being open to new opportunities and knowledge. She highlights the differences between formal continuing education and a lifelong learner's mindset. Additionally, Dr. Carmen dives into how to identify and overcome blind spots in your career and personal life, as well as tips for effectively seeking feedback and striving for true leadership. The episode concludes with personal anecdotes about Dr. Carmen's daughter, a successful Harvard student, showcasing the impact of a strategic and supportive upbringing.

00:00 Introduction to Lifelong Learning

00:37 Welcoming Dr. Carmen Bell

01:55 Defining Continuing Professional Education

03:42 The Growth Mindset

04:54 Identifying and Overcoming Blind Spots

07:02 Leadership and Career Advancement

09:33 Discussing Personal Development

12:20 Dr. Carmen's Daughter and Parenting Insights

14:10 Navigating College Admissions

00:02:14 Chapter 2. Core Beliefs and Automatic Thoughts

00:05:15 Where Lack of Confidence Comes

00:13:31 See if you can notice any of these patterns in your own thinking

00:23:27 Takeaway

The Confidence Formula: May Cause: Lower Self-Doubt, Higher Self-Esteem, and Comfort In Your Own Skin (Be Confident and Fearless Book 8) By: Patrick King

Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/ConfidenceFormulaKing

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0994VF5XH

Join us as we dive into Patrick King's book, "The Confidence Formula: A Cognitive Model for Building Unshakable Self-Confidence." In this episode, host Russell Newton, of Russell Newtown MG, explores the roots of insecurity and how to transform negative self-beliefs into a solid foundation of confidence. Learn practical strategies from Dr. David M. Clark's cognitive model to identify and challenge your insecurities, such as rumination, lack of confidence, social anxiety, and fear of public speaking. Understand the importance of self-monitoring and safety behaviors while exploring the role of automatic thoughts in shaping our expectations and core beliefs. Discover how to reframe your negative bias filter to embrace positive communication skills and strengthen your emotional immune system. If you struggle with self-doubt, fear of social interactions, or a lack of confidence, this episode is for you. Learn how The Confidence Formula can help you break free from the cycle of insecurity and live a more confident and fearless life.

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