Welcome to Episode 446 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Inka Winter, who speaks to me about her journey from surviving a sex cult to pioneering feminist, female-gaze erotica that centers women’s pleasure and authentic consent.

Inka Winter is an erotic filmmaker and founder of ForPlay Films, an independent, all-woman porn production company. Spending her formative years living in an alternative artist commune in Austria gave Inka a critical eye for what constitutes sexy, consensual female pleasure and set the foundation for her creative endeavors in erotic filmmaking. Her background in costume design and styling informs her aesthetic and translates to the editorial feel of her films.

In our conversation, Inka opens up about growing up in an Austrian commune that devolved into an authoritarian sex cult. She describes the rigid hierarchy, the separation of children from parents, and the constant pressure to conform to cult-mandated ideas of “free love.” We discuss the lingering impact of early exposure to sexual activity, the leader’s eventual arrest, and the complex process of unraveling trauma, reclaiming agency, and seeking reparations decades later.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Childhood In Authoritarian Sex Cult

· Leader’s Arrest & Commune Collapse

· Processing Trauma Through Therapy

· Documentary Mirror Of Lived Reality

· From Fashion Design To Erotic Filmmaking

· Defining The Female Gaze On Screen

· Consent-Driven, Performer-Led Scenes

· Holistic Porn As Sex Education

· Debunking Porn “Addiction” Myths

· Empowering Women’s Pleasure & Fantasy

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Welcome to Episode 445 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Darshana Avila, who speaks to me about mindful masturbation as a form of self-care and erotic exploration.

In this conversation, Darshana and I dive into why so many of us default to the same quick, goal-oriented masturbation routine and how that habit is wired into our neural pathways. We explore the power of slowing down, setting an intention, and treating solo pleasure as a ritual, complete with an opening, body-centered exploration, and a conscious closing.

Best known for her contributions to Netflix's Sex, Love & goop, trauma informed,pleasure centric, culturally relevant erotic education is Darshana's sweet spot. Supporting women & queer community, individually or alongside their partners, is her deepest passion She's a certified Somatic Experiencing Practitioner & Sexological Bodyworker, guiding & serving through her private practice, public speaking & online offerings.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Defining Mindful Masturbation

· Neural Pathways And Habit Loops

· Intentional Rituals For Solo Sex

· Full-Body Touch Before Genitals

· Navigating Boredom And Plateaus

· Sensate Focus Vs. Visual Stimulation

· Fantasy As A Creative Arousal Tool

· Scheduling Familiar And New Practices

· Challenging Inner Critic Narratives

· Pleasure As Personal And Collective Liberation

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Welcome to Episode 444 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Lisa Schaefer VP of Marketing at Promescent, who speaks to me about the biggest trends reshaping sexual-health products and sex-tech innovation.

In the first half of the episode, I dive into three listener questions and unpack why fantasy is perfectly healthy, offer concrete scripts for sharing kinks without shame, and celebrate self-pleasure as a lifelong birth-right, while sprinkling in resources, exercises, and confidence-building tips you can try tonight.

Then, Lisa joins me to map out the fast-evolving landscape of pleasure products, from wearable vibrating rings that turn penis-owners into “hands-free” vibrators, to blood-flow-boosting arousal gels that help close the orgasm gap, to tech-driven “pleasure-mapping” apps and menopause-friendly solutions.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Listener Q&A On Fantasy & Orgasm

· Talking Cross-Dressing With Your Partner

· Celebrating A High Midlife Libido

· Why Fantasy Is Totally Normal

· Scripts To Share Your Kink Shame-Free

· Rise Of Wearable Male Vibrators

· Arousal Gels That Boost Blood Flow

· Pleasure-Mapping Apps & Sex Tech

· Menopause-Focused Products On The Horizon

· Communication As The Ultimate Toy

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