Dating in 2025 feels like a part-time job with no benefits and we’re not the only ones who feel that way. In this episode, we sit down with magnetic matchmaker and relationship expert Spicy Mari to unpack dating burnout, sneaky links, and why so many women are over the bare-minimum energy that modern dating serves up.

From navigating situationships and hookup culture to reclaiming standards, self-worth, and emotional clarity, this convo goes deep and gets real.

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You’re doing it all! Thriving on paper, but deep down wondering if it actually means anything. In this honest convo, attorney and ROM8 Wellness founder Chanae Wood opens up about burnout, body image, and the pressure to always perform. We explore the emotional cost of ambition, the role of faith in healing, and how to reconnect with purpose when success no longer feels fulfilling.

Perfect for any woman who's ever asked herself, “Is this really for me… or for everyone else?”

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Why are we all suddenly obsessed with smutty romance novels and what does that say about what women? We site down with Leah Hultenschmidt, VP and Publisher at Forever (Hachette Book Group), to talk about the rise of spicy reads, the power of BookTok, and how steamy stories are helping women reclaim their pleasure, their voice, and their standards. From many New York Times Bestsellers to the secret sauce behind a good slow burn, this conversation is smart, sexy, and full of insider gems for readers and aspiring writers.