Lately, I’ve been feeling like dating just doesn’t work the way it used to.

It’s not about doing something wrong or being too picky… things just don’t seem to work the same anymore. Something about it feels off — inconsistent, unclear and harder to navigate.

In this episode, I talk through what dating actually feels like right now — from the lack of real effort to the confusion that comes with mixed signals — and why I don’t think we’re really acknowledging how much it’s changed.

Sometimes it feels like we're not connecting or meeting each other fully in dating — even when we’re trying.

In this episode, I get into some of the things I’ve been noticing on dates — what I can't get past, what I think are red flags and what feels like the bare minimum.

I also share what I’m looking for — the things that feel simple, but for some reason have been hard to find.

And of course, a few stories.

It's a little bit of a vent — but probably a relatable one.

This birthday felt like a special one. Not because it was a milestone — but because it was different.

Not bad, not perfect.. just not what I expected.

In this episode, I talk through what that brought up for me — the expectations, the chaos, the disappointments and the reflections that followed.

Less about the day itself, more about what it revealed.. and what I’m taking with me into this next year.