Why Being Seen is the New Superpower with Visibility Expert Amanda Corvelle. Have you ever wondered if the reason you don't have what you say you want isn't that you're stuck—but because you're terrified of what happens when you actually get it?

We say we want more money, success, love, opportunities, and attention. But the moment we get close, we procrastinate, make excuses, play small, or wait for the perfect moment that never comes.

Maybe you're not stuck.

Maybe you're scared to be seen.

This week on Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with performance and visibility expert Amanda Corvelle, who spent more than 20 years in entertainment and built a seven-figure business helping people step into their power and become visible.

Amanda knows firsthand what it feels like to want the spotlight while secretly fearing it. Despite years as a performer, she struggled with intense stage fright and insecurity. Her biggest lesson? Confidence doesn't come before action. You build it through repetition, practice, and learning how to stay in the room when every part of you wants to run.

Together, Kerry and Amanda dive into why so many of us were trained to keep our heads down, work hard, and hope someone would eventually notice us—and why that model no longer works.

Because if people can't see you, they can't choose you.

Whether you're looking for love, growing a business, changing careers, building a personal platform, or simply trying to become the fullest version of yourself, visibility matters. But Amanda explains that being visible isn't about becoming someone you're not. It's about learning to authentically broadcast who you already are.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why social media comparison can make visibility feel more difficult than ever • How old stories and past experiences keep you playing small • Why your body may resist the success your mind says it wants • How body language can reveal whether you're truly ready to hold the room • Why confidence comes from reps—not waiting until you feel ready • How to build your "courage muscle" before your back is against the wall • Why being the face of your brand is no longer optional • Amanda's concept of your personal brand as an "energetic broadcast" • Why authenticity is more powerful than trying to keep up with everyone else • How video and visibility can create opportunities you never saw coming • Why people over 45 still have enormous opportunities to reinvent themselves • How visibility can transform not only your business—but your dating life and relationships • Why accountability and the right coach can help you bridge the gap between your potential and your reality

Your next opportunity might not come from working harder behind the scenes.

It might come from finally letting yourself be seen.

Because the camera doesn't lie. People can feel confidence. They can also feel hesitation, insecurity, and when you're holding yourself back.

So, the question is: What would happen if you stopped waiting to be discovered and started showing up?

The world is watching.

It's time to become visible.

Connect with Amanda Corvelle on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok at @amandacorvelle.

Listen to Shot At Love wherever you get your podcasts, and follow Kerry Brett for more conversations about love, confidence, reinvention, and creating the life you actually want.

Show notes summary

Are you really stuck—or are you scared to be seen?

This week on Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with performance and visibility expert Amanda Corvelle to talk about why so many of us play small just when we're ready for more. With over 20 years in entertainment and a seven-figure business, Amanda knows what it takes to move past fear, build confidence, and step into the spotlight.

They discuss why visibility is essential for creating new opportunities in business, love, and life; how old stories and insecurities keep us hidden; and why confidence doesn't come from waiting until you're ready—it comes from putting in the reps.

Because if people can't see you, they can't choose you.

If you've been waiting for the perfect moment to put yourself out there, this episode is your sign to stop hiding, build your courage muscle, and become visible.

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Bumble Just Broke Up With Bumble: How Will It Affect Your Dating Life? With Billionaires’ Matchmaker Gina Hendrix

In this episode of Shot at Love, Kerry Brett sits down with dating coach, author, former Hollywood celebrity stylist, and matchmaker Gina Hendrix to discuss a more intentional way to approach modern dating. Together, they unpack Bumble’s changed messaging rules, why a dating profile should be treated like a personal marketing campaign, and how to stop investing energy in low-effort matches.

Gina shares her “Swipe Like a Guy” philosophy, which is not about chasing more attention—it is about using feedback wisely, keeping standards high, and choosing people who demonstrate real interest. Kerry and Gina discuss the role of authentic, current photographs; the importance of looking beyond the “hottest” option; and why confidence, mindset, and proactive behavior can make a meaningful difference both online and in person.

In This Episode

• Why Bumble’s updated messaging structure changes the way daters can filter for genuine effort.
• How to stop confusing a match or a first message with a meaningful connection.
• Why your photographs and profile are your dating “marketing campaign.”
• The difference between attracting attention and choosing a compatible, invested partner.
• Gina’s two-part “Swipe Like a Guy” strategy for using profile feedback and swiping with intention.
• How to recognize low-effort openers and hold out for messages that show real interest.
• Why dating-app mindset matters—and how to stay patient during a slow stretch.
• How to create more opportunities offline by being friendly, visible, and open to conversation.

Key Takeaways:

Stop chasing validation and start choosing alignment. The right dating strategy is not about collecting matches; it is about presenting your best authentic self, filtering for effort, and giving your energy to the people who are genuinely showing up.

Timestamps

Gina Hendrix is a dating coach, author, former Hollywood celebrity stylist, and matchmaker. She is the host of Secrets They Only Tell a Matchmaker and the creator of The One in a Million Woman Advantage. She is also developing a dating app called Pretty People.

Connect with Gina

• Instagram: @matchmakerginahendrix
• Email: teamgina@ginahendrix.com

In this episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett talks with dating coach and matchmaker Gina Hendrix about how Bumble’s changing rules are reshaping modern dating—and why it is time to stop chasing and start choosing. Gina shares her “Swipe Like a Guy” philosophy, explaining how to use an intentional profile, authentic photos, clear standards, and real effort as filters for better matches. Together, Kerry and Gina discuss how to avoid getting distracted by surface-level attraction, recognize low-effort communication, stay grounded when dating apps feel discouraging, and focus your energy on people who genuinely show up. The message is simple: dating success is not about collecting attention; it is about presenting your best authentic self and choosing alignment, consistency, and substance.

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August Astrology: Eclipse Season, Lion's Gate, and Your Best Days for Love with Jill Jardine.

What if the month you're about to step into could completely change your life? August 2026 isn't just another month on the calendar—it's a massive cosmic turning point. We are standing on the edge between two timelines: the life we've outgrown and the one we are about to step into.

In this episode, our resident astrologer Jill Jardine returns to break down the intense cosmic energy heading our way. From the Lion's Gate Portal on 8/8 to two game-changing eclipses, the universe is moving the chess pieces, and we need to be ready. Jill explains why relationship endings might actually be divine intervention, how the shift of the lunar nodes is changing what we seek in partners, and why this is truly the "summer of love."

Whether you are navigating a breakup, looking for new love, or just trying to survive the cosmic chaos, this episode is packed with the guidance you need. We discuss why August is one of the most pivotal months of the year, the significance of the Lion's Gate Portal, and how the upcoming solar and lunar eclipses will force hidden truths to the surface. Jill also shares her powerful visualization technique for manifesting a partner and explains the "love fest effect" that is making it easier than ever to connect with new people. Be sure to stay tuned until the end, where Jill shares a personalized zodiac forecast revealing the best dating windows and lucky days for every sign!

For this week's dating tips, remember to throw out a wide net, be seen, and try something new and different. Ride the fast, magnetic energy of Leo season and close out the summer of love strong!

Connect with Jill Jardine

You can hear more from Jill by listening to her podcast, Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine, or subscribing to her YouTube channel at @jilljardine2186. To book a personal reading and see what the stars have in store for your love life and career, visit jilljardine.com.

Connect with Kerry Brett & Shot at Love

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