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How do romance novelists actually write steamy love scenes that feel sexy, believable, and impossible to put down? In this episode of Slut in Training, Missy, Tania & Jordan sit down with a romance novelist to talk about what really goes into writing chemistry, attraction, tension, and unforgettable love scenes on the page.

We get into what inspires her, how writers create emotional and physical tension that actually lands, and why the best romance scenes are about so much more than just spice. From romance novels to the art of writing desire, intimacy, and fantasy, this conversation is funny, smart, and full of insight for readers, writers, and anyone obsessed with a good love story.

We also talk about:

• What inspires steamy romance scenes
• Why readers are so drawn to romance and fantasy
• What makes a love scene feel believable and hot

If you love romance novels, spicy books, writing, BookTok, love scenes, and behind-the-scenes conversations with authors, this episode is for you.

Topics include:
romance novelist, spicy books, romance novels, steamy love scenes, writing romance, chemistry in fiction, BookTok books, romance author interview, and what inspires writers.

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On this episode of Slut in Training, Missy, Tania & Jordan talk about how to feel confident in your clothes, dating confidence, and modern relationships with fashion curator Janet Mandell.

Based in Chicago, she is the founder of a luxury fashion rental showroom that she built from scratch — and later expanded to Los Angeles and New York, dressing celebrities for major red carpet events.

Janet shares how she launched her luxury wardrobe business, why vintage designer fashion is having a massive comeback (with help from Kim Kardashian), and how the right outfit can completely change how confident — and sexy — you feel.

They also get into:
• why vintage fashion rentals are exploding right now
• the psychology of feeling confident in your clothes
• the outfits that actually work in the bedroom (and the ones that don’t)
• and how Janet navigates an unconventional relationship dynamic that works for her.

If you’ve ever wondered how style, confidence, dating, and sexuality intersect, this conversation will change the way you think about your closet.

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What really happens behind the curtain of med spas, and aesthetic treatments?

In this episode of Slut in Training, Missy, Tania and Jordan sit down with an aesthetic nurse who has worked both in the operating room alongside plastic surgeons and in the world of med spas. She shares what it's actually like assisting in procedures like revision rhinoplasties, facelifts, and Brazilian Butt Lifts (BBLs)—including the risks, scarring, and the techniques doctors use to make them safer.

They also break down Med Spa 101, from Botox, filler, microneedling, chemical peels, laser hair removal, and skincare routines to the latest beauty trends and viral treatments like snail mucin, beef tallow skincare, salmon DNA facials, and “glass skin.”

The conversation also gets into the world of regenerative medicine and sexual wellness treatments, including P-shots, O-shots, and other procedures designed to improve libido, sexual function, and confidence.

And because this is Slut in Training, there are plenty of wild stories from the treatment room—including the most unusual patient requests and a truly unforgettable penis filler story.

If you’ve ever wondered:
• what an aesthetic nurse actually does
• which cosmetic procedures are trending right now
• the truth about Botox, filler, and skincare myths
• how sexual wellness treatments like PRP injections work
• and how beauty and confidence are connected

This episode pulls back the curtain on the world of modern aesthetic medicine.

Happy skin!

Timestamps - Episode Highlights
0:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the episode – The Everything Shower
3:42 – Gabby (Anonymous) and her background – from Aesthetic nurse in the operating room - working with small dick energy surgeons – to Med Spa and all things beaty
5:10 – Experiences working with plastic surgeons on revision rhinoplasties, facelift deep planning, BBL (Brazilian butt lifts), etc.
6:30 – BBL, dangers, and scarring explained – cannula versus traditional incisions
7:20 – Silicone gel – you best friend when dealing with surgical scarring – especially Asian/ethnic scarring and keloids
8:42 – Med Spa 101 – Botox, filler, microneedling, laser hair removal, facials, chemical peels, sexual health, wellness IV’s and vitamin shots – best of inner and outer beauty
9:27 – Regenerative medicine – treatments using your own blood to help rejuvenate the skin and improve libido
9:57 – Expert advice on skincare 101 – confidence regimen – adult acne, wrinkles,
glowing – less is always more!!! Gentle cleanser based on skin type – dry, combination, or oily skin
11:20 – New and weirdest skincare trends – Beef Tallow! Snail mucin, Salmon
Polynucleotide DNA (Salmon sperm), Glass Skin treatments
13:35 – Beauty myths – Botox, Xeomin, & Disport injected into your masseters can’t really change your face to get a snatched jawline
15:20 – Most popular sexual health request for women – Vaginoplasty or labiaplasty - Face lift for your vagina! Got popular after Secret Life of Mormon Wives (Season 1, Episode 6) ––
19:47 – P shots (Priapus Shot) - penis filler to enhance girth with hyaluronic acid
23:37 – O shot (Orgasm Shot) – vaginal, labia, and clitoral injections of PRP (Platelet rich plasma) from your own blood
29:18 – Crazy client story about Penis filler!
31:43 – what advice would you give your younger self? Don’t take everything so
seriously!

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What really happens inside sex therapy sessions? In this episode of Slut in Training, we chat with Los Angeles sex therapist, Moushumi Ghose, to talk about intimacy, desire gaps, sexual confidence, and the conversations couples avoid but desperately need to have.

From dry spells and mismatched libido to dirty talk, surrogate partner therapy, and reclaiming sexual power, we break down what people are actually struggling with behind closed doors — and how to communicate better in relationships and the bedroom.

We also discuss why Los Angeles has become a hub for surrogate partner therapy, why many couples struggle to talk about sex openly, and practical tips for keeping intimacy alive in both new and long-term relationships.

If you've ever wondered how couples navigate awkwardness, reignite desire, or talk about what they really want in bed — this episode goes there.

You're welcome!

Timestamps

00:00 – Welcome to the show + Slutty Word of the Day: Rainbow Kiss
03:39 – Becoming a sex therapist
06:58 – Why most couples seek sex therapy: desire disparity & dry spells
08:58 – The first question therapists ask: whose problem is it?
09:31 – Identifying what couples actually want to change
10:36 – Different types of practitioners: sex psychotherapists vs surrogate partners
11:20 – Why Los Angeles is the hub for surrogate partner therapy
13:41 – Surrogate partner therapy in Israel
14:08 – Why sex workers often do the “front line” emotional labor
14:27 – The most popular service in Nevada brothels: the girlfriend experience
14:56 – Reclaiming the word “slut” and sexual empowerment
15:49 – Overcoming awkwardness when sleeping with someone new
18:25 – Keeping sex exciting in long-term relationships
20:18 – Talking openly about attraction and fantasy
23:43 – Getting aligned on what you want your future to look like
25:44 – Creating a shared sexual vocabulary with your partner
27:00 – A real couple’s dry spell: rebuilding intimacy step by step
28:07 – Why dirty talk feels awkward (and how to get better at it)
30:50 – Pushing past shame and stigma around sex
32:45 – What a sex therapist would tell their younger self about relationships

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www.pleasurepsych.com

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Instagram: @moshumighosemft

Facebook: Moushumi Ghose

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Join Missy, Jordan, and Tania as we chat with Bonnie Gross, award-winning screenwriter/executive producer whose personal journey became a full-on movie: LADY PARTS.

In this episode, she reveals how she took on her inability to have intercourse, her diagnosis with Vaginismus Pelvic Floor Dysfunction, her journey to sexual health, and took the big risk to share her lived experience with the world. The result of betting on herself is a script that captured audiences and won awards, including Austin Film Festival.

Whether you connect with Bonnie on her health challenges or are into storytelling, or just want inspiration to start your own creative leap…this interview is gold.

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Timestamps - Episode Highlights

00:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the day - Butter Churner

01:10 – Introducing Bonnie – vaginal healthcare and sexuality comedy writer

03:59 – Turning personal experience into the film “LADY PARTS”

05:30 – It all started with a blog post

07:57 – Crafting the film: from opening scene to executive producer role

08:50 – Vaginismus Pelvic Floor Dysfunction and dealing with a tampon

10:31 – What it’s like to be the writer, screenwriter, executive producer & so much more

12:15 – Vestibulectomy – the only one on set with that experience

12:22 – Common link to director with Vaginismus and the use of dilators – 2 perspectives

13:47 – Mantra - if there is no seat at the dinner table – bring a damn folding chair!

14:02 – Dildos versus dilators (the Russian dildos) and taking care of your pelvic floor

15:48 – An orgasm a day keeps the PT away!

16:28 – Bring toys to the bedroom – we love them – if it brings you pleasure then do it

17:54 – Tell us about casting yourself in a movie and reliving your experience on set

23:10 – How filmmaking transformed Bonnie’s dating life and intimacy

27:15 – What did you learn making this movie that you can now take into the bedroom

30:30 – Beauty of their set – leaning in – not making it awkward even in the sex dungeon

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https://bonnie-gross.com

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What do tarot cards reveal about love, dating, and the patterns we repeat in relationships?

In this episode of Slut in Training, Missy, Tania and Jordan sit down with a Hollywood tarot reader and intuitive advisor, Mischel Peterson, who reads everyone from everyday clients to celebrities. From psychic insights and cannabis ceremonies that open unexpected portals to the truth behind tarot cards like the Knight of Cups, The Devil, and The Sun, this conversation dives deep into the spiritual side of dating, intimacy, and self-awareness.

We talk about why great readings don’t start with questions, how tarot lays your life out on the table so you can see it clearly, and why people are far more romantic than they want to admit. Whether you’re navigating open relationships, exploring sexuality, or trying to understand dating patterns across generations, this episode reveals how intuition and tarot can guide your love life.

Plus: palm reading basics, the surprising advice tarot gives about dating, and why the key to relationships might simply be learning to “act like an orange so you can meet another orange.”

If you’re curious about tarot, spirituality, relationships, and modern dating, this episode is for you.

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Timestamps - Episode Highlights
0:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the episode – Sneaky Link
2:42 – How tarot readings are done – private sessions versus corporate events
3:56 – Working with a psychic Shaman – Who is that angel behind you?
4:48 – Normally weed is food, sex and dancing – Cannabis Ceremony opened a portal!
5:43 – How much info do you get before a reading? NONE – Why I don’t take questions
7:35 – Your reading is your people telling you what’s best for you versus what you think you need to get out of this moment
8:06 – Reading is taking your life and put in on the table so you can see it and have
command over it!
10:41 – What patterns come up related to intimacy and different ages and generations?
11:26 – Younger people dealing with open relationships, defining their sexuality, and belonging versus exploring possibilities
12:32 – Make mistakes! Date lots of people, travel and slut around, date someone from a different country
13:00 – Working with a throuple
15:57 – Reading for someone famous – blocking out what I think I know about them
17:42 – People are way more romantic than they want to let on – more about love than sex
19:45 – The Tarot cards for dating advice – Knight of Cups – “Mr. Right Now”
Devil – “Instant gratification out of fear” Knight of Wands - “You should be having fun now!” Ace of Wands – “What are you throwing out there?” Sun – “Sun comes out and clears up everything – free expression”
23:31 – Palm readings 101 – hand analysis versus palmistry, and fingerprint readings
25:13 – Dating advice – if you are an orange – act like an orange so you can meet
another orange

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Learn more about Mischel Peterson!
www.mischelstruth.com
Facebook @mischelstruth
Instagram @mischelstruth

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How do you start an OnlyFans anonymously… and actually make money? This week on Slut in Training, Missy, Tania & Jordan sit down with Uma, an anonymous OnlyFans creator, content entrepreneur, and online hustler, to talk about how she pivoted careers, built a niche audience, protected her identity, and chased the dream of making money on OnlyFans.

We get into the biggest misconceptions about OnlyFans, how to promote your page through social media and OFTV, whether agencies are worth it, and the smartest ways to stay private using AI tools, location blocking, and content strategy. Uma also spills on how she handles unruly subscribers, what actually works to look hot on camera, the weirdest and wildest DM requests, and how niche fetishes can become serious business.

If you’ve ever wondered how creators make money on OnlyFans, how to find your niche, what subscribers really ask for, or how to stay anonymous while building a profitable adult content brand… this episode is for you.

From special requests, humiliation content, and fetish fans to monthly income, content ideas, and creator boundaries, this one is funny, unfiltered, and full of practical gems.

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Timestamps - Episode Highlights

0:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the episode – Boofing

2:26 – Anonymous OnlyFans performer, content creator, and entrepreneur introduction - Uma
5:20 – How Uma made the switch in her career and work to OnlyFans – chasing the opportunity of a $1,000,000 salary her first year
6:24 – What advice do you have for women who want to support themselves/their family
7:00 – Use Social Media or OFTV (Like Youtube) to promote your unique niche and
page
8:42 – Agencies can help you get started on OnlyFans
9:58 – OnlyFans misconceptions
10:58 – How to protect your identity on OnlyFans using AI tools and blocking out your home state
11:36 – Amazing way to deal with unruly subscribers – Canva Flyer, required $100 tip, and restricted access!
13:18 – Secret to looking effortlessly hot on camera – lash extensions & editing apps!
15:00 – Weirdest DM’s and how Uma responds
16:16 – Surprising way Uma comes up with fresh content and ideas
17:56 – What special treat outfit ideas turn on your subscribers
20:53 – What request should be banned because it is so ridiculous
22:21 – Most common and favorite humiliation requests she get from her fans
25:43 – Sex Panther is a site for fetishes – Uma wants to use it for humiliation and shit talking
27:31 – Uma’s fees for special requests
28:52 – Lesbian fans request sucker toy videos
30:06 – Dumbest request Uma did for an armpit fan with a tickle fetish
34:22 – What Uma makes in a good month and an average month
35:15 – The BOP house OnlyFans account making crazy money

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What really happens behind the scenes of sex scenes in Hollywood? This week on Slut in Training, we sit down with Los Angeles–based Intimacy Coordinator Olivia Ku to break down how your favorite on-screen hookups are choreographed, negotiated, and safely executed.

From working with actors on set to navigating consent, boundaries, and communication, Olivia shares how she got started after witnessing a lack of preparation for intimate scenes early in her acting career—and how that led her to support performers through trauma-informed practices and professional intimacy coordination.

We get into the full process of filming a “steamy” scene, what’s actually in an intimacy kit, how modesty garments and barriers work, and the surprising (and sometimes ridiculous) realities of choreographing everything from kissing rules (tongue or no tongue) to simulated sex scenes.

We also talk about:

• The rise of vertical dramas and short-form romance content
• Common misconceptions about intimacy coordinators (hint: not the “sex police”)
• The most awkward, unsexy, and bizarre moments on set
• How directors, actors, and coordinators collaborate
• And how to bring cinematic-level communication and consent into your own sex life

If you’ve ever wondered how actors film sex scenes, what goes into intimacy coordination, or how to create better communication and chemistry in relationships—this episode pulls back the curtain in the most entertaining way possible.

Enjoy!

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Timestamps - Episode Highlights
0:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the episode – Tallahassee Night Train
2:06 – Olivia Ku introduction – Los Angeles based Intimacy Coordinator
3:46 – How Olivia got started:
- A young actor on TNT - “1000 Ways to Die” – asked to make out in a scene
without any advance discussion
- Social media influencer in health and wellness space
- Supporting survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault
6:33 – A lot of BDSM stories are happening now in the vertical world
7:53 – SAG has a list of accredited Intimacy Coordinating training organizations
8:04 – What is it like to be on set for a very steaming scene?
9:35 – Olivia can’t tell actors what they need – she’s here to listen to what each actor needs
10:40 – Olivia’s involvement also depends on the Director’s approach
11:53 – What’s in a full intimacy kit!
12:09 – What goes into the process of creating an intimacy scene
15:20 – Verticals – 60 second Soap-opera like dramas to watch on your cell phone
17:26 – Tell us about Modesty Garments
19:10 – Weirdest object Olivia used on set as a modesty barrier
20:28 – Do actors ever get too into the role? Tongue versus no tongue kissing!
22:41 – Have you ever had to coach a sex scene that was painfully unsexy?
24:16 – Most ridiculous locations - from mansions to up against a bookshelf
25:48 – Awkwardness of choreographing simulated Oral Sex scenes
27:45 – Best choreographed oral sex scene – Bridgerton
27:53 – Favorite intimacy sex scene in a movie – Titanic
30:29 – Olivia would love to do more work in the Young Adult space and why!
33:33 – What actors should know before they start filming a sex or intimacy scene
35:32 – Common misconceptions about intimacy coordinators:
- Not the sex police OR HR!
- She is there for everyone – not just the lead actors
- Specific in

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