Are you a person that seems to always find the person that needs you in their life to help them get to where they need to be, and then once they are there they leave?? Congratulations, you already know this about yourself! What's next, you might ask? Well, you start by knocking it the hell off. Then you dig in and figure out why you feel the need to do it, because it comes from somewhere. Then you fix it, and pay attention to YOUR patterns and how to avoid making those same mistakes!

Music by Brendhan 'Maestro' Sears

People talk about being vulnerable, however they still maintain a "walls up" attitude when it comes to opening up. This does not work! It is a direct conflict and we get it, it's hard! It's a risk! You taking a chance on being hurt, again. The problem is, that's life and love. You can't move forward and find your forever person without being vulnerable, open and honest....to everything!

Music by Brendhan 'Maestro' Sears

The weight and influence that we allow social media to carry in our lives is beyond ridiculous. From perceived slights to nuanced likes or dislikes, so many people take these as real and then allow it to create issues in their lives and relationships. Not only friend/work/love relationships, but also our relationships with ourselves. It controls our thoughts and emotions and a lot of times doesn't or shouldn't be reflected as real life.

Music by Brendhan 'Maestro' Sears